should I continue contacting his family that I've befriended through him? p.s. I dont want him involved with us either...and YES, I have moved on
2007-09-16 05:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by MexicanTlingitVisayan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. As long as they know how to contact you, and you allow them to see the children, then it is up to them. They will have to explain to the children later on what their problem was.
2007-09-16 05:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by carmeliasue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi....I'm sorry to hear that since a child could benefit from their dad...for some anyway. I would ask the grandparents if they want to continue being a part of your family. The grandparents aren't at fault here just their son so they may want to continue being a part of your daughters life. If not, then don't bother with them any longer, and this would be a shame since this is their grand daughter no matter what. Good luck and take care.
2007-09-16 05:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 09:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay in touch with the family only if they were interested.
If they call to see how your daughter is doing from time to time I would stay in touch.
How important is this to your daughter at this point? Is she close to anyone on his side?
Ohh well, his loss, hope he enjoys looking back feeling guilty about life some time later down the road..
2007-09-16 05:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by nelppik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so be it.... but the daughter is his and one day he or she might want to get back in contact. Just see what happens..... but you can move on
2007-09-16 05:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT about YOU - it should be about your daughter. Is any relationship with them beneficial for her? Just off the top of my head, i would say that it is, especially if he isn't involved.
Kids need all the family they can get, the more who love them, the better.
2007-09-16 05:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As your child grows, she may want to know her "other" family.
If you can be friends with them, why deny her right to them because he's a jerk?
Being friends with them does not mean you will be forced into having to deal with him if they understand the situation.
I would say go for it....more family means more love for the child.
2007-09-16 05:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by mom tree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd just tell his family that if they want to contact you and/or they are welcome to, then stop contacting them, and move on. If they want contact with either of you, they can initiate it.
This happened to me and they haven't contacted either of us.
My son is 23 and has not wanted or tried to contact them either.
2007-09-16 05:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by angieblossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just leave him alone and take care of your child and someone else will pop in the picture but you can't rush it
2007-09-16 05:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by hotcherrypepsi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will turn out to be the stronger one in all of this trust me, your doing great on your own and providing for her.
2007-09-16 05:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by milliondollar-playmate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋