i'm married to a wonderful man and have a daughter. He has got me a cleaner (i work two days a week)He also does the washing clothes and pots 80% of the time pays all the bills.I cook,iron,change the beds and take care of my daughter (17 months) and him and the dog.Also take care of him in anyway in the bedroom.Is this a good set up?
2007-09-16 10:06:39 · 13 answers · asked by noot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we love each other alot and are v v happy and i am so happy i am with him cause no one else would be good enough xxxxx
2007-09-16 10:17:49 · update #1
Hold on to that. My husband does diddly squit and I still sort him out in the bedroom! I work full time and have an 11 year old and a 2 year old and my house looks like a bombs hit it. I would kill for a cleaner but he says 'no'. I said in that case he better get the ruddy vacuum out or I am hiring one! You're doing a great job - keep it up! I am too old to enjoy what I have and if I could lock my lot up in a cupboard, I would.
2007-09-16 10:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are well looked after according to your description. However, being "well looked after" is not necessarily the standard most women use today to evaluate their marriage. Personally, I think marriages and partnerships should be about looking after each other and building a life that is worth living together.
2007-09-16 10:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a marriage made in Heaven - you wanna chek out some of those agony aunt websites and see how disastrous some marriages REALLY are....
2007-09-16 20:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by ipoian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I wanted to "look after" something I'd buy a dog..Any woman who "looked after" me in the bedroom would find the money on the dresser. Men don't pay women to sleep with them, they pay them to leave afterwards..I think that respect is what it all boils down to really rather than how well we get "looked after".
2007-09-16 11:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by TheEnemyWithin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id say thats a good set up as long as ur both happy and can afford the way ur living
2007-09-16 10:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you got a good one there at least he does his share and is not putting everything onto you because when you have a baby there are never enough minutes in the day so at least he is giving you time to spend with your baby and also time for yourself
2007-09-16 10:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have thought that in the "bedroom" it would be a case of mutual pleasure rather than you taking care of him?
2007-09-16 13:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by littleangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it is or not.You said nothing about loving your husband and your husband loving you.You said nothing about being happy.You said nothing about waking up each morning to a great family.You said nothing about having great friends.You said nothing about loving the life you have.You said nothing about any of the important things in life.......
2007-09-16 10:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Teresa 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As long as it suits you, that's the only important issue.
Are you really interested in answers, or just bragging?
2007-09-16 10:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
havent had a man that wouldnt do that, but i always cared about doing my part too.
2007-09-16 10:31:40 · answer #10 · answered by not this way 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋