I have been reading posts here about love without sex, etc and i always come across the same answer, "its always better without sex." Why? How come? Why is it more romantic, why is there more love if there is no sex? Just the sentence "If there is no sex then its Way Better, its true love, etc." i don't have any idea why people say a relationship is better without sex, do women detest sex so much? Why do you see a relationship without sex is better? I hope my question is clear.
2007-09-12 17:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is not because women detest sex but, i think, we women attach sex with how we are respected adn loved as a person, and not just seen as sexual objects, but people who deserve love, true love waits until both get married before sex, sex is sacred, its not supposed to be something that is asked to prove they love you specially IF both are not yet married, because you will be using up the the thing that will pose as a cement of your marriage by engaging at it too early. Peace and God Bless!
2007-09-12 18:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by mylesr77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are people who reasoned with themselves so they won't feel so bummed out with not getting any. Seriously, sex is big. It is a recreational activity now, gone are the days that sex is used merely for procreation. If you never had it in your relationship or are just a virgin then you would not know any better.
Put it this way, before sex enter the picture in a relationship, people are polite and pleasant towards each other in order to seem like a catch. But as soon as sex occurs, the real raw person show up. It is like the relationship went from a beauty queen, to a woman with no make up on.
In other words since you have sex and are comfortable with each other then the relationship and the way the two people in it are genuine, while the no sex relationship is merely a charade or dolled up version!
2007-09-12 18:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Francisco B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship without sex is better in some ways and in others not. women always say its better without because sex complictes things, it either makes or breaks a relationship. its not that women detest sex its just that once a guy gets used to you like that its not the same, girls like to play hard to get even after they're already in a relationship with the guy and what other reason is there to chase after a girl you've had sex? well that might not be true but thats how i feel about men sometimes.
2007-09-12 17:58:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ TOKIO HOTEL ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the answer really depends on whos in the relationship...
if its ok for the both of you not to have sex then fine.. its not an issue anymore.. but if youre againts each others belief.. then maybe you just have to talk about these issue...
"its always better without sex"<--this might apply to some couples, to others may not...
"If there is no sex then its Way Better, its true love, etc."<---sex cant be really the basis of true love... there are so many things to be the basis other that sex right?
one thing is for sure.. gurls should have sex when they are ready and guys should respect that... if you choose not to have sex, it doesnt mean you dont love him.. right?
2007-09-12 18:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your question is very clear. And in my opinion, a relationship without sex really depends on what kind of couple you are. If you're pretty cool with a relationship with sex, then do what you love. If you're fine with a relationship without sex, then just do your thing. So, it really depends.
2007-09-12 17:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought that sex was one of the most important things in a relationship and that is what keeps it alive and going...? Yes I am female and think that sex makes my relationship better......been with my husband for 18yrs and have sex at least 10 or more times a month....and still going...lol
2007-09-12 17:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by thats me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you first meet someone you are interested in, you should always get to know them first before you have sex.
If you really like this person..you would actually wan't to know them before you lay down w/ them. You also wan't respect, trust and a growing friendship! and Sleeping w/ each other soon...may cause alot of problems.
I don't think there is much to a relationship if all there is too do is have sex. If I really like the guy...I'm gonna become his best friend first..and see where it goes!
2007-09-12 17:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question's clear. As to an answer, well, I've never thought of it. But I doubt that any man or woman could avoid it. With both of my last relationships the women made the first move.
My wife grabbed my wand on the first date in a crowded bar. The girl before her pushed me down on the couch, unzipped me and climbed on.
2007-09-12 17:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex changes things in a relationship. Many people prefer that their relationship doesn't revolve around sex.
2007-09-12 17:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better without sex? thats just crazy talk. Thats my opinion anyway
2007-09-12 17:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋