and then because you're not exactly zealously phoning them up and listening to their every word they have the audacity to say they're hurt by your selfish uncaring attitude?what planet are they living on?what can you say for someone who behaves like that and then tells you you're a bad person?i dont care about people that speak to me and treat me like dirt!is that wrong?
2007-09-16 02:29:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the friendship is over now but they accused me of being a bad person because because i brought up things they had said and done,that was over but i never resolved at the time!i hate these people that make me doubt myself,when me intentions are innocent towards them!
2007-09-16 02:44:17 · update #1
Stop calling them, DUH.
2007-09-16 02:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on if they were telling the truth or not.
If you are fat and they call you fat then is that an insult or a statement of fact? Or both?
Would calling a ugly person ugly also be be classed disrespectfull? Or is that just honesty?
Without knowing what they said and who you are then it's impossible to say.
Selfish and uncaring? If you were hurt by what they said then yes.
2007-09-16 02:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can end the relationship with this person... they are affecting you in negative ways.. You don't need their crap.
Find other things to do, and avoid them.. in fact, letting them know you are finished with the relationshp would be a good way to take care of YOU in this situation.
2007-09-16 02:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Appears they may have some self respect issues, many times people with low self esteem dog others to help them feel better about themselves, sounds twisted but it happens, and trying to make you feel bad by not immediately returning calls is just another self worth issue of theirs , just remember it is THEIR issues, not yours, and keep staying happy with yourself. Good luck
2007-09-16 02:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by KatGotHerTongue 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do think their assholes. If he treats you like that, then leave him. Its not right to be called a bad person when there treading you like crap. Don't continue being with him after that.
Good luck.
2007-09-16 02:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. They may be using you as a scratcher to scratch their little claws on because they are insecure about themselves or they enjoy doing it.
Just ignore them. They're not worth it.
2007-09-16 02:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by pastadudde 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give up on them! Remember you teach people how to treat you! Dont allow it to happen anymore. Walk away!
2007-09-16 02:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by aink 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell this person to never bother you again. If they are supposed to be your friend they will build you up not tear you down at every chance they get. I would get better friends and leave this one alone.
2007-09-16 02:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think i'd give this person a wide berth. That way you can't be a bad person and he or she can continue to be an A*******.
2007-09-16 02:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong and yes that person is an a s s h o l e.
2007-09-16 02:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mathias H 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel, chances are they just haven't realised. If you let them know then things might improve.
If not, then you can break your ties to them.
2007-09-16 02:34:14 · answer #11 · answered by Fu B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋