What are some ways of making a friend really... (read on, please) ?

Question

sad, really quickly?

What do you think would sadden me?

I'm asking this again, because no one understood so, please, read the question before answering!

I DON'T want to make anyone sad, I'm asking if you know what could make me, or any friend, sad. In other words, what NOT to do...

Thank you for your answer!

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Answer 1

Change perhaps, sometimes when things change it saddens people like when it turns summer to fall. It kinda signifies things coming to and end or death/dying. Maybe too much sympathy and one feels inside that they're not worthy, when they really are. Maybe it was a discussion between two people about something in the life of the other person that the other feels a connection with or that the other person has something that the other person might feel has escaped them such as love or a spouse or a better perceived life. The thing is my friend Moon, we humans are a fragile lot and it doesn't take much to make any of us sad. But when we do it's usually best to talk about the feeling to someone because sadness can be very overwhelming if we let it. When you can find no joy in life there's a problem and it should be taken very seriously and help should be sought. I myself am a pretty simple book to read and people usually know when I'm down, but usually it's simple things that can cheer me up. My family, my 2 dogs, photography, sports...etc. Sometimes when we feel sad you have to stand up to your own feeling and fight it back and just not let yourself. Go on a trip, go visit someone, go volunteer somewhere. It can be anything as long as you get out and do something. I hope I understood you and hope this might help. Your friend, G=ME

Answer 2

Insulting a friend wouldn't be a wise thing to do. It's difficult not to do this inadvertently sometimes. We are all different and have different interpretations that are sometimes removed from intentions. But, if I ever said something that hurt a friend, I hope I'd quickly recognize it or be told, so that I could apologize and help them feel happy again. The last thing I want is for anyone to be sad.

What would make you sad? Hmmmm, I think a lack of understanding or creating drama might sadden you more than other things. That's my best guess. I get the feeling that "unfounded assumptions", drama, combined with Moon are like oil and water :-) :-). But, I don't really know.

Have a great day dear :-).

Answer 3

I hope I understand what your question is. I believe to have a friend, you have to accept them for who they are. I don't mean a person with a mean disposition, but a person that you can convey with. Not being controlling, argumentive, and criticizing. A person who is willing to listen and give support and understanding. I believe friendship should not be bought, but earned.
I had experiences where a few people tried to buy my friendship by offering me materialistic things. And later be told I gave you something, now do what I want. That is not right.
Friendship comes from the heart and not from the pocket book or wallet. If a person is in real need I will do what I can to help. There are so many little things that makes a friend. But most important is to always be there when it is possible to support that friend.
I hope I answered this correctly.

Good luck and God speed.

Answer 4

Woe to any who would diminish a True friend however slightly;

or who overlook that that friend is assuredly one cell in the Body of the Universe, and as with any Body will this summon reactions that connect to an entirety of Nerve Endings and Networks Unseen, Unheard: that that pain shall be felt somewhere, somehow in the worlds of worlds;

Pity again to render his or her imports on a concern or worry meaningless, as if he or she is delusional and were outside the emergent moment that besets him or her presently;

or to dismiss out of hand, which effect is to shatter when taken in because the belief that what was given was assumed trusted and safe: -- regard that friend's plight foremost in the moment, for now it is not ours but his or hers --whatever that might be.

Above all -- do not de-rail a train or corrupt the path of a friend, ally, or close one, which crime may require years to repair if then, which result does disrupt not only his or her path but the Wish and Path set for that friend by the Universe;

Raise neither inner voice nor outer hand against him or her by the dark intents or actions;

Nor violate the space and will of a friend or in fact anyone and thus mock everyone -- which does guarantee to sadden and hasten sadness in all, in one fell swoop with destruction and infirmity.

Do not not check a friend's six.

Answer 5

to lose a friend, it really saddens me when one get deleted, even when I know that they will be back, the thought of them having to start over again, still hurts.
that is why I try to collect as many personal e mail accounts as I can. so that I can still stay in contact.
even when I don't post on their 360's I always read their question, check out what they have stared, and try to read what they have answered, this makes me feel like i am still in contact with them, even if they don't realize it.

Answer 6

I try to be sensitive to others; offer suggestions when they are unhappy, but not to the point of hurting their feelings. It would crush me if someone told me I was untruthful, made things up about them, gossiped about them . . . . .this is not the sign of a true friend, thus, it would make me sad.

My daughter, who I have always thought of as my friend, went through a year of chemotherapy. I was with her every week, holding her hand, going through all the nightmare one goes through in such cases. I believe through medical research she developed "chemo brain" where the individual literally changes, chemically, through their hormones, whatever be the case. She told family members ridiculous lies about me that crushed me. Hurtful things. This made me very sad. I still love her, but none the less, felt bruised by her thoughtlessness. This is an example of how a friend could/would/did sadden me.

Answer 7

Hi Moon, I knew what you meant the first time while I was trying to answer your question. I think a couple just decided to make more out of it. LOL

Ways to make you said would be for me to say something mean to you. Also, I know if I told you something that was really sad ( heartbreaking ) that would do it, too.

Answer 8

I don't like to make my friends sad. I know not emailing you when your account was deleted made you sad. Especially, when only one person noticed.

As for the "what not to do" thing...not being mindful

Answer 9

Don't be too emotional on what happened to you. You must learn to face the reality. Be firm and strong. Have faith in god and your friends because they will always be there to support you. Don't misunderstood them for they just care for you. You are sad because you are not freed from the bondage of loneliness. Stop blaming because you have to move on. You make your own life. And there willbe no one in this world but you alone. So please, draw postive thoughts to draw positive energies in life. Good luck! Am always around to comfort you.

Answer 10

Let them down bigtime like withdrawing support for a project and sneering at them as well. This is a real friendship-breaker.