Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

i'm married to a wonderful man and have a daughter. He has got me a cleaner (i work two days a week)He also does the washing clothes and pots 80% of the time pays all the bills.I cook,iron,change the beds and take care of my daughter (17 months) and him and the dog.Also take care of him in anyway in the bedroom.Is this a good set up?

2007-09-16 10:06:39 · 13 answers · asked by noot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i got my first part time job ever and i like this guy...he was being really nice to me at first cuz i was new..now i think its more than that..everytime i pass by he tickles or pokes me and he always asks me for hugs when he leaves and we talk a lot and he always smiles at me..does he like me? oooh ye we are both 17

2007-09-16 10:04:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has two (and more) types of cancer in his body...and i am afraid. He can die any minute, is what doctors say and he is very weak. When he eats, he tastes nothing, when he walks it looks like one of his legs is detached and when he speaks, his tongue and throat gets swelled up. Well, i am Christian and i hope you can pray for my father. May God bless you!

2007-09-16 10:02:05 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

its about 1 year ago story. i had a dog . very cute . i used to love him like a baby. he used to sleep with me , i used to make his food and so many memory with him. he was with me about two years . suddenly my mother in law came . y nature she is very rude and jealous. for her i had to take out my puppy. that time i was pregnent . my hubby didnt say anything. because he was not doing anything that time. he used to take money from his parents. i thought one day i will forget everything once i will have my baby on my hand . now i habe my baby . ts been almost one year but i couldnt forget anything. and also i cant forgive my hubby. when i miss my puppy i just star hating my mother in law and so much anger for my hubby . an any one tell how can i servibe this situation?

2007-09-16 09:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend is 3 months pregnant with my baby & her parents are pushing us 2 get married. The only problem is I feel like she is still a little girl. She has left everthing up to me. I pay the rent, I pay the car notes, I pay the bills, and I pay for food. I understand that it's the mans job to be the provider, but then shouldn't the womans job be being the nurture? She doesn't cook, she doesn't clean, when I mention any of the above she gets an attitude with me. I havn't eaten a home cook meal for 10months, on my days off I find myself cleaning the house, & washing clothes. I'll be the first to admit that I'm not perfect, but am I wrong for wanting a little help? I would do anything for this girl, all I want in return is for her to cook me dinner, scratch my back when it itches, and make love to me a couple times a week. Thats all I want and she can't even do that! Am I asking for to much ladies? I've worked so hard to get where I'm at. I should be happy, but all I want to do is cry

2007-09-16 09:57:29 · 29 answers · asked by True Goon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband (very soon to be ex) left me 2 months ago for a woman he met online for sex. He has a webpage that I don't go visit buI heard through friends last night that he has already posted pictures of them (him and her) on it and also a brand new boat that he named after her (already knew he was an idiot but that is just plain stupid). He is a loser and I hear she is rich. Alot of people say that is only him trying to get some kind of reaction out of me playing that power card. I guess he figures word will get back to me that he is already happy with this other woman. It does bother me because we were married 8 years, but I would never ever belittle myself and call him up and cuss him out. He isn't worth it! Ever since he left I have not contacted him once. I figure if he did it to me, he'll eventually do it to her (cheated). I have no interest in jumping in a rebound relationship. Right now I am working on healing myself & I don't feel the need to get another man right away.

2007-09-16 09:53:07 · 8 answers · asked by texas_redlips 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-16 09:49:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please read my story...
There are two guys, one I reall like who does not like me, one I kind of like, and does like me.
The guy that likes me is going to ask me out...
Basically, I don't know what to do, so I made a list og goods and bads and then scored each point 1-3...
In the end---they both ended up with the same score---
So, what do you think, should I
~go with the one that likes me, but may not be socially acceptable basically giving up on the guy I really like even though I have some feelings for him
-or do I-
~pass on the guy that likes me and keep my feelings strong for the guy I really like and wait for him even though he has rejected me several times...
what do you think I should do---what would you do?!
please any and all help is appreciated!
Thanks again!

2007-09-16 09:46:45 · 15 answers · asked by simplebutsweet 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i used to be best friends until i told her that she never treated me like a best friend so we just became friends instead. we jsut got into a fight because she think i pay to much attention to my other best friend. and i am sick of it.

2007-09-16 09:33:06 · 11 answers · asked by mj 2 in Friends

I am in a long-distant relationship.. and I have been in it for 1 1/2 years. The girl and I are thinking about get married as early as Jan. 2008.. the only problem is I wont have a lot of money saved up then ($20,000). Plus, I'm two years away from graduating from college. I'm wondering- would it be wise for me to put off my marriage to this girl for another extra 7 months, so that I can have twice as much money saved($40,000) up instead.. I think that way, we'd be much better off. What are your thoughts and ideas?

2007-09-16 09:32:48 · 12 answers · asked by gododjgjodjod 1 in Marriage & Divorce

http://i90.photobucket.com/albums/k259/tangerine16/stereotype.jpg

this is for my psychology class...seeing what conclusiond people will draw based on a picture :) Thanks for participating
Think about the following when answering:
1. How old am I?
2. Where do I live?
3. What "clique" might I be a part of?
4. What are my friends like?
5. What are my hobbies?
6. Do I have brothers/ sisters?
7. Am I intelligent or not?
8. Do I have a boyfriend?
9. Am I a virgin?
10. Do I have a job? If so, what?
11. Dog or cat person?
12. Am I from an upper, middle or lower income family?
13. Do/ Did I get good grades in high school?
14. How much do I weigh?
15. Am I an introvert or an extrovert?
16. Am I a homebody or would I rather go out?
17. Would you be intimidated by me?
18. Would you approach me and strike up a conversation?
19. Was I raised well?
20. What will I do with my life?
21. Do I have one best friend or lots of so-so friends?
22. Do I have children, if not, how many WILL i have one day?

2007-09-16 09:24:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alone at 36 while everyone is married with kids?!?! How did that happen? I put my career first and now I have a really good job and money to spend on what I want, but no one to spend it on. I spent this entire weekend alone. I can't wait to go back to work.

2007-09-16 09:23:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 09:22:40 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

Please explain this to me. If my man loved me so much why was he stay in hotel room and females houses. An then when question pretend there friends. I don't **** my friend. An if there friend why could i meet them. An why should i have to tell you this your a Men right. Man protect there women. I don't want no one that ain't just being with me and me only. So all ya'll who think I'm stuip look in the mirror and said it again.

2007-09-16 09:13:23 · 1 answers · asked by Stephanie S 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 8 years. We have 2 children 4 and 7. I work and do most of the childcare and feel quite resentful as feel taken for granted. I try to speak to my husband about this but he does not talk, he either walks out of the door and goes to the pub or tells me to move on and be more understanding. A yr ago I found out he had spent around £15,000 over a period of 2 yrs without telling me, this included money that I was saving into a joint account. I am deeply hurt and have lst respect and trust for him. When I try to talk about this he either shouts or tells me to get over it or leave. I am so, so fed up and unhappy. I am not sure what to do! He refuses to go for counselling and tells me that the problem is my behaviour. It feels as if he is always turning the blame on me and I am at a loss as to what to do. How can I save this?! Is it best to leave now and move on with my life? I feel alone in the relationship.....

2007-09-16 09:10:51 · 46 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

All this talk about soul mates etc do you believe in it all?

2007-09-16 09:08:02 · 23 answers · asked by LONDONER © 6 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone,

I found this guy's pictures on flickr.com accidentally when I was goofing off yesterday. All his pictures are about men's dress socks and they're just...

http://www.flickr.com/photos/otcdude/605152631/

Have a look at them and tell me what do you think...

2007-09-16 09:03:04 · 1 answers · asked by Emily P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-16 09:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't believe this ****. I found out that my girfriend was having sex with various men for money. She has two kids and would do anything for them (obviously). Her excuse was/is that she needed the money and felt like she didn't have any other choice. This has been going on for at least a year, up until I found out.

She says that she loves me with all of her heart and can't picture being without me...but why go have sex for money? Why lie and deceive me for a whole year? I don't get it. Am I missing something here? Sex was never an issue with us. I am extremely good in bed, not to brag, but I can go for hours. So why would she jeopardize everything we had just for money so that her kids could have nice things like all of the other kids?

She revealed to me that she was raped as a child and has made it very apparent, her hatred towards womanizing men. Part of her man-hater comments are just jokes, but the other part I think is serious. Is this not physical/emotional cheating? Is

2007-09-16 09:02:19 · 32 answers · asked by dabeatwrecka 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked a question about being a lady in the streets and a bad girl at home.......i posted it in the proper section......the person that reported me got 5 thumbs down, and i blocked her......

what is her problem???? why so sensitive????

2007-09-16 08:59:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Parlak fikirlerinizi bekliyorum.

2007-09-16 08:59:53 · 3 answers · asked by poltra 1 in Friends

Not working . How can i support my family after i got hurt?
I got hurt outside of work .{close to my house on the curb } i broke my ankle now i cant work for 6 to 8 weeks . my insurance does not pay me for past 90 days . how can i get money to support my family with out empting out my bank account. this is the first time i ran into something like this . have worked for many years, but not ready for this, where can i get $$ to help me pay RENT. BILLS . FOOD . its only for a short time of 6 to 8 weeks . help please

2007-09-16 08:54:35 · 1 answers · asked by GO CHICAGO BEARS 1 in Family

I have been dating my BF for almost a year. We both work in the healthcare field and really love each other. I am planning on moving out of my father's house in the next six months when I save up enough to rent an apartment and buy appliances. Recently while i was over his apartment he propose the question of us moving in together, we would split the rent and share neccessites. I told him I would think about it. I am a little scared of the idea. I am the kind of person who likes to give guys their space. We spend alot of time together on the weekend since we both work mon-fri and can't see each other at that time. He always complain how he doesn't see me that much and how he misses me. I am scare that if he sees me every day that he will grow weary of me. Am i just overreacting?

2007-09-16 08:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by Kerry Kay 1 in Weddings

2007-09-16 08:50:12 · 1 answers · asked by Sasoon A 1 in Singles & Dating

i just asked this girl who i was dating for 2 years to be my g/f, well i asked before but she just accepted finally, and i know she had has online friends, and she says they are just friends. and i want to believe her, otherwise why would she accept to be my girlfriend, but i am very insecure, i know its my problem, and i dont want this insecurity to ruin my relationship, i need a way to control it. i hate how this feels. I don't think i can talk to her about this, cause it may be bad for the relationship if she knows about my insecurities. We do talk everyday, and her kids love me. i should be feeling so happy cause she accepted to be my g/f but i'm only thinking what if i lose her, and about my insecurities. I guess this comes from a previous relationship, of a girl who cheated on me. Please only helpful comments.

2007-09-16 08:48:58 · 1 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems that alot of guys are attracted to my bad attitude.. I don't like my attitude but guys think im being funny when im not and i feel bad becuz I fear that someday I will not be able to stop myself from hurting a guy..

2007-09-16 08:35:19 · 1 answers · asked by omg rain is wet 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and he's 17 but we really luv eachother and he told me the only way we can be together is if we share everything with eachother and i said yes. so next friday night his parents are gone and he asked me to spend the night there and i didnt gives him and answer yet. what do i od

2007-09-16 08:35:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 21 and my husbands 22. we dont know any married couples our age. im also 29 weeks pregnant. our baby was not an accident. we got married and decided we wanted to start having kids while we were still young.

i know i shouldnt care what other people think but im tired of people thinking we only got married because we were pregnant or that we were married and got pregnant on accident. no one seems to understand that we're young but we wanted our lives like this. how old were you when you got married and had children? if you were young did you feel the same way? if you were older what kinds of things did you have to deal with?

2007-09-16 08:33:11 · 22 answers · asked by omama 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have always been a bit of an outcast but my parents split up about 6 months ago this wasn't a surprise but my mum moved out and i was left the only girl in the house with my dad and brothers and i have lost interest in socializing with my female friends and have become even more outcast and engrossed in gaming and computers. is this normal teenage behavior (i'm 13) or could it be as a result of my parents splitting up?

2007-09-16 08:30:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I plan on starting a family when I get out of Graduate School. I live in the deep South. I am thinking about moving to California when I graduate to raise a family. I want to raise children with liberal and progressive views on things in life but with the conservative christian beliefs I learned as a child in the south. But I don't want my child to have the conservative, thinking inside of a box, closed minded beliefs we have in the south.

2007-09-16 08:22:56 · 2 answers · asked by Penny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships