Ok, firstly, I only want serious answers. Secondly, I'm not going in for a session of "woman bashing", so don't get up on your high horses and start accusing me of being sexist.
What I'd like to know is this: Why, when a man breaks a woman's heart, do women start ranting about how men are all b@stards etc, and yet, when a woman does the same to a man, nobody seems to care?
I was seeing a young lady last October. She asked me out the first time, so I thought she had an interest. We'd been out 3 times and I really felt we were getting close, when I asked to see her again she said "Actually no, we're just friends and you never should have got any other impression!"
I was really upset, I felt like my heart had been ripped from my chest. She then showed up a few months ago wanting to go out with me!
Why does nobody talk (or even care) about the women who have broken men's hearts?
Is this a kind of discrimination against men?
2007-09-16 04:02:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But nobody has answered my question yet! Ok, let me put it another way - those women who rant on about how men are b@stards etc, if you suggested to them that women can be just as hurtful in relationships as men, would either deny it or accuse you of being sexist.
And I want to know WHY!
2007-09-16 12:17:18 · update #1
it seem that all the "nice guy" or the one who are "too nice" always get cheated on and strung along by women. i have no idea why. i would personally like to find a guy who is "too nice" and treat himvery right but every man i have ever talked to has treated me like a dog. i just dont understand how the 4 or 5 guys left in the worl who are nice alawys seemed to be the ones who get played. truly puzzling.sry about the girl.
2007-09-16 04:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by catherine m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women only talk about men hurting them because that is who hurts them. i'm real sorry this girl has done this to you it's really a shame. when or if she comes around next time you need to let her know that she hurt you and that you don't appreciate her coming around if you already haven't. there are a lot of nice girls out there. you seem to be a pretty straight forward guy so be up front with the next girl and let her know that you like her and would like to get to know her better and ask her how she feels about it as well. again sorry this happened to you it happens to the best of us.
2007-09-16 04:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of reasons and men do tend to be more selfish than women. AND women usually find it much easier to get away with sexist b*llsh*t too.
2007-09-16 04:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by godron_wookie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋