What shall I take of this? Does she or not.
2007-09-16 04:32:28 · 94 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to grow up and dont let her use you agian
2007-09-16 04:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by wantsamusicmanblackstingray 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
You deserve better! I think she is playing with your heart. You shouldn't have to put up with being cheated on even one time! If she sees you always take her back, regardless of her infidelities she will most likely cheat again, unless you make it clear to her that if she really loves you as she had said to you last night, she needs to make a commitment not to cheat on you again as well, because that's not LOVE.
It's a chance you have to be willing to take..... Since I've even been promised by past loves that they would not cheat again, yet a few months down the line they do anyhow. So it's up to you if you will be able to handle what the future may hold for your relationship with her to survive.
Did you ask her what she meant when she said she loved you? Forever? Or just for the time being? Also do you love her? If so, I hope she realizes she should stop playing with your heart before she may lose you forever, even as a close friend!
2007-09-16 04:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by not perfect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not at that level of knowing what love is. She thinks she can just show up out of nowhere and win you back. Don't let that happen. You don't need the foolishness. Maybe she's experience some kind of heartbreak and remembering what she had. Its great that she sees the light now, but look at the way she had to find it... through cheating and going A-WALL for a month. This girl is unpredictable and is a ticking time bomb. Don't let her pull you under. Love to her could just means that she misses your ways and nothing more.
2007-09-16 04:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude she doesnt love you. What I would do if I was you is I would play with her. *** her brains out. Take pictures. Enjoy it. BUT DO NOT FALL IN LOVE. Keep your heart out of it. And then when she cheats on you again and she will. Once a cheater always a cheater no matter what anyone says. Throw the pictures in her face and be like whatever slu-t. The other thing you could do is when you find out she is cheating on you again... move on find someone else then give her the cold door one night be like i found someone better. Just always have an escape route. Something I did was some chick wanted me back i was like yea sure whatever.. she wanted me to tell her i loved her... i was like yea whatever i love you... i busted my nut on her then grabbed mystuff and left. She was like your not staying the night? I said, I got what I wanted. I then ignored all her calls because I knew she was and would never be faithful. That girl was born to ***. Go *** her and let her go
2007-09-16 04:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Street Pharmaciast
Why Not , Open Your Heart , and try to teach her a lesson
act like you love another girl , believe me we women are just
small children , make her very jelous on you , but dont take this for so long
just two or three weeks , then talk to her ask her if she really
serious about you , and the most important thing here is YOU
, Do you miss her , Your Heart feel ?!!! towards her ,
if you love her then punish her softly then come back to her
I Hope This Help YOU , Good Luck .
2007-09-16 04:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by S a l m a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't take it too seriously because of her track record she seem to fall in and out of love quickly. Sounds like she got lonely, and you are the reliable one to go to that will let her be with you, because she knows you care for her still(that has always been in the back of her mind so when she is alone she remembers how good you were to her). It is convenience and no matter what she says she will hurt you again maybe not right away (or deliberately)but she will gradually do it that is for certain.
Be Strong! Unless you are just looking for a good time and not a commitment I wouldn't go for it!
2007-09-16 04:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by In so many words 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well here i go if a girl does the same thing 3 times shes gonna do it again have u heard of the sayin u cant turn a *** into a housewife also remember this if she will do it with u she will do it to u like if she cheats on her bf to be with u shes gonna cheat on when she finds someone else dont settle for anything but the best for u if it dont feel right about it then dont do it also remember there are still faithfull girls out there like me
2007-09-16 04:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by missmycoco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, give her another chance. Love forgives not 7 times, but 77 times and more!
But if your feelings for her aren't that strong, I think you should forget about her and look for other fish in the sea.
As to the question on whether she loves you or not, I personally think that she does not. She probably just saw you as a second choice.
It's all up to you, do wanna be a martyr or a happy valentino?
2007-09-16 04:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by 123mantobeat456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its hard to take her back the 3rd time I would sit down with her and have a serious conversation with her and say if u really loved me why would u cheat on me not once or twice but three times. But personally I would end it before it happens again.
2007-09-16 04:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tigers never change their stripes. Cheating "once" is considered to be a grave offense in this conservative culture & society, but 3 times? Common.... theres a lot of fishes in the sea. That one is definitely a bad catch.
2007-09-16 04:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just telling you this because she feels bad she cheated on you, and now that she can't find anyone to cheat on you with, she want u back. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You can't take her back. She will only do it again. Sorry. I've been cheated on and it sucks, I know.
2007-09-16 04:38:10 · answer #11 · answered by krystalk25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋