After my ex boyfriend broke up with me I told him he never loved me. Turns out that's the reason he won't be my friend. We hang out with the same group of people, and even if he won't be my friend, I'd at-least like things to be cool between us. I've realized that what I said was wrong, and I feel really bad for upsetting him so much. Even though he said it's something a simple sorry can't fix I think maybe if I genuinely apologize maybe it will help make things better. Any ideas for a good way to show him that I'm really sorry?
2007-09-16 04:42:30 · 11 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I have talk to him over the computer he makes it very clear he dosn't love me anymore. And he first told me that online about 8 months ago. So he definatley dosn't have feelings for me anymore.
2007-09-16 04:44:02 · update #1
As I said, we hang out with the same group of people. It's awkward when he won't talk to me. Throws everything off.
2007-09-16 04:52:24 · update #2
you are worthless . He doesn't want to hear your bullshit. LEAVE HIM ALONE!
2007-09-16 04:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't love you anymore and has made it very clear, why are you still pursuing him?
Give it up! He's gone, it's over, you will not be friends. That's it.
If his precious little feelings are that upset over something you obviously said in anger, then what kind of man is he in the first place? He may as well put on a dress and call himself Ms. Sensitive.
Find a real guy.
2007-09-16 11:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize only if you believe in your heart that it's the right thing to do. That's really all you can do; you can't MAKE him believe how sincere you are if he's truly had enough.
You're not the first and you won't be the last to be in this situation. We can't undo the past. We can make amends the best we can, but then we have to let it go.
2007-09-16 11:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste your time with an apology. If you said he made it clear he doesn't care about you anymore he probably won't think much of an apology. When you're around him just act like you're cool with everything and you've moved on with no hard feelings.
2007-09-16 11:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, my ex gf didn't leave me alone and i got sick of it so i made sure i didn't like her anymore. So that's what he's doing to you. But if you insist of apologizing. Say it while looking him in the eye.
But like i said, I wanted my ex to leave me alone for good. So it's probably a good idea that you left him alone. Sorry.
2007-09-16 11:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, if you have said a sincere sorry and he is not forgiving, that's his matter.
you cannot do anything to change anyone.
You are better off without him dangling in your life.
He is immature, irresponsible, dishonest.
and mentally unhealthy.
doing such things to you.
2007-09-16 11:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think they call them EXes? You don't need to apologize. Leave him alone and move on.
2007-09-16 11:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with him anymore. He's sending mixed signals that you don't need. Let him go, and go your own way. You'll find someone who is honest and really cares.
2007-09-16 11:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you.
I don't think you should be apologising about anything.
2007-09-16 11:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
face to face, alone, unscripted.
2007-09-16 11:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by mtjiji_021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋