Ok, so this guy asked my girlfriend for a blow*** in a joking bitching manner. He was just trying to be an ***hole. So... I cussed him out and told him to meet me at this local gas station after school. Well, we went and I'm not going to lie, I basically got my *** beat. He walked up to me, threw a punch, I dodged, then I grabbed him by his neck (in a headlock) but he's a good 6-8 inches taller than me, so it wasn't a great idea. He then picked me up, we both fell to the ground, and he got up before me. He tried to get on top of me, but I held him off with my feet and grabbed both of his hands, then after that he was trying to get me to let go, so he grabbed my shirt and picked me up about a foot off of the ground and slammed me at least 2 or 3 times. Someone called the cops after that so we all left. Anyways, I feel really bad that I can't even stand up for my own girlfriend.. I've been dating her for 6 months and really love her. So yeah, I'm sure tomorrow at school...
2007-09-12 17:33:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone will be talking **** about it. I don't care though. I mean, in 2 or 3 years I won't even know them, so I don't give a **** what anyone thinks. My girlfriend insists she's not ashamed of me and fighting is lame anyway. But before I fought him she was all excited for me to beat his ***. I feel like I let her down. But yeah. Tomorrow at school, I'm nervous he'll start ****talking me. I really don't want to fight again. I'm not a violent person, I hate fighting. I mean, It's like, sure he can ask my gf for a blow***, but at the end of the day, he's the one at home beating his **** to gay porn or whatever. I don't want to p***y out, but I don't want to fight either. What am I 'sposed to do? Someone please give me an answer that will be a good decision but not make me look like a little *****.
2007-09-12 17:37:29 · update #1
And oh yeah, if it matters, I'm a Junior in HS. So is the other kid, but he's about 30-40 lbs. more than me and a good 6-8 inches taller. Plus, I've been in a few fights in my life, but I'm sure he's been in a lot more. Which is nothing to brag about, but the more experienced fighter usually wins.
2007-09-12 17:39:06 · update #2
Too all of the answers saying to work out/ take karate and such.. I mean, I might've came off as like a nerdy *****. But it's not like that. I weigh 140 and bench about 170 which is pretty good for my size. It's not like it was my first fight. I've had my *** kicked before, and I've kicked some *** before. But I just hate resorting to fighting.
2007-09-12 17:42:09 · update #3
Dont worry, dude. It doesnt matter who won the fight, he wont say anything like that to your girlfriend after that, he knows you will stand up for yourself. As for the protecting your girlfriend thing, you should get some karate lessons, trust me they will come in handy. Trust me, theres nothing like having the feeling that you can protect someone important to you.
2007-09-12 17:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by The Renegade Answerer of Love! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let everyone know that you took up for yourself, and eventhough you don't care to go for bad, you won't sit down and take a butt kicking. He will probably not bother you again, and if noone saw the fight I'd say that he didn't win even if he did. His word against mine. Do take defense classes and avoid him after school. Mabe get a ride home.
2007-09-13 00:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
:Look what you did took guts. He is bigger by the sounds of it alot bigger you knew the chances of you winning were small. just ignore him and if he challenges you to a fight just ask why he persists with fighting you is he too scared to fight someone his own size. Do this in a public place he will be too ashamed to do anything and you will get points for having a backbone.
Fighting like that is stupid (relax it took me 15 years of martial arts to figure that one out) so don't fall into that trap again. if he challenges you too a fight don't try grappling like you did he is too strong stay light on your feet and move wear him out or better yet just avoid it all togeather
2007-09-13 00:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man I don't have any advice for you but I want to tell you you are doing a good job if someone said that to my girlfriend I would have done the same thing but I would have brought a crowbar or a baseball bat and broke some bones in his body, just reading your question got me all worked up inside...I can't believe how people can be such jerks...well i'm pulling for you man best of luck...
-Moose
2007-09-13 00:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Moose 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your girlfriend might be a bit embarrassed but she will also be proud of you, you stood up for her even though you got your a$$ whooped. Just don't let that happen again by working out, taking karate, wrestling team?
2007-09-13 00:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soooo...standing up for your girlfriend means you meet some dude at a gas station to beat him up OR get beat up?
That's really classy!
2007-09-13 00:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by ANewLife 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mature and grown men don't get into physical brawls. Only testosterone laden posturing boys do.
Your girl didn't need for you to attempt to beat someone up. She needed you to tell the punk to grow the hell up, remove her from the situation, and then comfort her.
2007-09-13 00:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try aiming in the middle of his chest right where the stomach and chest meet. or hit him dead in the throat that will buy u enough time to pin him down and punch away, now careful not to kill the poor guy ok.
2007-09-13 00:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some things you just gotta let go. Or take some martial arts. Love dont mean gettin your a** beat
2007-09-13 00:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who gives a ***? Unless you particularly hate this guy for other reasons, in which case, learn martial arts and then beat his ***.
2007-09-13 00:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by J C 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋