Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

Tell me I'm cute but I just can't go out with you?

2007-09-16 05:39:34 · 15 answers · asked by Adam B 3 in Singles & Dating

boys around the age 17/18
i know girls to do too but im talking about boys!!!!

2007-09-16 05:39:05 · 19 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I are very close, but lately shes been hanging out with other sorts of people. Not to be mean, but they are the 'bad' sort of people. They smoke, and scive off school sometimes, but they're only like 12/13. Everyday her attitude gets worse and she drifts off further. Im getting more and more nervous that she might start smoking, or stealing from the school shop and stuff (which the rest always do). Should I talk to her, or just let her lead her own way? Please help.

2007-09-16 05:38:46 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah <3 2 in Friends

should I continue contacting his family that I've befriended through him? p.s. I dont want him involved with us either...and YES, I have moved on

2007-09-16 05:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by MexicanTlingitVisayan 2 in Singles & Dating

question was what can you tell a girl to make her know she is special?

2007-09-16 05:35:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every day its sumtin differant he just wants and a wants and wants Its never nothing,He let his phone service go now he always has my cell phone all the time,He totally eats differant food then the rest of my family, He is always saying"I Want" its never "we" I know it should be about "US"why cant he see it this way. He pays his bills but isnt always helping when it comes to my bills,He lives with me.How do I tell him??Help I am having a hard time being firm with him or any one else in my family.I work F/T and take care of everybody he just drives us around and pays for his truck payment.How do I toughn up??

2007-09-16 05:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend has been sending me messages saying luv ya...does this have the same meaning as i love you

2007-09-16 05:33:43 · 21 answers · asked by dmckne1 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 7 years and always had a good sex life but now she don't care about it @ all. I have told her 50 times that I have a high sex drive and that I am not happy with the quantity and she ALWAYS turns that around and says it is the quality that I am not happy with. I really do love her more than I have ever loved before (i am 40 yrs old) but now I am thinking about finding someone else to fill my "needs"

2007-09-16 05:31:13 · 34 answers · asked by cldad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok u people helped me choose out a guy in my other question but if u dont kno he is in 12th grade his name is DaMas and he is very polite. He e ven asked my brother promission to ask me out. But im in the 9th grade and im 13. Now what do i do?
I'm going to say yes to him but he lives in hartford and i live in another town the only reason he goes to my skool is because his parents dont want him in the violence down there. but what can i do. i dont see him in skool and if i do its only for a few minutes. What are some good places to go on a date.

2007-09-16 05:30:30 · 16 answers · asked by ☆ ♥ Lil Ms. Sunshine♥☆ 2 in Singles & Dating

Now she wants to withdraw the case and rejoin her husband. but is scared if he would file a divorce against her. How can she protect herself? can she reopen the 498a case if he files a divorce case? Please advice.

2007-09-16 05:30:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She and Tom have one kid but hes a jerk right now there split but he says he'll steal the baby im 10 and scared!!!!

2007-09-16 05:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if my boyfriend and me are taking a few days apart from eachother, not talking or seeing eachother.. and he has me blocked on msn so we cant msg eachother, should i block him also? or should i leave him to where he can msg me if he wants to talk? he wanted the break, not me. i feel like i should block him so he doesn't know what i'm doing, which is nothing sitting here.. and so he wonders and maybe calls me bc if he sees im sitting around doing nothing then he will just be like okay i can do this a few more days, but if he sees im not even online he might be like hey, she doesnt wanna talk to me either.. whats up with this.. u know how guys are, i cant explain what i mean very well.. sorry. but should i block him too? until were done this little break? or leave him unblocked..

2007-09-16 05:30:03 · 4 answers · asked by New Beginnings? ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a relative that was caught going on the internet looking up girls no they were not totally naked but a lot of the pictures were very suggestive and when he denied it the person who busted him found a way to go on the computer and point out all the sites he was on. He said he was sorry and repented and would never do it again, between you and me I think he was only sorry because he was caught. I was happy he got busted or caught because men think they can get away with everything little did he know that a computer has a memory and stores everything you go on. It was truly an embarresing lesson.

My question is why do men do this? Not every person can be a size 6? Why do men always are attracted to things they simply should not have? Why do men feel that have the right or entitlement to lust this person may not have literally committed adultery against his wife but in a sense a grave sense he did committ adultry with his heart. What is your take on this?

2007-09-16 05:28:11 · 23 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousins are very rude. I need them to behave. I've tried talking to them. Sometimes, it works for one day, but then, they forget about it. They like to start serious fights on my own brothers, they mess up people's houses, and they use fowl languages. I'm afraid that maybe in the future, they might do something terrible. I need help quick! Thanks!

2007-09-16 05:25:54 · 6 answers · asked by Muslim woman 2 in Friends

So basically I'm in college now and I've set this "rule" down for myself where basically I can't jerk off anymore.

I'm just wondering if there are any positive/negative effects that may come of this.

Thanks

2007-09-16 05:19:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an 18 year old in my second year of university. I live at home with my dad (I commute to and from uni everyday). I also live with my older brother (21) who is literally allowed to do as he pleases..with no stress from dad. I, on the other hand, must be home by a certain time, can't spend the night at my boyfriend's, have to run everything by him... and he always gives me talks about how I need to be more careful. I need some freedom. This is driving me insane. He was never like this before I started dating someone, and now he's afraid I'm going to become a pregnant drop out on drugs or something. I have always been very careful and responsible and he has no reason to be so worried...other than I'm his little girl. My best friend and I have been talking of moving in together. Do you think it's a good idea? I'd have to take out a student loan, which my parents would give me grief over, I'm currently debt-free... I don't know what to do...

2007-09-16 05:15:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is the local bartender, whenever im in there i can see him stare, but he never really talks to me, and when i try to talk to him he seems like he hates me,we have eachothers phone numbers buit we never call eachother,we have sent eachother myspace messages about getting together and have not gotten together, so its almost akward seeing eachother,but i still feel like he hates me?

2007-09-16 05:10:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any? How is your marriage?

2007-09-16 05:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 5 months, we were together every day, very happy together, I was never happier with anyone else. But I found out when I went away twice, he called my girlfriend and asked her out to eat dinner and watch movie. He also asked her if she is working when he is going on a business trip. (she is flight attendant). How he got her number is when she was at my house and he was there, he took her number from her cell phone without anyone's knowledge. I had suspision that my friend and him were flirting at my house that day so I stopped talking to my friend and had huge fight with my boyfriend. My friend told me this one day and I broke up with him. He says he is terribly sorry and his intention was not cheating but to fix my friendship with her.

I love him terribly and I was so happy. He says he feels terrible and will never happen again and it was mistake. Would you break up with him? Please help. I am in a lot of pain and it hurts.

2007-09-16 05:09:46 · 41 answers · asked by whattodo898 1 in Singles & Dating

I invited people to my birthday party...None of them are coming:( They are doing things wit their boyfriend. Now i have a birthday party without friends:( No boyfriend, just family that doesn't treat me good especially on birthday.

How cna i cope wit this:( Its hard.

2007-09-16 05:02:03 · 5 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Friends

Do you think it's wrong to go out with a guy when you know that you won't sleep with him till you're married..but you don't see yourself married to him?
What would you call two people in this situation - they're dating? they're friends? they're just hanging out?

2007-09-16 05:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if you hate your mother because she forced you to have an abortion which ruined your life. My mom told me I "better get rid of it" and "I am not going to help you" when I got pregnant. After that I flunked out of college and became really depressed, now all I do is smoke and drink and whenever I think about my little kid I want to or do cry and become filled with rage toward my mother. How can I ease the pain and began to live a healthier/ happier life?

2007-09-16 04:55:03 · 36 answers · asked by luvme&hearts 2 in Family

3 months ago, if he claims benefit now, will he be entitled to back money?

2007-09-16 04:53:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Alright heres the story. Whenever my mom wear her workout pants (black stretchy and tight) I just can't help but stare at her butt. Its just so jiggly and round, and I would really like to grab it. I'm 15 years old. Is it wrong to get turned on by her butt, even though it's only when she wears her workout pants?

2007-09-16 04:51:07 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of almost 5 months and I broke up yesterday and it's absolutely killing me! What can I do to not feel so bad?

2007-09-16 04:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any non-white girls out there who are really into white guys for their looks, etc... and not just for their money or because their tired of men of their own race? i'm just curious because it seems asian, hispanic, and black women who date white guys only want their money and don't really love them or date them because they are "tired" of men of their own race. I'm not saying its always like that, but it seems 50% of the time it really is. What do you think?

2007-09-16 04:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by Dusk 6 in Singles & Dating

if you knew you were going to die and you couldnt do anything about it what would you do

i would call bff and tell her that im glad she was always there for me and im sorry for the things i did that you never liked but i never regretted that one thing i did wrong and tell her i love her
i would tell my mom thanks for keeping me and all ways hearing me out and i love her
id tell my dad thanks for fixing my mistakes and all wasys letting my be is baby girl and supportting me no matter waht and i love you
id tell my brother im sorry for when we were littel and thanks for taking me to school even when mom made you and for lissening to me when i really needed it and no one was aroundand i love you
id tell my grama i didnt mean to be so ill around you even you tryed to get me everything i wonted case im a spoiled brat and id tell her id say hello to grampa for you and i love you

2007-09-16 04:48:59 · 15 answers · asked by Mary 3 in Family

bad days,bad moments.there is a girl 'R' who tried to hurt me with another friend and here i am angry and its wrong 2 be but that what happened.i fighted with here in february because she wanted 2 take my boyfriend so i told her that i dont like cheaters.so she told him and all the drama happened.but last month i sad well i will forgot about it and i called her and i was nice and i sad in my mind i'll forgive her because we were friend.but now in RAMADAN like she's trying 2 hurt me by talking behind my back.so i did the same and talked my best friend cz i was sad and i needed 2 talk 2 somebody.i lied 2 'R' and told her that my life is great this year(but its not).but what makes me sad that am i eveil?am i bad?if devil arent here why im feeling like that?im afraid honestly i dont wanna be bad and i dont want GOD to be angry because i lied and i hate what im having in these days?tell me what to do?i dont want RAMADAN 2 pass with me being bad and eveil and not the way it suppose 2 be.HELP

2007-09-16 04:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean I like him But it is so wierd.I have asked him before but that ended with a no.but now it is so different

2007-09-16 04:42:50 · 12 answers · asked by Kaytlyn 1 in Singles & Dating

After my ex boyfriend broke up with me I told him he never loved me. Turns out that's the reason he won't be my friend. We hang out with the same group of people, and even if he won't be my friend, I'd at-least like things to be cool between us. I've realized that what I said was wrong, and I feel really bad for upsetting him so much. Even though he said it's something a simple sorry can't fix I think maybe if I genuinely apologize maybe it will help make things better. Any ideas for a good way to show him that I'm really sorry?

2007-09-16 04:42:30 · 11 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating