Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

this lack of calling by my boyfriend hs made me paranoid but when we r together he seems genuine and honest...so i was wondering if there r people who just dont like calling too much or dont have time for their relationships??
(he calls twice a week but we see each other every weekend)

2007-09-16 12:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by kera 2 in Singles & Dating

Well im 14... almost 15. Ive always been boy crazy.But my parents wont let me do ANYTHING!I cant hang out with my friends...wether there boys or girls... i see them at school.Thats it.If i ask my parents say no i dont know them.Thats sooo stupid. And i have alot of guy friends and i cant hang with them either. I mean im 14 and i dont have a life.If it wasnt for my parents i could go to the movies and the mall or just hang out... i could be a teen.I hate them!And its so hard to keep a boyfriend cause of them. I cant go to my bfs house or go anywhere with them.Dont you agree this is so unfair.I have to sit at home allday everyday.I wish i could move out.Im so tired of them.

2007-09-16 12:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by Kandice 2 in Family

Last year I found out I can NEVER get pregnet. To me that was good because I never planned on having a kid. Well ever since then I've loosened up and now I have sex all the time. It'll be with random people too. Sometimes I'll go to a party and have it with some guy in the upstairs bedroom. Once I did it with my substitute teacher. I've even slept with my best friend's boyfriend. I can't stop and I'm not sure I want to. But I know this is really wrong. I'm 18 years old so nothing is illegal. But having sex regularly, like a past-time, is really bad. What should I do?

2007-09-16 12:37:05 · 26 answers · asked by Cassi M 1 in Singles & Dating

just for the pleasure, or must it include some form of romance and affection from their partners?

2007-09-16 12:35:22 · 11 answers · asked by Don S 5 in Singles & Dating

if a common friend suggested that u and ur girlfriend (of 9 months) get matching tattoes and she said "its permanent u know" and then ur friend looks at u guys and says "so arent u guys" and she just stays quiet....

2007-09-16 12:35:14 · 21 answers · asked by kera 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to be a nurse but I mean my life is utter torture right now. I just sacrifice, and any day I could fail. The pressure is unreal, and making me crazy, and angry. I am so lonely.

2007-09-16 12:31:12 · 9 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin is mean to me because she's jealous of my beauty. I have nice wide side big eyes and thick lips while her eyes are a bit boring in comparsion to mine and her eyes are alittle close set. She also has thin lips. She scratched me and she pulled my hair once. Another time she smacked me. What do you think of this?

2007-09-16 12:08:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm talking about gut busting belly laughs, tears optional? and, if you do, how does that make you feel?
I am surprised when I get that reaction from my husband, but I get it often and I am so pleasantly surprised and happy!

2007-09-16 12:07:49 · 8 answers · asked by Guinness 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like some HONEST opinions.I was raped...ever since then porn has disgusted me. I told my fiance in the beginning how I saw it and how it made me feel. He VOLUNTARILY got rid of it and PROMISED not to do it again. 2 months after we were engaged I found porn on the comp. He looked at it every night for like 7 or 8 days while I was home...he lied about it multiple times untill he finally admitted it. Now I feel like I dont trust him! Cuz he lied and i see porn as disrespectful to your partner unless the partner is ok w/ it. He says its just what guys do, and it seems every1 feels that way!?! But guys..how would u feel if u found a stack of mags or vids of HOT FIT naked guys with bigger penises than u under ur girls bed? Or if she had naked pics or vids of HERSELF posted on the net. How do u feel when u see her checking out a FULLY clothed guy..but u can WATCH NAKED girls do other naked girls? Y are women supposed to just "be happy" hes not cheating? Really how would u feel?

2007-09-16 12:03:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
I've been dating my girlfriend for 14 years (on and off) and now have been living together for 2. I've noticed that she's constantly complaining, being negative, and criticizing people. Nothing is enough and every time we argue, I'm always at fault (it's always me: if I say something, my fault. If she says something, it's the way I take it, again my fault...). She then says 'I don't want to talk more about it' and that's the end of the conversation (the 'silence treatment').

Is this some kind of disorder that she's (we've) got? If it is, does it have a name?
Thanks bunch

2007-09-16 11:58:01 · 2 answers · asked by Young spirit 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-16 11:57:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I reside in the state of Texas. She left me over a month ago, and we are going to get divorced. She claims that I have to wait to file until she has the baby, stating that this is a Texas law. I am going to talk to an attorney, but I want to get what info I can ahead of time.
Now, I'm in the Army, so she'll get medical for her and the baby until 6 weeks post partum, after which the baby will be covered, but not my wife. She's been causing me a great deal of diffuculty and pain, and I want this over with as soon as possible. If I can get this divorce sooner rather than later, that's what I want to do.

Can somebody please advise me on this supposed Texas law? I'd love to see a link or two with details, if possible. Thanks.

2007-09-16 11:48:46 · 8 answers · asked by Brian Sparta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been pursuing this guy for a bit, and from what I've heard he kind of likes me too, so what is he waiting for?? He just seems to always be waiting for me to initiate stuff (which I always do), but honestly I'm tired of this "game" and I'd prefer to him to make the first move.

So what should I do?

2007-09-16 11:40:30 · 19 answers · asked by peaches & love 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, so i know a guy and he's 17 and like i really like him, and were good friends and stuff. he's mentioned things like "god why do i have to be so frickin old? cuz if i wasn't i'd totally date you" and stuff like that. we also joke about sex and grabs each others butts and all. now is the law a 17 yr old can't date a minor, or is it that like he couldn't have sex with me? i want to know your opinion on this.
*most honest = 10 points
helpful suggestions or hints would be nice too.
=)

2007-09-16 11:39:44 · 21 answers · asked by kristyxmarie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've read all the reasons why women don't like needy men. They're insecure, they have low self-esteem, they need constant reassurance that you are attracted to them, etc. Well, why are these bad things? Do men HAVE to be "manly", "macho", etc? I think some men are more suited to have partners, and some men (like myself) would be better paired with a nurturer/caregiver, and that's OKAY. Yes yes I know, women want to nurture kids, but to take me for example, I am 34 and have absolutely no interest in ever having kids. So of the woman wants to nurture someone, she can nurture me instead.

Plus, needy guys are very loyal. They worship the women they are with, so there's virtually no chance of him ever cheating. They're safe, generally are homebodies, preferring to stay home and watch tv or play video games or just fool around with his woman, so no worries of him coming home drunk and hitting her or anything.

And to those who say a woman can't make me feel good about myself..

2007-09-16 11:37:35 · 9 answers · asked by egocentric_loner 1 in Singles & Dating

I just need a shoulder to cry on...and possibly some great advice. I am feeling so down about my life and my spouse. We have been together for 16 years, married for 12, have 3 kids, a great house that we bought for nothing and refinanced twice with a no interest loan, two expensive vehicles my hubby insisted on, a $5000 tv/surround sound system my hubby insisted on, and a ton a bills that he forgets to pay on time (that's one of his chores). I am at my whits end! I feel consumed with debt and anger over his irresponsible spending and lazy attitude. He works 40-45 hours a week on the swing shift (midnights) and feels he deserves all of this stuff since he works so hard. When I am not home proding him to do something he is either watching TV or surfing the net for Porn. I have tried confronting him, talking to him, giving him more sex, taking the sex away, letting him do what he wants, making him to do the chores, being mean, being nice...and I am feeling helpless.

2007-09-16 11:36:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 7 months pregnant and im single. Well, the father of my baby started threatening to take my baby from me. I don't know what to do. I don't want him around Morgan(my daughter to be) because he has a bad temper and the people in his home smoke indoors. I am worried about her safety and want to know if there is anything I can do...

2007-09-16 11:33:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i need 2 dump some1 but i dont wanna break her heart

2007-09-16 11:31:11 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I checked before and they were not there, and no I was not snooping he left his wallet on the floor next to the remote and I just so happened to see a gold rapping and pulled it out and low and behold there were two condoms.

2007-09-16 11:30:17 · 27 answers · asked by TO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i have a boyfriend whos super sweet and everyone tells me that were meant for eachother. he is what i dreamnt the perfect boyfriend for me. hes 17 and ill be 15 in november.
but lately i have been having strong feelings for my guyfriend and i think he likes me too. he is a lot different from my boyfriend, but i still find him atractive. my boyfriend is more the sweetheart, sensitive, funny one. (hes a skaterboy). and my friend is more mysterious and adventurous, and i also have this fantasy of some wild guy sweeping me off my feet. (yeah, im REALLY sappy sometimes). so whenever i hang out with him, i get really caught up in our chemistry. hes so dreamy and interesting. and were the same age

WHAT DO I DO????!!!!!!!

2007-09-16 11:30:06 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

He used to live in Gateshead and I think he lives in Darlington now. I'd like to know where he is and how he's doing.

2007-09-16 11:29:42 · 7 answers · asked by Babe 2 in Friends

Ok, so there's this guy i really like and uhh we're really good friends. So sometimes we go to pizza but now I wanna ask him to go to the movies but it will sound like a date. So how do I ask him without like directly asking him?

2007-09-16 11:25:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got out of an abusive relationship about a year ago but I find it hard to get myself back on track. Day in and day out I walk around cloudy minded. I can't think and any little noise gets me frustrated. Fussing with anyone makes me sick to the point of feeling like I am going crazy. I misplace things. My speech is slurred I get tongue tied all the time. I find it hard to just wake up in the morning, I am always tired. Even though I have broken away from my ex I still allow him to call our daughter every once in a while because I always want him in her life. It never fails once we try to make plans to meet up so he can see her we always get into arguments and I end up being called good for nothing a b*#%h, a bad mother, my husband is white and I am african american and sometimes he ends up calling me the "n" word. I just don't know how not to have contact with him because of her. I need help.

2007-09-16 11:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by t-t-n1979 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He doesn't know how to talk to me anymore. We always had good communication and now he is just mean. He yells at me for the stupidest things. When he gets angry he throws things. I love him but the way he treats me sometimes really hurts. I tell him I will not take the way he talks to me but that just gets him even more mean. I don't understand what I could have done to deserve this. Even this afternoon, I took a bottle of soda from the cabinet to put in the refridgerator, he starts screaming at me telling me I am blind and stupid because I didn not see a bottle already there. He got nasty again when I finished vacuming a room, I moved the vacuum to the next room and he screamed when it was in his way. Are these reasons to treat someone so bad? We live together and it is making me very depressed. Is there a way to work it out?

2007-09-16 11:24:52 · 25 answers · asked by Yisrael Chai 3 in Singles & Dating

I am always going to clubs and I see women looking at me but when I look at them they look away. I don't know the signs. Could you guys help a guy trying to get back in the game.

2007-09-16 11:24:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone who is physically fit(muscleman)intelligent about a variety of subject matter and a great guitarist musician.

2007-09-16 11:24:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 11:23:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-16 11:22:13 · 1 answers · asked by Kay M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 11:20:38 · 16 answers · asked by elieshaun 1 in Singles & Dating

like him and he's very outgoing and talks to alot of girls but he is always asking me stuff like why won't i pay more attention to him (jokingly.) He starts the conversation often and taught me how to do a handshake. Everytime we walk past each other he'll look at me and if I look back at him, he'll say something funny to me. Today during our break he came over by me and my friends and started playing basketball with us. And also today when he went to go get a soda he asked me if I would watch his food for him. He says we're tight and "buddies" and I told him he has too many buddies and he was like their just friends and I walked away and he jokingly said i was breaking his heart! My teacher asked me wut i was doin this wkend and I said being bored and he heard and told me that i have his permision to call him. He asked if I had his number and I said my bro does (he does). But I called him an hour ago and he hung up on me for no reason so i called back and he didnt answer.

2007-09-16 11:20:27 · 15 answers · asked by crank dat 1 in Singles & Dating