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Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

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My nan was really ill in may. Had pnuemonia. When she left hospital it was decided that she was too frail to live back at her home alone and went to live with my mum.
My mum has had her for 2 months now and finding it a struggle as mum is disabled herself. Ps she is 84
Mum has called a meeting with me on Weds without nan knowing... really worried she is going to say that she cant look after her alone anymore... I have a small house and 2 kids so i couldnt take her and my sister is in the same situation. Would you encourage your elderly relative to go into assisted accommodation in these circumstances or what would you do?
She would find living alone too hard. She has had previous heart attacks and cant manage the housework alone so living back in her own house isnt an option!

2007-09-16 23:58:54 · 16 answers · asked by JustJem 6 in Family

Okay. Almost two years ago my parents split up. Only like a couple of months in our new house, my dad introduces me to this girl he's been taking on dates. I didn't know what to really think of it at first but I wasn't happy with it. She began staying over night in my house when my dad went to work. So I was basically left alone at home at night with a complete stranger. This lady began to stay more and more and before I knew it, we were moving all over again and she was moving in. My dad said I could say yes or no, but I'm a really passive/shy person and he just sort of shoved it upon me. I didn't really want it at the time and I actually said NO. But somehow he weaseled her in and she's lived with us since. I've gotten to know her since then and she's a bit weird. But the bad thing is whenever I want to talk to my dad alone about something, I can't. She is ALWAYS there and it's like she knows I wanna talk about something private with him. But I can't anymore.

2007-09-16 23:56:32 · 4 answers · asked by Shippo V 1 in Family

What should I do? I was the Valedictorian(not bragging) last year in my year level and my parents expect a lot from me. How can I tell Them i already am working EXTRA hard?

2007-09-16 23:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

To listen to your mum or to your husband. To a married wife, who's the most important person between a husband or your mum??If it was you, whom do you select??

2007-09-16 23:49:48 · 16 answers · asked by Bubbly_Angel 2 in Weddings

I hired a photographer for my brother's wedding reception and he didnt turn up. Instead he sent a guy who we had used for the engagement and HATED!! He didnt call or anythign to say he wasnt coming, he just sent ths other awful photographer.
We saw te pics yesterday and they are awful. The colors are wrong. The makeup looks weird, there are some awful poses. There are no pics of the guests or even that many of the famly. There is not a single photo of my son - the bride and groom's only nephew/ringbearer.
I amn't sure what to do about it. The pics are awful quality too. They look like someone took them on their mobile phone. Severeal guests at the wedding took pictures and they turned out AMAZING. The bride looked stunning. But in the "professional" pics she looks ODD. This was the first boy's wedding in my family in 30years and our family is very upset. Can I sue the photographer or make him pay for rehiring of kilts and redoing makeup and he can redo the whole shoot??

2007-09-16 23:40:18 · 16 answers · asked by Lila 2 in Weddings

Turn their young children (10 and under) into clowns, with the peircings, the hair-do's?
Make's you want to puke, does'nt it?

2007-09-16 23:23:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to do something to make my ex realize what he is doing to me like, making me jealous, denying that we've been couples and ignoring me. WITHOUT the idea of flirting...

how could i make him feel like a loser and like sorry for what he have done?

2007-09-16 23:20:00 · 34 answers · asked by Pringles 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, well I think this guy is into me, and I like him too. But this girl that he used to like last year is starting to talk to him again. And I dont' want him to start liking her again. So, what are some signs, more so obvious, but not extrememly obvious signs to get the idea of "i like you" across to him??

We're in high school

thank you =)

2007-09-16 23:16:41 · 9 answers · asked by Waterworks. 2 in Singles & Dating

Ever since my sister grew boobs and had her "dingy" removed, guys have been all over her. Now my best friend is looking to get between her new legs, and I don't like that. I know she will hurt him since she is a little tramp, and I don't want that to happen to him.

2007-09-16 23:15:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They werent together at the time, actually they both were with sombody else. Was I wrong to do this. I dont feel wrong. But should I? In any case she did feel wrong and she told him, he was hurt by it, but i figure they were not together, so does he have a reason to be hurt?

Im not trying to get with her or anything we just had sex one time. Thats all it was to me. If the situation was revesred i wouldnt have really been hurt. But just because it doesnt bother me dont mean its right I guess. I dont know.

Say whatever you want if you are going to answer, if you want to call me an ****** or whatever go ahead. I would like honest opinons

2007-09-16 23:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend (of one year) regularly tells me of things he got upto with his ex. They used to do loads of good things, things that now we will never do. While I don't talk about the things I did with my ex, I have argued with my boyf as to why I need to hear about all the things they have got upto. For example he will say things like "I'll take you to London, but not to this (specific) restaurant in Brick Lane, as thats where me and ex used to go for romantic meals", or "the best holiday i have been on was organised by ex, it was well cheap and we had a fab time"
When I talk to him about this, he says he is just telling me about the things he used to get upto, and then I feel bad for making a fuss.
So my question is, am I just being "female" in making a fuss, should I listen and not get upset? Or I am justified in feeling how I do? Any advice on how to deal with it??

2007-09-16 22:53:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got a message from him on facebook last night, the first i've heard from him since he cancelled our date last week. It just said hi, how have things been? ok the way i see it I've got 3 options here: 1) ignore it, thereby showing him i think he's behaved badly and i don't want anything to do with him 2) answer in a completely normal, friendly way as though nothing's happened and i'm not bothered by what he did, or 3) ask him what happened, why his tone changed so drastically, why he didn't just say if he didn't want to see me again etc. but I guess it's obvious he's not interested so this wouldn't change things! and it would just show him I cared, which if he's not interested, I don't want him to know! But at the same time my sense of justice tells me he should be told that he's behaved badly! I REALLY don't know what to do! advice please! many thanks x

2007-09-16 22:46:22 · 14 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 22:44:53 · 15 answers · asked by victor 1 in Weddings

I like this guy and he likes me nd there's a gr8 possibility i'm gonna end up his gf...but i've noticed that he's realllly relating to his ex, asking about her nd misses her all the time and i dont know what. She's out of the country, broke up with her 4 yrs ago i think. He IM her most of the time..........is that normal?!!!!!!

I found out by stalking her account.......................he doesnt say anything bout that to me. He's a shy guy, and he tends to get really nervous around me, even though we've known each other now for 5 mnths.

2007-09-16 22:42:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and my best friend and me always have 3 way convos on msn but my bf msn was not working so i d loaded a new program and sent it o my best friend aswell so we could tak and the 2 of them went into a web cam convo and ignored me do i have the right to be hurt they also kept telling me how good a time they had on cam

2007-09-16 22:38:56 · 9 answers · asked by rosejr 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell me what you think ?

1.) hey baby i bet u can tell i dont wear deoderant !

2.) if u were a poptart id eat u

3.) ur cute can i poke u ?

4.) u remind me of a hamster.. can i keep u ?

6.) my momma said not to talk to strangers but ur really purdy

7.) if u were a raccoon and u liked steal id let u steal my heart

2007-09-16 22:33:00 · 12 answers · asked by Keep Fishin 2 in Singles & Dating

Of all the young ladies that have sex, why do some get pregnant, and some don't? Do the one's that don't get pregnant know something that the other young ladies don't?
Is it simple to not get pregnant if you are engageing in sex? Why does'nt someone tell all the young ladies the secrets?

2007-09-16 22:31:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i asked her if she knew any Jobs That i could have to make money..And everyone i tell her she always comes up with an excuse to say no...Like i asked her if i could water peoples plants and she said..

Mum:How?
Me:I will bring a water bottle
Mum:Well how are you gonna get there?
Me:If its close ill walk.If its not Dad can drive me......Mum?
Mum:No

She has done this or every suggestion..Im 12 and I need Money!
They say i should earn it but when i want to she says no to every job!

Plz help me!!!

2007-09-16 22:25:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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My wife has told me to, back off and she dosen't feel that way about me. Anything loving, caring, thoughfull dose NOT affect things between us the out come of our marriage. She also wants me to move out and live near by, with the possiblity of us fixing our marriage. On the other hand, she would like me to still particapte in family day to day events. ie. diner, movies, working with a dog trainer for our two dogs. My heart is unable to handle being teased, be stuck in the middle. My question is, dose she intend to leave me or get back together, or just keep me hanging on so that she is still able to recieve benifits from my job? And how will I be able to test her to find out? Am I just a sucker who believes in love and marriage or is she testing me to see if I will stick around, because my job has had me away for most of our marriage? PLEASE HELP

2007-09-16 22:23:44 · 19 answers · asked by sec8_cm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When a guy looks at you, and shakes his head with tears in his eyes.

2007-09-16 22:23:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, well there's this guy I like, and I think, along with everyone else, that he likes me back. He always texts me, messages me, asks me to hang out, etc.

Well, I was commenting/talking to him on myspace.. but then I had to go. I went to his page to see something, and I saw this girl's comments and she was talkign to him, and I think he said something like, "we should hang out"

BUT, thats not what bothers me. It's that the girl was this girl that he liked last year, and they made out or whatever. ... Do you think he still likes her? Or am I just being jealous?

2007-09-16 22:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by Waterworks. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 22:14:04 · 14 answers · asked by Prof 1 in Singles & Dating

we have relationship since 3 weeks, I think we love eachother, we are so match and always together, he introduced me to his family and always say I think u r the girl I look for, but here is sth proleblem, I scared of break up and I awlays have stress, for example if we argue i cry alone and when he discovers this he tells me why u become so sad, these problems are in all relationship. we have 2 solve it and i never leave u.
what should I do?

2007-09-16 22:11:35 · 6 answers · asked by asal 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy friend a yr ago and he moved to another country shortly after we met. He asked me to travel with him before he left but I couldnt even though I was crazy over him. Anyway we kept in touch by chat & mail and a little bit of flirting now & then. So we arranged that as I was going on vacation to where he lives that we would meet up. He even said hurry up & come over. Right I was so looking fwd to it. Anyhow, we met a couple of days ago & I'm really into him. Hes also attracted. We kissed & a bit more but not sex. Problem is he had arranged his vacation with another guy to leave today & asked me to come..kind of roughing it in a car. I was delighted he asked me! The friend told me to come as well. Guess what? last night he sent me a text 'Listen, it wont work three of us travelling' and that's all. I havnt answered..just gutted! Ok he has a point it would be difficult but couldnt he have said 'be in touch or something? Hes much younger 25 I'm 45 but look 35

2007-09-16 22:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need to get down!!!
Where do you go to have no strings sex??

2007-09-16 22:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by tainted1wolf 1 in Singles & Dating

were both 15 i had a huge fight with my stepbrother i told him that i hated him and i wish he was dead i didn't mean it were in the same high school his in some of my classes he doesn't talk to me is he really mad at me what should i do

2007-09-16 22:04:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I are on the verge of divorce.We have been married a year and a half and have 2 children.I love my husband dearly, but cant find my way anymore.We have had sexual problems in our marriage for about 9 months.He stopped wanting it.It hurt and finally I figured he was cheating. Im not sure that he wasnt and still isnt but I did find out why.I had gotten pregnant again a while back and miscarried.I gained some weight and he said that while he thought I was beautiful he wasnt attracted to me.He has always been very visual and made me feel bad about myself.I have tried our whole marriage to be what he wants, short hair, clothes etc... its not enough.He always wants more.Right now hes upset about where his life is headed.He said hes bored with the family life and with me and the kids. My kids love him and my 3 year old son and 1 yr old daughter will be devestated.He says he wants to work on it but wont try for more than a few days. What now? I am a SAHM w/ no work history.

2007-09-16 21:54:11 · 16 answers · asked by aalshafi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She stole my phone and text one of my boy mates asking if i would go out with him... its ruined our friendship between me and him and she is so nasty! She slags me off loads too!

2007-09-16 21:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by hunnii b 2 in Friends

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