2007-09-16 09:49:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Very nicely, explain to her that it is not working. You do care about her but it is time to move on.
2007-09-24 09:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rose4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well breaking up is never easy. No matter what reason you will give her, she will cry. Mad, yes. Kill you, yes. After that just stay away, far away. Time will tell as to how things will turn out.
Do not stay with her , and give mixed messages. Maybe she already knows things are not right. Be honest with her. Face the facts.
Good Luck
2007-09-24 08:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all - is your girlfriend somebody that you have been with for quite sometime or just a week or so? Maybe a week or so is quite some time for you - I don't know, either way be completely honest with her or it will come back and bite you in the *** later.
Its called Karma.
Maybe the next person you go with will want to break up with you - treat people the way you would like to be treated..........
She will get over you ............eventually.
2007-09-24 08:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by beachbum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she will cry. Only you can best tell if she could be mean and hurtful in which case she may want to hurt you back and be revengeful. If she is mean and hurtful and revengeful, then you know you did a very good thing by breaking up with her. If she cries and is genuinely sad and soft and gentle, then be careful not to be "mean" to her. Be soft spoken, but explain that you've made up your mind, and why you are doing it. BE HONEST. Give it time to sink in and listen to her thoughts. If she begs you not to break up..........then you have to decide to stick to your choice or not. If she yells and screams.......leave. Your choice is probably a good one. If she is quiet and sad............again, be considerate and human. I wish you well.........it's not an easy thing to do. But, if you have your reasons for doing it, then hopefully she will be reasonable back in return. Blessings to you both.
2007-09-23 17:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Pilot ~ canine son! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure there is no one to not make her cry.
Just be sincere I guess, but she's going to cry to matter what.
Girls just like to cry, it's most of our ways of dealing with things.
If you're not happy in the relationship, then you do need to break up with her, I think it would upset her more if you were just being with her because you didn't want to make her cry.
Good luck!
2007-09-16 09:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Gabrielle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way to do that I mean if you were seriously trying your best to let her go and be nice about it she might appreciate you talking to her just tell her the things that are breaking you two apart maybe you could work it out if she sees that you are seriously not trying to hurt her then she will proly just want to be friends too good luck and if she does cry she loves you if a girl dont cry cuz of a break up -if they care about them then thats weird but good luck !
2007-09-16 09:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by miimmii_llynnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adrian,
You have not given any reason for the break up.
Have you cheat on her or met someone else?
Did she cheat on you, or has she met someone else?
Have you "grown apart"?
Are you bored with her physically or mentally?
I ask these things, because I want you to think about them the next time you met another young woman.
In my considerable experience, it is better to tell the person the truth, than make up some BS story that will eventually catch up with you!
2007-09-24 08:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by replycs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the crying part, i don't think you can avoid. espically if she's that into you. (i don't think she's going to want to kill you) before you break up with her, you should talk to her and tell her whats bothering you,and maybe she'll have somethings to talk to you about. if you don't you might regret never telling her and just throw away something that could have been really special. so what i'm saying is think about it. no ones perfect.
2007-09-24 06:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cry part can't be stopped it will happen but the kill part is something to worry about. Pocessive women can be scarey. Tell her when your in a safe place. Get it over with.
2007-09-20 12:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by dadw5boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no guarantee that she won't cry but unless you're in a very unhealthy relationship you don't need to worry about being killed.
As others have mentioned, just be honest.
2007-09-24 09:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Steven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on how long your relationship was and how close you guys were but you could sit her down and say it is just not working out for us and I think we should start to see other ppl. And hopefully she will understand and thimk it is the best for you.
2007-09-24 08:44:13 · answer #11 · answered by Alexis M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋