i just asked this girl who i was dating for 2 years to be my g/f, well i asked before but she just accepted finally, and i know she had has online friends, and she says they are just friends. and i want to believe her, otherwise why would she accept to be my girlfriend, but i am very insecure, i know its my problem, and i dont want this insecurity to ruin my relationship, i need a way to control it. i hate how this feels. I don't think i can talk to her about this, cause it may be bad for the relationship if she knows about my insecurities. We do talk everyday, and her kids love me. i should be feeling so happy cause she accepted to be my g/f but i'm only thinking what if i lose her, and about my insecurities. I guess this comes from a previous relationship, of a girl who cheated on me. Please only helpful comments.
2007-09-16 08:48:58 · 1 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
anyone know how to deal with this?
2007-09-17 20:05:10 · update #1
Ok. You have to trust her.
I'm really sorry you feel like that.
That totally sucks.
Maybe you could get to be friends with her online friends too.
That would be a good thing.
I hope that helps.
And I hope it works out.
2007-09-16 08:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by lovestheCale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋