my bf have nothing to talk about. we dont go to the same school or anything. help?
2007-09-16 13:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe the wrong guy for ya???
2007-09-16 13:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by blonde n love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This problem is usual in relationships that are dying a slow death. While I don't know how long you have being in this relationship, it would appear that you have both become bored and are in a rut .My advice is to evaluate your current feelings. Once you know, then talk to your bf and see if you are still in sync.If you are both on the same page and the fire is still burning red hot, then you can discuss how to refresh, re energize, and rebuild the desire and attraction that first brought you together.As an alternative, it may be time to let go; and go your separate ways, as difficult and painful as that action might be.On rare occasions, that might be the best course of action.
2007-09-16 21:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating him if you don't have much to talk about?
ask him things it's a good thing that you guys don't go to the same school this way you can see what difference there are ask him if he's thinking about getting into sports or how his classes are what kinds of things he does after school.. it's important to communicate if you can't honey you guys will have to break because then it's just lame and boring
2007-09-16 20:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Miss Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about hobbies, how school is going, share personal information (favorite foods, books, movies, etc). if you're having this problem, maybe both of u should take a step back and get to know each other better?
2007-09-16 20:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by a s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you, anything you have to say is good enough. Talk about your day, your family, your friends... anything really. The more comfortable you are, the more he'll relax. You'll be fine, good luck, Hun!
2007-09-16 20:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by sskstru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically EVERYTHIGN can start some converstion. talk to him leik your friend about anything random, liike " i wanan get this car" and he'll say somethign about it and talka bout other cars liek a hummer and you coudl be liek "i used to know a guy with a hummer he had a green mohawk" and hed be liek "theres a guy with a mohawk in my school" or "i used to want a mohawk" yadda yadda its like everythign connects
2007-09-16 20:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about current events, go to movies and review them, as well as reading books. best wishes
2007-09-16 20:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes what ever pops up in your head, just ask if it isn't to bad. or ask him what he wants to talk abouts sometimes
2007-09-16 20:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus ask him wut u been up to, n if he says nothin u go there has to be sumthin or do da 20 questions game dat he gotta ask u dem questions den u go dat happend to my homegurl
2007-09-16 20:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by texuzlatina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what's wrong, maybe he's stressed. if he doesnt open up, get rid of him.
2007-09-16 20:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by sandia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋