Do you think it's wrong to go out with a guy when you know that you won't sleep with him till you're married..but you don't see yourself married to him?
What would you call two people in this situation - they're dating? they're friends? they're just hanging out?
2007-09-16 05:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just friends. No its no wrong to go out. Just because you saving yourself, that doesent mean your not supposed to have fun and enjoy the company of the opposite sex
2007-09-16 05:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dating.
2007-09-16 05:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think it is wrong to go out with a guy you do not plan to sleep with, You should not be doing that until you are an adult anyway!! Well If you don't see yourself married to him give it time until you really know eachother, and you might be like.. all over him! It is your decision whether you are dating or hanging out, but if you really like this guy you are more than friends! Hope I helped and good luck!! :)
2007-09-16 05:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by CakeMix666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be more of a waste of time if u didn't see the relationship headed towards marriage. As long as your not doing anything with him (kissing, fooling around, etc.) Then it would be more like hanging out but make sure the two of u are on the same page about what exactly it is you're doing. It's a great thing to wait for marriage to sleep with someone but make sure you're not leading them on to believe that it's going to happen b4 then.
2007-09-16 05:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as pre-dating... but the two of you can be friends. If you haven't dated yet, then its difficult to determine whether he's marriage material (a little) or boyfriend material. Its hanging out. Until a little intimacy is shown in a hug or your voice tone (which is the attraction aspect)... that's when the two of you can consider dating.
My advice is the more you think about marriage, the more pickier you become and the further it pushes you away. Throw away that list of qualities and have fun. Let your hair down.
2007-09-16 05:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Pinkee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is just hanging out, these things are difficult to define and they should both have a conversation about it. Besides does the label you put on the relationship really matter. If you both like spending time with each other then putting a label might make things weird.
2007-09-16 05:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hang out with my guy friends all the time. my best friend is in a relationship and loves the girl. he doesn't know i've been in love with him for like a year. but i hang out with him cause he's not intrested in me like that, and if he ever is then i can't wait. anyway...i think that if you are alone together and just click it's like dating. if you're both single and having a good time then it seems to me to be dating..if you are concerned about this then just ask her how she feels.
2016-05-21 00:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by juliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you ever think about sleeping with any body you need to know then first best as a friend .Better yet hanging out togeathe is better just to get to know how each other act around others so you dont get a surprise.
2007-09-16 05:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that if you are attracted to him just as he is to you then it is dating. you don't have to marry or sleep with every guy you date. just have fun and relax the right guy will come just think of this as a little time consumption. but that doesn't mean treat him any different. treat him as you would if you were going to get married. who knows maybe he would surprise you.
2007-09-16 05:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by tj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what y'all situation is. From reading y'all seem as friends but really close friends that don't have sex, that is possible to have a relationship with someone without having sex. Just see how far you can go with this person you never know how it might turn out.
2007-09-16 05:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋