its about 1 year ago story. i had a dog . very cute . i used to love him like a baby. he used to sleep with me , i used to make his food and so many memory with him. he was with me about two years . suddenly my mother in law came . y nature she is very rude and jealous. for her i had to take out my puppy. that time i was pregnent . my hubby didnt say anything. because he was not doing anything that time. he used to take money from his parents. i thought one day i will forget everything once i will have my baby on my hand . now i habe my baby . ts been almost one year but i couldnt forget anything. and also i cant forgive my hubby. when i miss my puppy i just star hating my mother in law and so much anger for my hubby . an any one tell how can i servibe this situation?
2007-09-16 09:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am not surprised you are angry with your husband. He should have made a stand on your behalf - you are his wife and must come first above all people, including his mother. And so what if he was getting money off them, that was their choice - if they stopped the money, then thats just blackmail and not nice at all. I think you need to have a chat with your husband about it all and tell him that you still feel terrible resentment because he didn't stand up for you. Forget liking the mother in law - you aren't married to her. But if your husband forgets who is wife is, then he needs a boot up the backside. He must be at your back even when you are wrong! Its you and him against the world.
2007-09-16 10:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is about setting boundaries.
Did your mother-in-law move in with you? Why did she just arbitrarily decide to make you get rid of your dog?
Hubby needs to make a choice as to how many people are in the marriage and who calls the shots in your marriage. He needs to get off dead center and stick up for his wife.
What goes on within the confines of your home and marriage is between you and your husband ONLY, and not up for debate with any in-laws.
They had no right to specify that you had to get rid of your dog... and you should not have allowed it. Quit being a doormat! Stand up for your rights!
If you do not set boundaries, you will not be able to stay in that marriage.
2007-09-16 17:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can get a new dog its ur life u dont have 2 listen 2 anyone and 4 ur hubby marriage counsiling. Good luck!
2007-09-16 17:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by sk8ergrl186 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u cann be happy u have to forgive a lot in your life ....so forgive them and get another dog ....it cann be just like the last one ...and u will be happy to have him ..u will be busy with the new one and u will not be sad about the last ..try to make your self happy ..time passes and life is short
2007-09-17 06:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Angellytza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah i'd agree. i can't imagine myself without a dog
2007-09-16 19:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋