Mature question for latina, asian, and black women? (serious answers only)?

Question

Are there any non-white girls out there who are really into white guys for their looks, etc... and not just for their money or because their tired of men of their own race? i'm just curious because it seems asian, hispanic, and black women who date white guys only want their money and don't really love them or date them because they are "tired" of men of their own race. I'm not saying its always like that, but it seems 50% of the time it really is. What do you think?

Nat- take it easy, i'm not accusing any of such to be golddiggers. I'm asking about the ones who date primarily white men if its because they really like them or is it financial reasons.

I know women of all races work hard, i've seen it. I'm just asking a legitimate question since I do see such types who are attracted to white guys only go for the wealthy ones.

Kerrina- I'm actually mixed white/latino. Secondly, if you took the time to read the details I did not put men of other races down nor have I accused all non-white women of using white men for their money. You need to really reread honey and you need to not be so condescending and arrogant.

Answer 1

asian, and despise asian women who date white guys for money. likewise, despise white men who date asian girls for "tightness" (for lack of better word).

otherwise asian + white is a lovely combination!

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++ im not trying to defend the asker but i do not find it offensive the way he puts the question. he is merely asking and seeking clarification for what he observed?
i cant say for all but i do have friends who are asians and get together with white men for money. i have also seen many twenty something asian women married to sixty something men. i guess i can only speculate the reasons. one - money. two - security which in turns also involves money. three - loneliness?? four - immigration?? so that is one thing i am not going to deny. however, i am sure everybody knows that is just generalisation. i would still say most of the relationships are based on true affection for each other.

and to asker - "tired" is perhaps an inappropriate word to use. somehow people can just not-be attracted to a particular race, including that of themselves' for many different reasons. i am also not so sure if you have heard that white men are stingy, but thats what i have been told. hope that gives you a little bit more perspectives ++

Answer 2

I'm only 15 but, your asking a question that I can help answer. I am asian and I find that your question isn't being asked in a polite way. Asian women do not marry English men for there money. In fact, there are many Asian men who are well educated and could support a wife and a future family and their expenditures. Asian's as English or any other race do not marry into another race through boredom of their own or for security. In a relationship that is not expected to last then maybe. But, I have a family which many English and Irish men have been married into and am fully aware of reasons as to why they were married into our family. My aunt is married to and Irish man who is a teacher and yet she is a teacher and possibly teaches at a higher degree, so no we don't marry or involve ourselves with English men through boredom of our own race or for security. I hope this answers your question. Because you have come across as some arrogant, thick, white boy. So try wording things in a nice way, and then maybe you'd receive a nice response. Because in case you haven't noticed many Asians are in fact; Doctors, Dentists, Solicitors, Opticians and Teachers. So think before you ask a question.

Answer 3

I get along with black women just fine, they aren't many Latinas where I live so I can't say much there. I notice that I tent to get along more with older black women better than the ones my age. I am 23 and a lot of my Jamaican and Ethiopian friends are at least 10 years older.

Answer 4

I am going to throw my point of view for the Latinas. This is what I believe , doesn't mean I am right.....key answer to "word" in your question: "mature", with this category you are dealing with "foxes", in the good sense of the word, smarter, and possibly yes, Latina is very tired of dealing with the "macho", they are sick of that, they don't deal with this with another race. Now with the money it doubles the "plus", there are good man with good heart, but because these Latinas are mature, they also need to think about financial security issues, might not be a priority, but is very important. These Latinas must should have a financial position already, so why not built a happy safe financial road with a guy who is not macho and that will be an absolute pleasure to travel the world when retired.
I am going to be very honest and cruel with my words, but I would never never would marry a Latin man, specifically from a Country that I won't mention, but we all know which I am referring to. Hope this help, friend......

Answer 5

I'm Hispanic and I've only dated one white guy. It wasn't about money at all. He was a good looking guy and he made me laugh all the time. The only thing is that he didn't understand certain things.... I mean my family is pretty American but my dad is still old fashioned and there were certain things that he just couldn't understand about my life and things my parents wouldn't allow me to do. But half of my sibilings married white men/women so its not all about money or people being "tired" of their own race. Its about the connection you have with a person.

Answer 6

I'm Korean and my friends who date white guys don't go after material objects or chase someone else because they're tired of their own race. It's really just preference... my one girlfriend doesn't like how Korean guys get possessive and how they gossip a lot. She also prefers the rocker-type and is just attracted to white guys more.

Answer 7

I am spanish and just have a preference for white men. I didnt marry my husband for his money, I did it for, well this may sound old fashioned, but, I married for love. It doesnt matter to me at all if he makes a million dollars or ten, he is the man that I love.
And by the way, all of my past boyfriends have been white men. I just never was attracted to spanish or latino men.

Answer 8

I can only speak for myself.

I have a physical preference for white men, and I always have. It's less about money cuz i could get a black man with money if I wanted.

You can be rest assured that I have a deep appreciation for white men. :D

I'm not tired of black men. I have nothing against black men. I'm just attracted to white men. Period.

Btw, I'm black.

Answer 9

IM A LATINA AND DATE MY OWN KIND EVEN IF THEY GET ON MY NERVES OR DONT HAVE MUCH MONEY I DO NOT USE A MAN FOR THEIR MONEY I WORK AND MAKE MY OWN MONEY AND BUY MY OWN STUFF IF A GUY WANTS TO SPEND MONEY ON ME THAT IS OK BUT THAT IS NOT WHAT I LOOK FOR IN A MAN!

Answer 10

Im phillippino (asian) and i like an american. Plus he's pretty poor. Hes an amazing guy, Some girlz are just total idiots and dont see the guys for who they truely are.