Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

Oh, and a kitchen.

I already thought of 'pulling the emotional heart strings'...but exactly HOW?

Thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-09-12 20:02:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anyone Know? 2 in Family

who would you rather have as a lover a dorky guy who thinks with his heart and has little experience, or a sexy hunk who appears to be a good lover, and also thinks he is one too?

2007-09-12 20:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it you can like a bunch of girls, but not feel anything 'special' about them but, although some girl you will think is special. Kinda hard to put in words, i'm just wondering, I like this girl because shes pretty but I cant stop thinking about her, unlike any other girls, what separates her from the rest?

2007-09-12 20:00:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is my new job and in only fourth month I am facing jealousy and issues please advice. My co worker came to me today and started fight for no reason. let me explain we both are new at our jobs and our supervisor is her relative and best friend. I am simple direct hard working and popular at working due to my helping nature and people find me pretty , gorgeous & sophisticated. we are working on high level marketing. Please advice how do I inform my boss about what’s going on at work as I think they both are teaming up to complain about me to by boss false complaints. I over heard them in rest room . She is never at work and she goes on holiday without informing HR department and shows as remote working hours. She also makes fake prospects customers and none of them go through . As they do not exist . I work day and night to get one client or relation . she does not like that and try to pick up fighting with me on every thing in every meeting. she told me I am younger 30yrs from her I better keep that in mind.

2007-09-12 19:56:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have no mutual friends so when we hang out, it's just the two of us. Problem is, it's been two years and I like him more than a friend and I'm pretty sure he doesn't see me that way. To him, I'm just a small lady who says funny things and I'm one of his odd friends whom he enjoys conversing with.

How can I make him see that I am "date-able?" Are there things I can do so that I appear more attractive to him so that he'll see me differently but in a more positive light? Please help.

2007-09-12 19:47:57 · 7 answers · asked by LindK 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy that I know through a friend the other night . It was completely out of character for me, I usually make guys wait a long time before I will sleep with them but anyway part of the reason why I slept with him was because I'm on the rebound. The next morning he asked me Who was Derek (my ex fiance's name) and I told him he was my ex and asked him why he asked that. Then he said I was calling out his name while we were..well you know. I felt so bad! I mean why didn't he tell me when I was doing it. I didn't even know I had done that. Now, I'm so embarassed. I can't even look at him anymore. Plus, I told my cousin and she told all of our friends about it and they were laughing at me! It's like they have nothing else to talk about it! How can I make them stop and maybe make it up to the other guy?

2007-09-12 19:47:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Spouses or spouse wannabes may also answer. Speculators are also welcome to answer.

2007-09-12 19:47:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one small table has the bride and groom's baby photos along with candy for children at the reception. Another table has the bride and groom's dog's photo and baggies of dog treats to give away. Should there be a small sign saying 'baby faces', treats for your dog'? any ideas?
It's a luau themed reception.

2007-09-12 19:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by winkcat 7 in Weddings

one small table has the bride and groom's baby photos along with candy for children at the reception. Another table has the bride and groom's dog's photo and baggies of dog treats to give away. Should there be a small sign saying 'baby faces', treats for your dog'? any ideas?
It's a luau themed reception.

2007-09-12 19:14:43 · 2 answers · asked by winkcat 7 in Weddings

How much can I personalize it? Can I have secular readings? We can have it without the Eucharist correct? Any information about Catholic ceremonies is helpful.

2007-09-12 18:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I recently met this guy online (through a dating site). We have gone on a couple dates and everything seems to be working out fine. He has said in the past that he wants to get closer to me and has introduced me to some of his friends. However, we tend to hang out only when he is free and available. Is he just taking me along for the ride or is he interested? At our last date, we went out and held hands for the first time. His emails are confusing and I just want to know if he is interested. His profile is still active online so is he holding out on me? Soo many questions!

2007-09-12 18:53:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl not sur eif she married or not or boy friend ,i want to ask her out,i no i no just ask what can she do, well im kinda shy and just dont no what to do i wish i was diffrent but im not,she works at a store in town i go there to but cloths just to see her stuff i dont need,if i dont hurry up il go broke,,no jokes please just some useful help thanks

2007-09-12 18:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I deposited money in my ex girlfriends account and she wrote a check payable to the seller of a car that I bought, can she say the car is hers just because she's the one that paid for it? I only deposited the money in her account because I didn't want to pay the seller with cash for the car. Can she say the car is hers? I have the title of the car in my name. She plans on taking me to court and saying I stole her car. She plans on suing me for the money even though I put the money in her account. Do you think the judge will rule in her favor?

2007-09-12 18:44:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i have a date with my girl in my room, we're gonna watch a movie, and i just want to know what i can do to make her fall in love with me since this is the first time that we finally are gonna be alone, (her brother is always around cause she can't go no where if he's not going, so this is like the first time we'll finally be together without worring about others). i know this may sound weird, but i don't want to have sex with her yet, cause i think its too soon... please help me to make her fall in love with me!!!

2007-09-12 18:44:12 · 6 answers · asked by Ben 1 in Singles & Dating

I know, it sounds like a really ridiculous question and I'm sure my case isn't any different from the rest, but I still don't know how I should go about this.....

I've only been dating my boyfriend a few months but I've noticed that I don't really like him anymore and have started to like other guys. The problem is that he's really way more into the relationship than I am, is too clingy at times and is very open with how much he adores me. Also, we share all the same mutual friends so breaking up is could cause a lot of tension.

Finally, I really don't want to hurt him. I know at this point its unavoidable but I want him to realize that he didn't actually do anything wrong- he was an amazing boyfriend- and that I'm so, so, so sorry it turned out the way it did.

So.... what do I do?

2007-09-12 18:41:41 · 26 answers · asked by maui wowie. 4 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i seperated on bad terms i got a pfa against him protection from abuse and we are not aloud no contact i was really thinken about him a few weeks ago it was near our anniversary so i went and seen him at a local bar hes a dj on the side i hugged him talked to him and even kissed him and told him how sorry i was for the pain and grief i caused him there was no cheating involved he told me he would be my friend if i dropped the pfa but he does want a divorce it did bring closure for me i think but i still care about him i think about him everyday do u think if i did drop the pfa he would call me and maybe would could date ???? thanks guys for your input jewels

2007-09-12 18:40:53 · 16 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She offered to take my daughter in since I'm seperated from my husband and I also like to go out and have fun not to mention the fact that very recently started hooking up with this guy at my job and he spends the night at my house often. My mom says it's not good for my daughter to see me with another man besides my husband. Plus, it's hard having to do everything by myself, so I'm really considering it. Should I or is being selfish?

2007-09-12 18:36:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hey there.
I'm a student and I had a meeting today with this women at my school for a work study position. i was 15 minutes late bc something came up and i couldnt call in bc the women never gave me her name or number. anyways i came in late and apoligized and explained why i was late. but this lady flipped out on me. i understand, i was in the wrong, but she could have handled it better...or simply tell me that she doesnt want to hire me. instead she went on a power trip about how she could say "BYE" to me right now and never see me again, and how she doesnt tolerate what i did and how i made a HORRIBLE impression on her. she ranted for at least 5 minutes, and rolled her eyes at me. I just thought she was going too far, but maybe I was being sensitive?
well she came across as a total *****, i never met anyone more unpleasant in my life...and i'd be working directly under her.
should i take the job, or keep my pride and decline it?
i need the money, but not that bad!

2007-09-12 18:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by eMteMind 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, here's the situation: i have been married for just a little over a year and apparently my wife has absoloutly no desire or interest in sex at all. i'm only 31 and she's only 29, yet we have sex only once a month, twice a month if i'm lucky. i am always the person to initiate sex. when we do have sex, she has difficulty achieving lubrication, no matter how long forplay is involved, we have to use lubrication to have sex. neither one of us were virgins, yet she was very ademant about waiting until marriage until we had sex...so, we dated for about a year and a half before we got married and this is apparently what i get for the wait. this is my first marriage, but she has been married before. her first husband cheated on her. other than our lack of a sex life, we get along great. it's difficult for me as a man to live in this unfulfilling sexual relationship. is there something i'm doing wrong? is there something wrong with her? i have never been with a woman like this

2007-09-12 18:29:58 · 8 answers · asked by helpwanted 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My 14 year old son came in the other night dressed as a female with make-up, a wig, a mini-skirt, in full womens dress. I am a very old fashioned, traditional person. I dont like girly boys or crossdressers. I want my son to be a masculine man. When he came in I shouted "what the hell do you think you are doing?" and he said it was girls night out at the club. I threatened to ground him for a year and he called me a close-minded redneck piece of sh*t that will never be worth anything. I gave him an old fashioned beating with my belt and it left a small mark on him. He called the police, and I was arrested that night, and my son said things like "stupid dumba$$ redneck is going to the cage with the other animals" all the way out the door. the police did nothing in response to my sons behavior. I am out of jail now, and there is no restraining order to my knowledge. what should I do? My son told me I will never change him. My wife(who I love dearly) and him currently live alone

2007-09-12 18:29:13 · 33 answers · asked by sam g 1 in Family

We are thinking of having only a ceremony.... is that rude? We don't expect any gifts, but we are going to be inviting some people who will have to travel a long ways. Are Receptions necessary?

2007-09-12 18:23:51 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

any online website for socializing for someone in the mid 20's, out of school and working? i just moved back in my hometown and have already gotten out of touch with many college/high school buddies for a long time. i do socialize at work, but work is busy, and many coworkers alrready have sig others so they dont really socialize too much with each other. i have a couple buddies that i hang out once in a while but our free times dont always coincide either. i'm looking for a mature (by that i dont mean xrated) site for chatting or getting to know other people in the area, which excludes facebook/myspace/xanga

2007-09-12 18:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by poke22 2 in Friends

what is your reaction when a guy tell you that
1. he misses you
2. he been thinking of all this time
3. he need you more than anyone else

2007-09-12 18:20:53 · 35 answers · asked by •°¤*♫*¤°•fisco 2 in Singles & Dating

i wanna tell a person i know i like her we are not to close but we flurted last year and this year i wanna go out with her but i dont wanna be rejected cause i liker her soo much what should i dooo i dont wanna lose the one thing that keeps us talking but i wanna make the things talking kiss each other

2007-09-12 18:19:44 · 14 answers · asked by go_pali 2 in Singles & Dating

I, for the first time, just confronted my ex-boyfriend about being gay. He has never come out to me and I decided to ask him if our relationship was a lie. He flat out told me that he had no feelings for me. Why was I so blinded by all of this? And why am I so hurt about this now? Please tell me of any thoughts that you have so I can let this past relationship go!

2007-09-12 18:13:57 · 12 answers · asked by Trista 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend recently broke up with her boyfriend deren. For the past couple of weeks ALL she talks about is deren and what hes been saying to her, and this new guy she likes colin.
I'd try to change the subject but she always brings it back to colin and deren.
If colin isn't online when she is, she'll sit there complaining that he isn't on, and talking about how great he is. If he is online, she will hardly talk to me, and when she does it's about wat colin is saying, or shes pasting parts of their conversation into our convo for me to see.

She wont play tennis with me because colin will be there n shes embarrassed. She wont come to the beach with me cos she says she has study, but she doesnt study. She just sits on msn talking to, or about, colin.

I dont want to tell her to stop talking baout it. How can I hint to her that I would like her to go back to how it used to be>?

2007-09-12 18:03:04 · 20 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been in love more than two years.We both pray 5 times a day. But recently we have some great mistakes.We have seen and touched each others very private parts of body. Have we done an unforgivable mistake in the view of Islam?Now we are adament not to do that again before we are married.We have not committed sexual intercourse with each other yet.

2007-09-12 18:01:44 · 8 answers · asked by tomal e 1 in Singles & Dating

The question applies to a muslim government servant who has three wives. The question is who and how many will get the family pensiion after his demise? In the event of the death of the senior most wife, will the next seniormost will or will not get the family pension or will others too get the family pension.

2007-09-12 18:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My baby bloom parents, left me to take care of their 90 years old grandparents, plus they refused to take care of their grandson. Do you think they're too into themselves?
I know I'm gonna to get yelled by people, but I don't care

2007-09-12 17:57:45 · 8 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Family

2007-09-12 17:55:26 · 21 answers · asked by Diana R 1 in Marriage & Divorce