im 15. The lad i used to go out with ( a month ago) i fancy smokes weed (lots of it ) and i said to him... " i dont think you should smoke it anymore" he said "why?" and i told him that "i still care about you and i dont want to tell you the reason
because you might be mad at me." ... i said all this on msn.
Then i went offline and 10 seconds later he pranked me and then test me asking me what i meant but i just repeated my self and said i was sleepy so if he wanted we could talk about it another time.. he replied with "kk beautiful. ill let you sleep xxx."
Firstly do you think he still fancys me??
And do you think he will stop smoking weed??
p.s the reason is because he forgets things and its making him look ugly
also could weed be the reason he wont go owt with me even though he says he likes me?
2007-09-16 04:41:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he liked you, he'd be with you.
He will not stop, he'll just do it behind your back.
What do you see in a guy who has no future except smoking weed?
2007-09-16 04:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, I would say you be pessimistic when it comes to him still having feelings for you. The chances of him quitting his weed smoking because you told him to stop is about .01% If he's going to stop smoking weed, it's going to be because HE wants to stop smoking weed, not because you want him to. I'll agree with you that smoking weed is grungy and grimy. If he says he "likes" you yet continues to dance around the issue, he's playing games with you. Don't let him toy with you like that. You have emotions too and you probably deserve a guy that would really treat you right.
2007-09-16 11:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by standup149 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he will stop. I've dated guys like that before and they're still in the same place they were back then. Didn't graduate, no job etc etc.... they just wanna hang out all the time and never grow up. Its time to let him go. Find a real man. Good luck.
2007-09-16 11:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should stop him smoking as soon as possible. I understand that you care for him. Just suggest him about nicotine replacements. Show him this website so that he can stop smoking.
2007-09-17 13:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Dr John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is smoking weed then leave him alone he won't stop until he gets ready no matter how much he Care's about you. your still young there will be another guy.
2007-09-16 11:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by asmerriett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are headed for trouble because there's no way around it weed is illegal. some day somewhere some how when you least expect it BAM your busted you don't have to touch the stuff but id you are with him you are going down to. its your choice where do you want to go?
2007-09-16 12:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by kansas city gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wil probably not stop smoking weed. that sthe honest truth. If he loves you then he will stop, but it doesnt seem like he loves you. Personally i dont think he really cares about you. try to help him, but dont go out with him again.
2007-09-16 11:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes a pot head. There very unrelaible. He might like you but being in a relationship with a pot head is annoying as hell. Atleast from what I know from my friends experinces.
2007-09-16 11:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Simple Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. He is trouble and the last thing you need is his negative influence effecting your life.
2007-09-16 11:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋