Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

My husband is leaving me for this older woman that he is starting a relationship with her. We been together 5 years going on 6 and we have three babies together. This woman gets him everything he wants pleases him in everyway and he seems like he wants to move forward with her. Now he wants to still live with me but he is starting his relationship out there. Why does he still want to live with me if this woman is so great for him? He says that he wants to make sure me and the kids are taken care but he doesn't have to live here for that. I'm trying to figure out what game he is playing. One week he wants me then the next he wants her and it's really stressing me out.

2007-09-16 02:45:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son asked for a big amount of money a year ago for him to start a business which I willingly gave him. Then after a year, it his business didn't worked out and now he's asking for additional money which I can't give to him because I dont have enough money. He's 30 yrs old already.

2007-09-16 02:43:23 · 21 answers · asked by Socorro B 1 in Family

everybody tells me i have a beautiful personality and a great laugh and i have sooo many freinds and not to sound conceited but alot of boys like me...and alot of people tell me that they love me and everything but i dont know why i dont feel it....i get really sad because i always start thinking about how nobody likes me and nobody cares for me.. but its not true...why do i keep telling myself that nobody loves me..i hate feeling this way....

2007-09-16 02:37:14 · 5 answers · asked by im so so crazy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do if you were divorced with an elementary school child and had been with your boyfriend for three years, living with him for two. He treats you great and is wonderful with your kid. Then you suddenly find out that he regularly smokes pot and has been for about 10-15 years, so he's not likely to just up and quit. What would you do?? Just go on with life as usual or tell him that unless he's willing to give it up, your relationship is over?

2007-09-16 02:36:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i read another question under singles and dating about if a girl drives a mercedes or luxury cars and a lot of guys that came on were like oh its intimidating and scary? WTF? Would you rather your woman drive a junky car? Most people I know are not intimidated, its so weird on this yahoo answers.

2007-09-16 02:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and then because you're not exactly zealously phoning them up and listening to their every word they have the audacity to say they're hurt by your selfish uncaring attitude?what planet are they living on?what can you say for someone who behaves like that and then tells you you're a bad person?i dont care about people that speak to me and treat me like dirt!is that wrong?

2007-09-16 02:29:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

months ago and I have two other daughters ages 9 and 13 from a previous relationship. Ou son is my husbands only child although he loves my girls like his own he been bugging me lately about having another child now and I really dont want anymore kidsfor these three reasons 1) We are not really financially stable 2) I have high blood pressure and cholesterol and 3) I struggle with depression at time. He tells me if I dont give him 1 more that he's gonna leave me What should I do?? Sometimes I think well ok I feel bad my son with grow up alone and blah blah but then I also think of myself I need advice please!!

2007-09-16 02:27:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-16 02:27:09 · 28 answers · asked by New Sage 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 02:26:53 · 4 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family

I feel my wife is a habitual liar The lies I keep catching her in r little insignifigant white lies but they r still lies & cause me to doubt everything else. last wk she lied 2 me about her location while out w/a friend. she was with who she said but only came clean about being in a different place when an accident delay caused her 2 run 2 hrs late. she kind of had 2 tell me then. yest. she started her text addiction again w/her guy buddy or so i thought. so after a huge fight she swore she checked it but wasnt on it or locking herself in the bathroom to text. so i look at the account this morn. it reveals 143 outgoing & 127 incoming of which i account 4 less than 5. I dont want 2 bel. that she is doint the unthinkable bc I dont but why this huge facination w/texting this other guy. why does she keep lying about nothing at all really. I want 2 know what I can say or do that will shut her down and make her realize how disrespectful she is treating me.

2007-09-16 02:24:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my frend says she is mad at me but yesterday she showed up at the library with me and my frend and we had freakin fun and we got kicked out the library wich was funny but i dunno wat to do about her should i keep dealing with her

2007-09-16 02:22:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a live-in partner he was handsome tall and alot of girls admire him, but he never cheated.i handle all our expenses couse i earn more than he does.he was nice but the problem was he's alcoholic and if he's drunk he hit me for no reason.i desided to leave him cause the last time he hit me he was trying to kill the child from my womb.my mom told me to start my life all over and now i have a new job and trying to move on, but still he is always on my mind and i'm thinkin' about my coming baby, he/she will grow up without a father.
i dont know what t do?i cant move on..

2007-09-16 02:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi, im 41, ive always been single, never dated. have been a nice guy all my life. what really ticked me off in life is that the asshole guys got all the girl, then got them pregnant, while i stuck around being the shoulder/nice guy. what a waste of life!! the only girls that wanted me were girls with baggage. i mean its ok if i had baggage 2 (kids of my own, in debt etc). i didnt want tht, heck i wasnt stupid enuf 2 fall 4 a loser&have baggage of my own, y should i take responsibility 4 sum1 elses stupidity... i was the idiot nice guy, oh how i wish i was the asshole who hurt girls, at least i wouldnt be the lonely 1 now. why do they say tht nice guys win in the end? total bullshit

2007-09-16 01:58:59 · 1 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Singles & Dating

My bitter ex-husband is requesting DNA on an child that he is as certain as me that my daughter cannot bioloically be his. although he has brought her up as his own for the last 12 years.
He takes me to court for the stupidest things and when the court gave him in-direct contact , he would only contact the children a day or 2 before a court hearing, which have been nearly every few months. This time he has not been in contact for exactly 8 weeks now and i'm getting fed up with him pulling all the strings.
My solictor has advised me to agree to the DNA but i cannot see the point when we both know the result.
Becasue of my own upbringing we have not told my daughter about her paternity and YES i know you will judge me anyway, but i have to tell her the truth which i m prepared for (temper, anger possible hatred the whole nine yards) so wh do i have to put her through he pain of something we already know, won't that just cause her more pain than finding out we have led to her?

2007-09-16 01:52:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-16 01:45:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 01:40:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Give reasons as well.

2007-09-16 01:40:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 15. I have a curfew which is around 11:45 and 12:00. Can anyone give me some excuses to convince my parents to let me stay out later? ( no sleepovers)

2007-09-16 01:36:56 · 22 answers · asked by zac w 1 in Family

she dont like me because i told her how i really feel. she trys to control how my life is my husband and my son. she just always get mad when something happen and it all my fault

2007-09-16 01:34:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i always think about money everyday everyhour every sec
i cant stop thinking about the money although i have everything and i dont really need it that much but i always think about it is it bad or this is normal??

2007-09-16 01:25:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, I was//have been in a reationship with this person for about a year, but the year was not bliss at all. after about a month he goes 2 states away and i only get an occasional phone call every once and a while. i even started to question if we were still together or not. after about 2 months he came back, but my parents wouldn't let me see him because of the emotional pain he caused me. so me and him would sneak out and see eachother a lot including school nights for about 9 months. my parents never found out about it, but then he tells me hes going back to Indiana and i was scared. we stayed in touch a lot more then last time, but we would fight almost every phone call. now after all weve been through hes dateing a girl that he alredy dated, broken up with and apologized for. i love him but should i stay with him just because of that reason. he never even told me about the girl in the first place so im so confused
help please??

2007-09-16 01:21:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guys who is like old old call me a hotty while i was with my mom at a farmer's market....i saw him and he grin so i walk away. umm was i rude for doing that or should i have said thanks to him for the compliment?

2007-09-16 01:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by fishgurll 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 01:14:35 · 1 answers · asked by osayi o 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend, whom I've been seeing for about 2/3 years. She lives about 200 miles from me, and I feel like I don't want the relationship to go on anymore, as she is quite controlling with me-
even though she acts nice to me, which makes it hard.

I just want to know how I can let her down gently, dont get me wrong I still care for her, but I can't picture myself being happy in 5 years if I'm still with her. But I don't want her to feel not good about it... I know that's ineveitable but I just want to make it as painless as possible...

Plus as I haven't really broken up with people very much before Its a subject Im not very good at. Any help would be greatly appreciated thankyou....

2007-09-16 01:13:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They just want to be my friend. I only seem to be able to pick up slappers. Should I be more forward if I see someone I like the look of, or should I hang back?

2007-09-16 01:10:21 · 20 answers · asked by Superdude 5 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl at school, but she likes my best friend, but i dont think my best friends likes this girl. the think is, this girl was wanting to know which girl i fancy. should i tell her i like her? i was thinking i shouldnt incase i lose them both as friends if they both find out. what should i do?

2007-09-16 01:08:03 · 1 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

one friday night my best friend had sex in a public toilet (i no.. how sick) and she was drunk but he wasnt, when she asked him 2 stop he did but he keeps asking her to do it again. i just want to know if it was rape?

:S

2007-09-16 00:58:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been in counseling for over a year because when I was pregnant I discovered that he was having an emotional affair. He is a very immature (think Johnny Knoxville) kind of a guy.

Last night, I found an email that he sent to a sales rep/friend of his. The subject was "Is this what you want?" no text in the body--- just an attachment--- a picture of the head of his penis really close up!!!! What does that mean to you?

So, I started looking at all his emails with this girl: One was an email from her that had a "love advice article" attached to help him. The text of her email said that she thought "your wife and your problem is your pride. I don't talk down to you & I never will." What does that imply to you?

I asked him about this crap, and he said that he wasn't having an inappropriate rltnshp with her. He seemed sincere. My gut is telling me that he was just being stupid & immature by sending the email.... But I think it looks bad from the outside.

2007-09-16 00:57:09 · 21 answers · asked by JennieM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do????????

2007-09-16 00:56:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family

It seems they have forgotten what their parents have did for them and brought them up......

2007-09-16 00:38:59 · 9 answers · asked by kryptosgenio 2 in Family