Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

I have a b/f of 2months (we have a very bumpy/friends with benefits/lots of fights/past...though I've known this guy for over a year/he never wanted a relationship with me before). So almost 2months ago he suddenly asked me to be his g/f and then about a week later told me he loves me. Though he can't really tell me why, he continues to tell me he loves me to my face and in texts. I ask him why he loves me, and he says that because I am responsible and he wants to see what he can become with me. (he says I make him a better person) Anyway, a few days after those 3words, he asked me to move in with him. His brother is getting an apartment and he wants me to share the extra bedroom with him. Ever since he has asked, he has been literally begging me to make the decision and live with him. It doesn't feel right at all. I don't even think this guy cares about me. We don't go on dates and I can't even rely on him giving me a call when he says he will, yet he's begging me to take the plunge

2007-09-16 13:49:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He dosn't talk to me, and when he does it's only over the computer where he makes it very clear he no longer loves me. He won't be my friend because after he broke up with me I told him he didn't love me. I have since apoloigized for saying that. We hang out with the same group of friends, wouldn't it just be easier to atleast be pleasent instead of pretending I don't exsist. I hate how weird it makes things when he won't talk to me or join in on conversations that I'm a part of. I know he no longer loves me, not only because he has told me over the internet, but because it's been 9 months since our short 4 month long relationship. Is it really to much for him to just talk to me like a normal person?

2007-09-16 13:48:47 · 29 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy i really like likes me back and he wants to date me but we cant be together cause hes best friends with my older brother and he and i are 3 years apart and parents would flip out so we dont know what to do i need to show him that i really like him and that age doesnt matter but i really dont know waht to do plz help!

2007-09-16 13:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by bshherica 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm almost 16, and I am known where I live for being the daughter of two very, well.. let's say powerful people in the city. I have a lot of close friends but when I meet new people and they know who I am, they seem turned off by me. I admit, my family has money and it's nice and all, but embarrasing. So, if you knew that my parents were two huge business attorneys in the city and you met me, what would you think of me? I'm not superficial or egotistical, but I'm not shy about who I am. Help, please!

2007-09-16 13:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by ♥RealLove 4 in Friends

a little bitchy but yet confident girl, or a shy, timid and not much confidence girl but yet real sweet?

2007-09-16 13:46:43 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I have been dating for 3 months (and we get along awesome) came out of a bad marraige. She has told me that it will take her a while to let her guard down, and I cannot blame her for that (I know how she feels). My question is do you think she will ever let me see her interself and turn into that person that I want to get really close to?

2007-09-16 13:46:10 · 15 answers · asked by seldring2000 1 in Singles & Dating

A lot of the time, when my boyfriend and I are watching a movie, we end up making out. And a lot of the time when we're making out, he has his eyes open watching the movie as well. This strikes me as weird. And it makes me feel a bit inferior, like he'd rather just watch the movie, even when he iniated the kiss. He doesn't do this all the time, but enough that it's a tad annoying. Do any of you have s/o's that do this? And if they do, did you say anything about it?

And no, I'm not going to break up with him over this. He's a great guy who I really like and who makes me feel special all the time. I see people on here who suggest breaking up over every little problem. To those of you out there who do that, please think a bit more before answering. Thanks.

2007-09-16 13:45:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know he liked me a year ago,but he had a girlfriend then so i kept my distance.Then one nite i had some stuff happen with my x and I was so sad that i ended up calling(the guy i like now)his bestfriend crying and that night he held me till i slept.ever since that happened he(the guy i like)brok up with his girlfriend and hugs me when he sees me,except for when his bestfriend is around,he acts like he hates me in front of him,why? Is he still interested or did i ruin it?

2007-09-16 13:45:07 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I co-own a house with my girlfriend. Both of our names are on the deed. Who has the right to make the other leave if there is a dispute (that is, we have now evolved to hating each other)?

2007-09-16 13:45:01 · 15 answers · asked by Hopeless 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This Good Question, which came in via e-mail, has been the matter of debate in more than a few households. Who are better drivers, men or women?

2007-09-16 13:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by silvester 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked him why, and he said he likes it. I told him to stop and he said no. Should I tell my dad? I don't want him to end up with a bad crowd in school. My dad won't get wayyy angry, just talk to him about it. But I don't want my brother getting mad at me for telling. What should I do?

2007-09-16 13:43:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my bf have nothing to talk about. we dont go to the same school or anything. help?

2007-09-16 13:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a girl friend and she's in my class. I don't talk to her in class but i do talk to her at recess. Is that okay? Because people are telling me i should talk to her in class.. instead of recess.... by the way i got 2 recess periods so i don't know. Help me out. Thanks. I also don't want to talk to her because it will distrube my studying skills and all. But recess is fine.

2007-09-16 13:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by kings c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 13:41:23 · 11 answers · asked by ogmomo2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I kind of like this church with the exception of the leaves that have grown on the exterior rock wall. What are your feelings about it?

Go to this website to see the church:
http://www.plymouthmiami.com

2007-09-16 13:41:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have this boyfriend he is 17 and he asked me to marry him! but im 4 years younger than him. i love him to death and i know he loves me too! hes really kind and sweet to me but the thing that bothers me the most is he cant speak english he can only speak spanish! i can speak spanish but i hate having to talk to him in spanish i wish he could speak english. anyways he asked me to marry him and i dont know what to do i need your help please!!!!!

2007-09-16 13:40:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He has 2 older children that proved to be his. She holds the younger child (the 3rd one, not his) over his head as a reward to see her. He wants to adopt her but, she won't let him and still can't find her real dad... She has just said he will never see her again. She also kept they kids in a homeless shelter the other night because her and the boyfriend were fighting. He is trying for full custody but that means he only gets 2 kids not 3... :(

2007-09-16 13:37:13 · 6 answers · asked by brandy 1 in Family

a boy that i have a MAJOR crush on asked me if I would be willing to date a guy that was outside of my religion (we don't have the same religious beliefs). And a few days ago, he asked me what would be oldest guy i would date (he's 7 yrs older than me) and what my "type" of man is like.

What does it mean when a guy asks this? Is it a normal thing guys ask all their female friends?

2007-09-16 13:35:34 · 4 answers · asked by Miss Realistic 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok well i really like him. i was going to tell him i like him. i got really close to telling him. we had the whole thing planned out, when, where and he agreed and promised to everything. but when i my friend went to get him he told my friend "screw you what does she want" i know that he probably didn't want to look like a fool in front of his friends and leave to come talk to me but it still doesn't excuse why he stood me up

he knows i'm mad at him for what he did and i haven't been talkin to him for a while. i do still like him and want to tell him. i'm pretty sure he likes me too because we have kissed before and held each other and stuff like that. the last time we did stuff like that was in like the beginning of august. i'm not sure if he is ready to hear that i really like him yet. should i keep trying to tell him or just give it up? he is sorry for what he did because he told his friend that is also my friend. but he hasn't come to me yet to tell me. what should i do?

2007-09-16 13:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by ♥.blondy4eva 7 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand why but me and my wife are always fighting over stupid petty things. Before we had the baby we hardly ever fought and now every little thing causes a stupid fight. I need help in understanding what is wrong with our relationship.

2007-09-16 13:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by Yahoo! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I were friends for 6 months before we entered a LD relationship over the last 6-7 months. We live 900 miles apart and typically see each other one weekend a month. I spent nearly all of July there.

He works alot, sometimes 2 jobs, so the communication during the week is limited (we might talk 3 times a day, 2 minutes here, 5 there, and I am sleep when he gets off at night). July had some highs and lows as I still had to ask for his time, even when he was home!
I have a steady job, so I find myself really missing the connection with him. Lately in the last month, I have been considering breaking up. I love him dearly, but I worry that although we talk about moving, the lack of communication now will continue to be an issue, even when we are in the same state. It's also weird because it seems like his time and communication improves once I talk about breaking up. Is he blowing me off until "drama" or a crisis hits the relationship? What would you do here?

2007-09-16 13:33:49 · 1 answers · asked by Nutzzzzz 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a b/f of 2months (we have a very bumpy/friends with benefits/lots of fights/past...though I've known this guy for over a year/he never wanted a relationship with me before). So almost 2months ago he suddenly asked me to be his g/f and then about a week later told me he loves me. Though he can't really tell me why, he continues to tell me he loves me to my face and in texts. I ask him why he loves me, and he says that because I am responsible and he wants to see what he can become with me. (he says I make him a better person) Anyway, a few days after those 3words, he asked me to move in with him. His brother is getting an apartment and he wants me to share the extra bedroom with him. Ever since he has asked, he has been literally begging me to make the decision and live with him. It doesn't feel right at all. I don't even think this guy cares about me. We don't go on dates and I can't even rely on him giving me a call when he says he will, yet he's begging me to take the plunge

2007-09-16 13:33:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister & my mum didn't speak as she chose to stay with a man that abused her kids . My mum died and i supported my sister through her guilt. I encouraged the family to bring her back into their lives, i was by her side when she left her man.
I helped my dad get his youngest daughter back.
I then found out that my dad wasn't my biologial father and everything changed.
My sister was on her feet by this time, she became very cocky & self assured. I was now weak with the shock & while i was down my sister hooked up with my kids dad just to top me off!
I split with my childrens dad years before, we had remained very close. I felt proud that we had a good friendship. Even though we both had relationships on and off, we never let it get in the way of our kids.
We always did things as a family.
My daughter was bullied by my sisters daughter at school over her dad and she's now left. Her dad did nothing about it. Why is he letting this happen? Why did my sister ruin what we had?

2007-09-16 13:32:48 · 25 answers · asked by Pink Angel 2 in Family

2007-09-16 13:31:49 · 35 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7 in Weddings

My baby's father and I have not been together in a relationship, since a few months before my daughter was born. He put me through a lot while he I was pregnant and when enough was enough I finally ended it. He is currently in jail on drug charges. He's hurt me deeply and eventhough I'm healing, I'm wondering if I should confront him with the fact that he gave me Herpes.
I was diagnosed only a couple of days before the birth of my daughter by c-section (to prevent it from being transmitted to her). He and I had been together a year. Before he started getting involved in drugs we had discussed marriage and having a future together, so it wasn't a fly-by-night romance.
I have not been sexually involved with anyone else, but him since we've met. I never had any signs of Herpes before him. There has been one time where I thought he cheated on me, but he denied it. I know he had been with other women in between break-ups at least. Should I confront him about this?

2007-09-16 13:27:51 · 20 answers · asked by Under Construction 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok a few months ago I had a fling with a married man (yes i know BAD Idea, so don't worry you don't need to point this out - however i didn't cross the line so to speak) Anyway we both decided to stop and have no contacting (well his idea not to contact but i didn't argue) anyway when i knew him, I got to know some of his mates, as spent time at the pub with them all. Now he is telling me not to talk to his mates at the pub, and that they do not want to talk to me and wonder why I am there, and that the way I act 'does not look good'. However most of his mates have always been really friendly, and brought me drinks etc. Why do you think he said this? do you think he might be a bit jealous or not really?

2007-09-16 13:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

......people say she deserves better? Is she not a party to this wrong doing? Is she not equally cullpable, especially when she knows the man is married? Why would someone say "You deserve better!" to them, when what they clearly deserve is to get married themselves and then be that wife who loses her husband to another woman? Aren't they also adults who should suffer the ramifications of their own actions?
Why is it assumed that women are the "innocents" when they get involved with a married man?

2007-09-16 13:25:15 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i called my ex up because i was missing him and just wanted to talk. i ended the relationship, but we both still have feelings. he was heavy into drugs and alcohol when we got together, and cutting, so i broke up with him. hoping to hear he calmed down, i called and he told me that he wasn't smoking pot as much, but started doing cocaine. i was horrified, so i broke the news that i was thinking of getting my ged or graduating early because i wasn't feeling challenged in school and i want to work before i go off to college.

his exact response -

"if you leave, i will get worse. i'll start smoking again and drinking more. honestly, i'll kill myself if you're not around."

what do i do? i'm so scared and i feel so trapped...

2007-09-16 13:24:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so I have been with my boyfriend for workin on a year now, we talk about life after we're married all the time. It's just one of those relationships that you just now you are meant for each other. Heres my issue. I can't get him proposing out of my head. I dont want to pressure him and I'm not an any hurry, I know its going to happen. The best way I can explain it is its like baby fever, when you start wanting a baby suddenly everyone and everything around you is relating to pregnancy.. since started thinking about the whole engagment thing, 2 of my friends have gotten engaged and seems like there are more wedding and engagment commericals and shows on then at valentines day... How do I get all of this out of my head?!?!

2007-09-16 13:21:36 · 4 answers · asked by liz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that I've known since we were both six. We're practically attached at the hip and always have been. But, lately, she seems to like to be annoying me. One of the actors I know asked me to join a drama competition with him because he needed another team member. I said I would and my friend pretended to jealously say 'lucky'. I knew it was a joke, but he asked her to come, too. I decided that I wanted to audition for the Spring Play at my high school. She had to, too. I had this great idea for a fund raiser and I told her. She told the team captain that it was her idea and she got credit for it. Random guys come to sit and talk to me at competitions and she HAS to make fun of them so that they leave.
What's up with her? Is it just me or should I dump her for a while? She is becoming a serious problem for me. The whole 'steal idea' scheme forced me to resign from the comedy team I was on, the one that I got drafted into. I love her like a sister! PLEASE help me!

2007-09-16 13:20:38 · 4 answers · asked by elphiebelle 2 in Friends