I just got out of an abusive relationship about a year ago but I find it hard to get myself back on track. Day in and day out I walk around cloudy minded. I can't think and any little noise gets me frustrated. Fussing with anyone makes me sick to the point of feeling like I am going crazy. I misplace things. My speech is slurred I get tongue tied all the time. I find it hard to just wake up in the morning, I am always tired. Even though I have broken away from my ex I still allow him to call our daughter every once in a while because I always want him in her life. It never fails once we try to make plans to meet up so he can see her we always get into arguments and I end up being called good for nothing a b*#%h, a bad mother, my husband is white and I am african american and sometimes he ends up calling me the "n" word. I just don't know how not to have contact with him because of her. I need help.
2007-09-16 11:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by t-t-n1979 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This dude definately did some damage to you. You need talk to someone who could put all the pieces together and give you some sound strategies to overcome your anxieties and insecurities. No big deal. You will be fine in no time. Take care cutie.
2007-09-16 11:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Vegas Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling would helpyou tremendously here. The thing is you may allow him to contact your daughtr but there is no law that requires you to have to talk to him at all especially when he starts calling you names and such. If he ever calls you those thing in front of a witness you can sue him for defamation of character or slander too and that would stop that crap. But you do not have to take any of this stuff from him and til he treats you with respect Id discontinue all contact with him. This all comes under emotional/mental abuse and you wcould have a good case in court if you can prove it. Go for the help and take one day at a time to a better life for you and your daughter
2007-09-16 11:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't worry about it, I don't know if ur religious or anything but prayer usually helps. Also you can ask the court for joint custody and request a mediator or third party person so that you will never have to have contact with him, everything will be arranged through the third party.
2007-09-16 11:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by TO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see a doctor, sound like depression.
2007-09-16 11:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by cmrwash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋