Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

Dude my eye is all blacke and blue and I have a cut on my lip. Do you think my mom will notice? She's tough and if she knows i got beet up she will be pissed with me!

2007-09-12 17:55:26 · 19 answers · asked by Ghimraab 2 in Family

There's a twist. Giving two separate ratings based on the following.
Rate yourself (1-10).
And give a rating (1-10) that you think others would give you.

1) As a husband or wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, significant other:
2) As a lover.
3) Rating your looks

Note: Add more if you think of one.

2007-09-12 17:53:27 · 14 answers · asked by byee77777 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is extremely problemed emotionally is paranoid can be an addict,but is also very accomplished-good body, intelligent,a good musician etc....If they do go for these types of men,why?

2007-09-12 17:52:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 3 years I have had a serious crush on a neighbor who lives around the corner. Usually I spot him in the neighborhood with his son. I never was 100% sure that he was involved with the mother because I rarely ever saw her, maybe 3x in 3 years while I would see the dad daily.
I am a single mom myself and our kids play together. I know he is attracted and I think he knows that I am too.

Today I mustered up the guts and walked up to him and made some small talk and I asked "I always wondered....are you in a situation.?" He said "Situation, what do you mean" and I went on to ask him if was together with his sons mom." He smiled and said"Yeah..." and I said well I didn't mean to disrespect your situation that but I always wanted to know'"and then we parted ways.

Did I handle that properly.? For some reason I feel rejected and ashamed I wish I could stay inside forever. I NEVER did anything like in my life!

Please advise. Thanks in advance

2007-09-12 17:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Brookyn 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been reading posts here about love without sex, etc and i always come across the same answer, "its always better without sex." Why? How come? Why is it more romantic, why is there more love if there is no sex? Just the sentence "If there is no sex then its Way Better, its true love, etc." i don't have any idea why people say a relationship is better without sex, do women detest sex so much? Why do you see a relationship without sex is better? I hope my question is clear.

2007-09-12 17:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

High school sweethearts, share 1yr old child.
He keeps saying he wants to change.
He is addicted to pot,binge drinking and gambling + recently started dabling in steroids.He lies to cover things up.
He's unstable-financialially and emotionally.
When is the right time to say thats enough?
It's been going on for years but i find it hard to turn away when he offers some kind of hope.

2007-09-12 17:49:11 · 10 answers · asked by Bobbi B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About a month ago, I started dating this guy. We hit it off immediately. He's sweet, smart, funny, nerdy, mature, and cute. Why on Earth would I have a problem?

Well, as things have become more serious, he's become much...um...mushier. Instead of getting along like before (talking, laughing, relating), almost everything he talks about relates to "us." How much he likes me, how happy he is, how much he can't wait to see me next. And always with the cuddling!

Okay, I know. I sound like a complete ingrate for even asking this. But it's not as if I don't like him; I like him very much. Believe me: I hate that this makes me so uncomfortable. It's just that all this over-sweetness and super-closeness is kind of stifling.

So is this just something that comes with a new relationship? Will he back off a little and go back to normal once the "newness" wears off? If I know that we can get back to relating like we did in the beginning (without so much mush), I'll be the happiest girl in town.

2007-09-12 17:48:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 17:43:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like this boy named isaiah and i have liked him since the 3rd grade but now were in 6th.he has a gf and has had her for 3years.but i really wanna go out with him.how do i make him like me?we have alot in common!

2007-09-12 17:43:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, and my boyfriend is coming over while my parents are not home tonight. I've done it with him before, but never during my period. Will this be bad? What will happen? Tell me everything, and please soon!!!

P.S. He knows I'm on my period, but says he doesn't care, he just wants me now.

2007-09-12 17:42:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has become aggressively disrespectful, not only to family, but also to peers in his social circle. He doesn't attend school regularly. Nor does he listen to any authoritative figures. He is using POT and alchohol. Recentely I discovered that perscription pills are being experimented with amongst his friends. He won't do what is asked of him. & when I discipline him, he blatentely defies me. I've reached the point of physically trying 2 pound the right back into his mentality & his decision making. I am a single divorced parent & I have three other kids, all his elders. Never have I had 2 resort 2 using physical force (abuse) with his siblings. There is a concern that this direction is only going to land me in jail along with everything that acompanies these type of offenses. My financial resources r already at capacity level & I reluctantely feel myself giving up on him. I already have continuos interruptions at work about his inability 2 get off 2 school. Or from the school staff.

2007-09-12 17:39:41 · 23 answers · asked by sweetpea 3 in Family

Do guys like it when girls tell them how they feel about them? A friend of mine said a girl should NEVER approach a guy and I'm wondering if all guys feel this way?

2007-09-12 17:39:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats everyone's opinion?

2007-09-12 17:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-12 17:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 17:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by Tony D 2 in Singles & Dating

Before anyone calls me a dirty name, we are seperated and have been for the past couple of weeks but I met up with this guy at work who is also seperated from his wife and we started talking about how horrible it is to be apart from our spouses and one thing led to another. This is the second time I've done something like this in the past week, the othe r time I just did something to a guy I hardly knew at a club but this time was different because it was full of emotions. I know I kind of cheated but now I'm thinking rather or not I should tell my husband because I'm really attracted to the other guy.

2007-09-12 17:33:53 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so this guy asked my girlfriend for a blow*** in a joking bitching manner. He was just trying to be an ***hole. So... I cussed him out and told him to meet me at this local gas station after school. Well, we went and I'm not going to lie, I basically got my *** beat. He walked up to me, threw a punch, I dodged, then I grabbed him by his neck (in a headlock) but he's a good 6-8 inches taller than me, so it wasn't a great idea. He then picked me up, we both fell to the ground, and he got up before me. He tried to get on top of me, but I held him off with my feet and grabbed both of his hands, then after that he was trying to get me to let go, so he grabbed my shirt and picked me up about a foot off of the ground and slammed me at least 2 or 3 times. Someone called the cops after that so we all left. Anyways, I feel really bad that I can't even stand up for my own girlfriend.. I've been dating her for 6 months and really love her. So yeah, I'm sure tomorrow at school...

2007-09-12 17:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When he decides to move on? But you still miss him? So much? How to get thru the night? And hope eventually this too shall pass? And he is moving on with someone else? What to do to with my time? Besides drinking my time away?

2007-09-12 17:33:12 · 15 answers · asked by banana 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My crush thinks im annoying!?

how can i get him 2 see im not?.. i reallyyy like him so plz dont tell me to just move on!

2007-09-12 17:29:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this man for almost 2 months. We have spent an average of 4 days (and nights) each week together. When we are together, we have a WONDERFUL time! The sex is great, along with everything else. We have both been divorced and I met him on a dating site. I absolutely love being with him. It is almost as if I am addicted to him. Well, I just returned from spending 2 great days together; HOWEVER, I called him right after I got home to tell him about a company that was hiring and when he heard it was me, he said, "LEAVE ME ALONE!" and then hung up! I don't understand!! What did I do? Did I wear out my welcome at his house? If he didn't want to be with me anymoe, why didn't he tell me? He always had a problem with saying mushy stuff, but Geez! Does this man just need some space?? He is trying to take care of his two elderly parents and I know it is taking a toll on him. If I do not contact him, will he ever come to his senses and want to see me again??? Help me!

2007-09-12 17:29:18 · 10 answers · asked by JeepGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 17:28:43 · 5 answers · asked by 073440 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 17:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by Celeste 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mother cannot control her child, he is 12, disrespectful, depressed, bipolar, abusive, angry, disobediant, rude, and innapropriate. she can't seem to parent him, she can't take things away, he won't stop his acting up and innapropriateness. the only thing that makes him quiete is to hit him, a sharp smack of the shoulder or arm. its construed as abuse in my book, and i am complelty against it, but he will not stop after conutless attempts to warn him or ask him to stop. how does she handle this without abuse.

2007-09-12 17:27:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married less than a yr and recently moved because of his job. I've given up everything to be with him and keep our family together (we have a 3yr old) As we'll be moving quite alot I gave up the option of having a secure job, friendships, seeing my family, settling down to buy the house I've dreamt about buying since I was 15. My husband has been acting incredibly selfish lately with no regard to my feeling at all. He seems to think our lives should be all about him all the time and our relationship has done a complete 180. I know he's keeping something from me as when I bring it up he just leaves the room or brushes me off. We used to be really close but he's in hospital at the moment where i visited once and then he told me not to bothor comming in the next day. His excuse was he didnt want to burden me. I find that incredibly insulting that he even thought that. His friends can visit all day long but his wife cant!

What can I do?

2007-09-12 17:27:08 · 14 answers · asked by rhaevyn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she's 5'0" & 103 lbs, natural c cup boobs, size 00 or 0 but very curvy, long legs and size 5 feet

2007-09-12 17:25:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy that i'm dating has recently told me that he thinks im too horny...? i'm not looking for it all the time...like 3 times a week. Is that too much?

2007-09-12 17:23:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just walked in on my roommate. he was on the bed cuddling with a girl. the thing is, this girl is one of my friend's girlfriend! i could've understood sitting up on the bed w/ their backs against the wall watching t.v. and found that acceptable. but no, they were underneath the blankets! and she was laying on his chest with his arm around her. I honestly believe if they start out with this it'll continue and go to the next level. what do you think?

2007-09-12 17:22:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 17:22:13 · 17 answers · asked by Your Mom 6 in Family

I was with this guy on and off for years but that was cool with me. But he up and got marriage and thing that we are still going to play house.

2007-09-12 17:20:24 · 8 answers · asked by blinky 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend went to this party tonight. I didn't go because i got in trouble like two months ago and haven't drank since. My girlfriend was really really drunk when i talked to her. Apparently there were other guys there too. I'm going to be so pissed if she did anything stupid. She also told me she would call me in five minutes and its been an hour. Should i be worried?

2007-09-12 17:17:18 · 5 answers · asked by john s 1 in Singles & Dating