Well im 14... almost 15. Ive always been boy crazy.But my parents wont let me do ANYTHING!I cant hang out with my friends...wether there boys or girls... i see them at school.Thats it.If i ask my parents say no i dont know them.Thats sooo stupid. And i have alot of guy friends and i cant hang with them either. I mean im 14 and i dont have a life.If it wasnt for my parents i could go to the movies and the mall or just hang out... i could be a teen.I hate them!And its so hard to keep a boyfriend cause of them. I cant go to my bfs house or go anywhere with them.Dont you agree this is so unfair.I have to sit at home allday everyday.I wish i could move out.Im so tired of them.
2007-09-16 12:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by Kandice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well try to see if your prents will let u have some friends over to ur house so ur parents can meet them and know your friends/boyfirend...then after that ask them if you could go to the mall/movies with a group of ur friends..tell them how you are getting to the movies/gettig home...and what time the movies starts and stuff like that....but if you did something in the past which makes them not trust you them that might by why they wont let you do anything...
good luck..
2007-09-16 12:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by nycgirl4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK maybe i can help. even though I'm a guy I've been there before. I'm 17 now but when i was 14 one of my friends who is a girl had strict parents they wouldn't let her hangout with anyone unless her parents knew them. so maybe you should talk to you parents and say well if you meet them and see how they are then maybe can i hangout with them. and please dint be in a rush to fall in love i know a 15 year old girl with 2 kids because she hung out guys and drank alcohol all the time i dint want to see another young girl end up like that. so try talking to you parents about having you friends come over you house one day so they can meet you parents. it might seem stupid but you will have no social life if you dint do this. well i hoped this helped if you need more advice feel free to email me.
2007-09-16 19:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kandice your parents love you very much. You talk about you more than your parents which gives little to go on. So let me try to give you an answer. Because they don't allow you to hang out with other girls and say they don't know them. Leads me to believe that they are overprotective of you. Are your parents opposed to you having girlfriends come over so that they can get to know them. This would be a place to start toward your Independence.You might start by asking if so an so could come over to work on homework. If your parents say no ask them if there would be where a time the 3 of you can talk about getting some freedoms. Start small first and don't get mad and huffy if they so no at first. Explain to them that you want to have some social interaction and would like to maybe even have sleep overs. Right now boys are out of the question as this will only work against you. Your first mission is to have girlfriends and starting to have a social life. We didn't allow our daughter to date boys till she was 16. Be sure that you are doing everything your parents ask of you. As I told my daughter with privileges comes responsibilities. She hated that statement but found it to be true. See if you can start here with making friends with some of their friends daughters giving them some common ground to work with. The point is to give them a place to start. I know you may not what to make friends with their friends kids but honey you have to start somewhere. Here's something thats very very important to do when they do start letting you go somewhere. Be home 15 minutes earlier than when they tell you to be home. That way when they say your home early, you can respond with I appreciate your letting me go and didn't want you to worry. You have to learn to be a shmoozer to them, if you want them to let you do things. Don't go overboard with it though. Trust me this will take time. If you want to e-mail me to talk feel free. As this is getting long. Oh ya by the way our daughter didn't like the dating rules until she found that it also worked in her favor if she didn't want to go out with a boy.
2007-09-16 20:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by gonecrazytoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parents DO worry a bit too much,
but it's better than not worrying enough.
"14...almost 15", and "I've always been boy crazy."
I'd watch you like a hawk honey. At 14,
you're all too vulnerable, and I'm a guy so
I can remember just what a teenage boy
can be like.
2007-09-16 20:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well-- if your parents don't know you're friends, they don't trust them. Ask if you could have your friends over to YOUR house when your parents are home, that way your parents can meet your friends. Once your parents know your friends, you'll probably be able to be a normal teen. (Ps, you might want 2 wait a while to have a boyfriend like until you're sixteen.
2007-09-16 19:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you really shouldn't say you hate your parents. Someday they will not be around and you will regret saying that. Your parents sound really protective. Maybe try talking to them and try earning their trust. See if you can invite friends over to your house so they can meet them. I think the most important thing for you to do is to talk to them. Good luck
2007-09-16 19:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so undestand! my parents are just like that! I work so hard for my parents to meet there parents but you know what I just wish I could go somewhere on my own! Anyway lately my sister has been difending me Well if you have a firend tell her mom to call yours because its just stupid that you cant just go with your friends.
2007-09-16 20:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by serendus g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋