Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

well my bf and i hav been going out and stuff and i want to kiss should i wait till he goes for it first or should i go and kiss him???

2007-09-16 04:42:11 · 17 answers · asked by kelsey b 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15. The lad i used to go out with ( a month ago) i fancy smokes weed (lots of it ) and i said to him... " i dont think you should smoke it anymore" he said "why?" and i told him that "i still care about you and i dont want to tell you the reason
because you might be mad at me." ... i said all this on msn.

Then i went offline and 10 seconds later he pranked me and then test me asking me what i meant but i just repeated my self and said i was sleepy so if he wanted we could talk about it another time.. he replied with "kk beautiful. ill let you sleep xxx."

Firstly do you think he still fancys me??

And do you think he will stop smoking weed??

p.s the reason is because he forgets things and its making him look ugly

also could weed be the reason he wont go owt with me even though he says he likes me?

2007-09-16 04:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 04:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by jessica l 1 in Family

We have been dating 10 months 2day. We are lesbians and 16 years old. Our relationship was good in the beginning but about 3 months ago i started to question myself on if i was Bisexual. now the problem is, is that my girl had and has a whole bunch of medical problems ranging from physical diesase like cancer to emotion problems ranging throught abuse. She is my light and my world when im with her ,and when im without her i kinda of miss her. Lately we've been trying to push eachother away but at the same time we both love eachother. I dont wanna leave her but when im around her in school im all about attention and i act different which makes her confused. We've been sitting her trying to make it work for 3 months and all it does is gets worse. but me and my girl talked and spent time togather outside of school and we bonded like we did when i times are good. please any advice on how to get it back or relationship back to the way it was? or should we just call it quits? im really in lo

2007-09-16 04:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently found out my 17 year old daughter (just turned 17 and still in HS) is seeing a 25 year old man. I feel this is very inappropriate. She can't understand why I would be opposed to her seeing this "nice guy". OK, am I to concerned about nothing? What kind of boundries are acceptable these days?

2007-09-16 04:37:05 · 21 answers · asked by confidential 2 in Singles & Dating

The cyclops came out of her cave and is demanding I clean out the garage, should I send the retard back inside?

2007-09-16 04:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I come from a large family and when we were young we were all close and now it seems like we are not a family as much. Many siblings live in different states, they call occasionally but dont write or e-mail very frequently and my question is what ever happened to family unity? It is almost like my brothers and sisters (most of them) are more like distant cousins than a true close knit family. Is there any way to bring the closeness back to our families again like when we were young? We do love eachother and maybe piss eachother off once in a while meaning get eachother mad, but I feel family is important and it is only a matter of time before our parents pass on. Friends come and friends go but your family is your family for life What is your take on this?

2007-09-16 04:34:37 · 5 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Family

What shall I take of this? Does she or not.

2007-09-16 04:32:28 · 94 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sad, really quickly?

What do you think would sadden me?

I'm asking this again, because no one understood so, please, read the question before answering!

I DON'T want to make anyone sad, I'm asking if you know what could make me, or any friend, sad. In other words, what NOT to do...

Thank you for your answer!

Have a wonderful day!

2007-09-16 04:30:48 · 17 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

Especially if you knew they'd be funny about you saying anything

2007-09-16 04:30:28 · 14 answers · asked by JB 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i started working for someone recently and about two weeks into the job my little sister got into a bike accident and i had to take her to the hospital. she called me in a panic because no one else was around so i ran to go get her. i called my work to let them know i couldn't go in but they said if i don't come in they will let me go. i explained to them that i had to take care of my sister but they insisted they would have to let me go. i didn't want to lose my job so i tried to see if ANYONE could help me out but i was all alone. i called my work again and they said they would have to let me go, i told them they were being childish and that my family is more important that any job. does anyone have advice for how i should handle this situation?

2007-09-16 04:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by crumpet 3 in Family

ok this guy flirts with me all the time and i really like him and i want him to like me back but i cant tell if he does like i sed he flirts wiht me all the time but he sayd he doesnt like me is he lying or not in your opinoion?

2007-09-16 04:25:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 04:24:58 · 23 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing, it happened about a year ago when he offered me $1000 for sex, which I thought was a weird joke that I turned down. But the tension was undeniable and I was eventually talked into it.

I bullshitted and said I had sex with two different people before but that was a lie that he eventually found out about. We had sex anyway, despite his protests during a momentary freak out about his wife.

Apparently he had waited until I turned 18 before he asked (he is 41) and he said that he only hired me because he wanted to **** me. Strangely, I don't feel bad about giving my virginity to my boss and not any of my ex-boyfriends.

I'm not trying to justify my actions but this has been going on for about 6 months and I CAN'T stop thinking about him and the next time we ****. I don't want to, but I have fallen for him. I think the best thing to do is to end it but I don't know how. And should I break it off, I know that I'll miss him and be completely heartbroken. Please help!

2007-09-16 04:22:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 04:19:56 · 19 answers · asked by cleopatra 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-16 04:13:59 · 25 answers · asked by jimmy2times 1 in Singles & Dating

If they were very open and honest, and told you about it very early on... would you date someone who has genital herpes?

2007-09-16 04:13:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 04:11:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

have been together for 50 years. and nowdays people cant seem to stay together for more than 2 years. are there guys out ther who actualy want to settle down. who want to come home to a gf/food/dog?

2007-09-16 04:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by catherine m 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 04:09:30 · 16 answers · asked by Mark E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just found out that my husband to 7 years has been emailing, then meeting up with his old girl friend in the past. I found this out about the emails then latter that they met. It's all unreal to me. This is his first time, I am very sure of that. Asked him what was going on and he said they were catching up. Dont understand it, I asked him to cut off all contact with her. Now I want to know is the statement is true once a cheater always a cheater. Ok he did tell me that he did not mean to hurt me. What a tv line right. He also told me that he will never cause me to hurt like that again. I really need some good advice.

2007-09-16 04:08:22 · 23 answers · asked by mother of two 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together for 8years and i have a hard time getting him to pick up a broom.

2007-09-16 04:06:46 · 18 answers · asked by Zest 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OK i've been doing chores about the house all day and she's out to a party with the wee one, should i make her dinner for her coming home?

2007-09-16 04:05:17 · 29 answers · asked by alser 2 in Family

Ok, firstly, I only want serious answers. Secondly, I'm not going in for a session of "woman bashing", so don't get up on your high horses and start accusing me of being sexist.

What I'd like to know is this: Why, when a man breaks a woman's heart, do women start ranting about how men are all b@stards etc, and yet, when a woman does the same to a man, nobody seems to care?

I was seeing a young lady last October. She asked me out the first time, so I thought she had an interest. We'd been out 3 times and I really felt we were getting close, when I asked to see her again she said "Actually no, we're just friends and you never should have got any other impression!"

I was really upset, I felt like my heart had been ripped from my chest. She then showed up a few months ago wanting to go out with me!

Why does nobody talk (or even care) about the women who have broken men's hearts?

Is this a kind of discrimination against men?

2007-09-16 04:02:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My marriage is mortally wounded, bleeding and for all purposes.. dead. I have children to consider, my wife is not interested in counseling or reconciliation yet she doesn't seem to want to end it. Its like she wants her cake and eat it too (like a marriage of convienience but she and I have different goals and priorities...we're like strangers)

How to I continue when my life is in such disaster? Do file for divorce and be alone for the rest of my life? Or do I continue business as usual for my kids sake?

Its hard getting up and going to work or even have fun in my personal time when all these issues are a dark cloud over me.

I have no real friends to discuss these things with who will understand..so I guess I need one of you to help me see this thing clearer.

Need some practical advice from anyone who has it...Thanks

2007-09-16 03:59:39 · 35 answers · asked by cairo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi. I am in my early 40's and my wife early 30's. We've been married for 10 years. My wife is very attractive, but I'm losing interest in having sex with her. Its a strange feeling, but I feel like I shouldn't be sexually attracted to her. Sort of like you wouldn't want to think anything sexual about your close family members - your brother, sister, parents, etc. I find myself trying to not look at my wife sexually. I find other women sexually attractive though. Do other men feel like this? What can I do about this? I find myself trying to avoid sex anyway possible with my wife.

2007-09-16 03:57:31 · 8 answers · asked by lucky0505 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dear all
my boyfriend is traveling for work and will stay there for 2 months (one month in the sea and one in scotland) :(
i want to do something or give him something to remind him of me everyday, i dont know what to do, but i really need a cute idea.
so any cute and romantic ideas???
thnks in advance:)

2007-09-16 03:57:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And said make the dinner do you agree?

2007-09-16 03:55:53 · 23 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't approach him for sex because when I have before, if he can't "perform" then he becomes upset and embarassed and I think he would rather me not initiate it. Even though I tell him "don't worry about it", "It's ok", "we can try later". He has been to the doctor and has viagra, but that doesn't work either. He says that he never knows when I want to have sex, so I will wear something "sexy" to bed such as a thong or a nightie. I get no response. I am slighty overweight, but I do try. Would that be an indication to most men that your wife wants to have sex? Or am I just crazy?

2007-09-16 03:55:38 · 7 answers · asked by bethany p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, similar situations have occured before, but this is an example. My dad gets VERY angry, sometimes for absolutely no reason at all. I have soccer practice today, but since I'm not feeling well, I couldn't go. My mom was like, "okay sure, you don't have to go." But my dad was like, "WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME BEFORE?!!!??" He cursed at me and hit me like four times on the back, and now it's all red. My back hurts like crazy. He had no reason to do that, did he? He also sometimes yells at mom for no reason. What should I do?
No, I can't talk to my school counselor---it just seems weird, and I don't feel comfortable.

2007-09-16 03:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by pixiestix 1 in Family