I'm 13 and he's 17 but we really luv eachother and he told me the only way we can be together is if we share everything with eachother and i said yes. so next friday night his parents are gone and he asked me to spend the night there and i didnt gives him and answer yet. what do i od
2007-09-16 08:35:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell naw ........... lookj baby gurl im 15 ok n yea i mean you dnt want to get hurt but sometimes you can be blind n not always see everything sometimes something that seems so real may fade away at the moment but do wat u want thats u shawty but he gonna wanna slap so wrap it up
2007-09-16 08:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a lot of states that would be called rape as you are not old enough to consent. Don't be foolish and think this is the right thing to do. He is 17 and should not be with a girl your age. We know where his parents will be, where are yours?
obviously this proves that his parents have misplaced trust in him, do you think he will handle responsibility for you if you get pregnant. Sex is more than a physical relationship. It should entail emotional commitment as well. What plans has he made for birth control? and yes you can get pregnant first time, every time so don't fall for that.No, withdrawl doesn't work either. it only takes one sperm to make a child and by the time he is "ready" the team has been assembled. If you think you are old enough to be sexually active, then you should be mature enough to say "no, I am only 13 and I am not ready for this yet"Do not go anywhere near his house as you know what he has planned for you when you get there. You may be in love, but watch how fast love flies out the window if you get pregnant or catch a disease from this. do not follow through with this plan as it will result in lifelong scars for you,and he, sweet girl ,will be gone.
2007-09-24 08:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG NO you shouldn't you are way to young and he is just trying to get into your pants... Honestly hun do you want to be pregnant at age 13, I don't think so, no education, no nothing, I have a friend she was 14 and she got pregnant its ruining her life... she goes to school rarely and is taking after school classes and she doesnt go very often sorry if this ruins your relationship but if he is saying he loves you and your 13 wait you'll find someone your age in your future who really does love you and wants to spend the rest of their life with you
Jessica
2007-09-16 10:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to assume the responsiblities of having a child? Can you afford to move out of your parents' trailer and live on what your boyfriend can earn at 7-11? Of course you are too young for sex. Stupid even to ask! Grow up! Pretty soon you'll find youself on the Jerry Springer Show!
2007-09-24 07:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAH!! Little girl what are you thinking ? yes you are to young to have sex,and please don't fall for that line he is going to tell you "if you love me you'll do it " so your answer should be "If you love me you are going to wait till I'm ready and you are going to respect my decision" if he agrees with you, then honey he does love you,but that doesn't mean go do it,wait as much as you can think about school,college. DON"T DO IT,you'll probably end up pregnant,that boy will probably forget about you,you'll break your moms heart plus you are going to suffer a lot for a long time,save yourself for when you get married,it's a beautiful feeling.don't give in please.you are only 13 you don't need this kind of pressure now,wait.
2007-09-24 07:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by emerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hes not too young but you are. When i was growing up i never wanted to hear that i was too young to do anything i wanted but now that i am grown i look back and see that i really was too young.
I started having sex when i was 12 and now i regret it. When i was 12 i didnt see anything wrong with it and i enjoyed doing it but looking back now i wish i never done it.
Im not gonna tell you not to do it but if i could go back in time and fix it then i would. Just follow your heart and listen to your gut and tell me what you decide. Good Luck!!!
2007-09-24 08:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!!!! You should wait and dont't be stupid, Are you very sure he feel's the same about you ? I see a lot of red flag's going up here if you don't have sex with him what did he say? if you don't do it? you should wait longer why are you going out with a 17 year old any way fin a boy you own age I think you are moving way to fast
2007-09-16 08:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by robertm1951 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you even have woman parts grown out yet? and you're thinking about this?
wow he's like dating a kid...tell your parents your bf is a pedafile. that's disgusting...he's almost legal...and you're still a kid...
egh. why would you even ask if you are too young? that's like george clooney having sex with dakota fanning.... and that's not right...
i suggest you stop seeing him or by the time he turns 18 he'll be in jail for having sex with a minor
therefore,
please do not do it. please mature first, maybe when your 18. and your views will be totally different by that time.
i'm sorry for being so harsh. but this is outrageous...
2007-09-16 08:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by christinaCHAMBERLAIN__777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you are 13 and being a guy he may really love you but then again i think he is just using that line to get you in bed. i think you should not do it but it is your life but if you do make sure you use protection because my girls sister got pregnant from a 17 year old and he left her 5 days later just be careful
2007-09-16 09:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by cj m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too young. i think IM way to young as well. wait for marrige. its the smartest thing to do. then you'll really know if the person truly loves you. most guys [espically at that age] will say they love you just to get in your pants. decline the invite. dont go all the way.
2007-09-16 09:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋