Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

this is my story.there is a 3 storeyed house in which v live on the topmost floor.the 2 families on the ground floor & 1st flr noncooperate wth us in evry way pssible.no1 takes the charge of locking d main dooreven ven our vehicle is in 1st.if v r d 1st or d last even then v hve2 lock d door wth our own lock&they keep d common lock.they pester me at6am asking4 d key.pls sort a way out.

2007-09-16 16:24:19 · 4 answers · asked by hili 1 in Family

Im having issues with my ex-husband regarding my daughters last name. When she was born we were seperated, and actually he was served with divorce papers when she was 1 week old. He was in a relationship with someone else, and questioned if our daughter was really his. So I gave her my maiden name, which is my only last name, and left his name out of it. He rarely see's her, or makes any real effort to be part of her life. He just got remaried and has another child on the way. He now wants our daughters name hyphenated to reflect his and his new families. I am completly against this. What do you think?

2007-09-16 16:23:16 · 27 answers · asked by rebecca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this girl knows i like her. her friend told her a while ago i guess and ive been trying to talk to her alot, although we still dont really know each other.

she agreed to go to lunch with me and each of us bring a friend.

this does mean she's interested in getting to know me right?

you girls dont just do this to be nice do you? especially if you already know i like you.

im just a bit worried. am i okay??

thanks

2007-09-16 16:22:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been trying to get pregnant for four years now. I've tried adoption,IVF,Fertility Treatments,Dieting and Exercise. and nothing has worked. I cannot Explain the Uncontrollable Hurt I feel Whenever I See Someone With A Baby!! there is A Feeling Of Sadness,Hurt, Pain And Just overall depression.I love hearing of Babies and New life It's just that I keep Asking Myself "when's It Going To Be My Turn?"The pressures to start & raise a family can be enormous — to the extent that because i haven't done it yet I feel as though something must be deeply wrong with me. I feel Depressed and jealous and burst into tears when I find out another one of my friends or someone i know is pregnant. No one seems to understand. it's just so much frustration i feel whenever somebody asks me "So When Are You going to have a baby?" ti's not like i haven't been trying dammit! People keep asking me when we're going to start our family. What can I say without being rude? how do I get through this?

2007-09-16 16:21:28 · 19 answers · asked by Stressed Out Good Guy Hubby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tomorrow is my birthday, I have been married for 5 years, my wife and I are separated and we have 3 boys together, I love her, but she is self centered, when I ask about why things are the way they are I get"this is the way it is, there is nothing I can do about the way you feel or anything, its up to you",I don't take advantage of anybody, but I feel that I am being taken advantage of. I am not mean or selfish, I take care of the kids and I am cool.

ideas?

2007-09-16 16:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the average age now of loss of virginity now? I'm only 25 and I lost mine at 18, and I was actually one of the first of my friends to give in. I think my best friend growing up lost hers at 20 or 21. And she had been with the guy since our sophmore year in H.S. It hasn't been that long ago, so how has it changed so drastically?

2007-09-16 16:19:17 · 5 answers · asked by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

i have recently noticed after breaking up with my ex and hooking up with another woman that my time wen having sex has decreased i feel its sensitibity my ex never said anything about it for 3 years but my girlfriend now emediatly noticed, wat can i do to increse my time to last while having sex

2007-09-16 16:16:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

both parties are healthy and capable of doing the deed.

2007-09-16 16:15:47 · 21 answers · asked by saodaji 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom and dad r divoced .im an only child.iv never even seen my dad .so i gotta hold of his phone # this summer and some women answered and told me he wasnt there .then she asked who i was .i choked up and she hung up on me.i was sooo scared thinking i might have a step mother .should i call him again ?but what if the women answered again ?if i do should i say who i am ?do u think is should tell my mom this ? i would but shes such a hard worker i dont wanna upset or disappoint her .i nkow i have the right to knoe my dad ,but its so hard and im really scared.

2007-09-16 16:15:25 · 9 answers · asked by SerENa 1 in Family

Okay here it goes. The guy I'm crushing on says he loves his ex girlfriend.....as a person. What the heck does that mean????? I asked him already but he only described it as "magic". Any ideas as to what magic means??

2007-09-16 16:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by Lauren 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 16:12:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend asks me if I mean it when I tell her that I love her and I say, "Of course I mean it when I say I love you." She's asked it multiple times. I really truly do love my girl friend. How do I prove it non-verbally?

2007-09-16 16:11:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is not a bad thing is it?

2007-09-16 16:09:00 · 18 answers · asked by Ray 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife gets upset because i check on her. she takes it personal because she feels degradated and like a person that should not get trusted. I personally dont care if she checks on me, because of the fact that i am faithful and have nothing to hide. as a couple, i thing we both have the right to investigate if there is something that is not quite right. Am i doing wrong by checking on her even though i am not gonna find anything, and why does whe get so bothered about it.

2007-09-16 16:06:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please include sources!

2007-09-16 16:03:37 · 49 answers · asked by blasianbeauty_613 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a female mechanic as my partner in college and she's one of the best mechanics I've ever seen. I hear so much how woman and men cannot do things that the other sexes can do. Let's see how many people can work this out without insulting any one gender. Keep in mind, that I am a stay at home husband as well. (Yes, I do have an income in case you're wondering.)

1. Female or Male mechanic.
2. Female or Male housewife/husband
3. Female or Male pilot
4. Female or Male boss
5. Female or Male babysitter
6. Female or Male police officer
7. Female or Male nurse
8. Female or Male teacher
9. Female or Male truck driver
10. Female or Male scientist.

My answers are 1. Female, 2. Either, 3. Either, 4. Neither, 5. Neither, 6. Either, 7. Male, 8. Female, 9. Female, 10. Female.
I chose neither for 5 because we've never had a babysitter and we never will. I'm not as trusting as most others are.

2007-09-16 16:02:35 · 12 answers · asked by tercentenary98 6 in Marriage & Divorce

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AthcwKqbC3J_HKtma0DMwCojzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20070504131812AAOZ8Au

This inspired me to add and modifiy a few of these based on my and my friends' experiences, guys, feel free to add your own:

If he gives her a gift and she doesnt like it, hes an unthoughtful idiot
If she gives him a gift and he doesnt like it, hes an ungrateful bastard

If he wants sex, hes a pervert
If he doesnt, either he:
1. Is calling her fat
2. Is cheating on her
3. Had ED
4. Is gay

Its not ok for a man to ask her if shes ever faked an orgasm 'cuz thatll "hurt his feelings," but its ok for her to ask, do i look fat? is she prettier than me? etc

If he doesnt give her flowers, hes unromantic
If he does, either he:
1. Wants sex
2. Is too clingy and needy
3. Screwed up and is trying to apologize in advance

If she doesnt want to get married, shes an independent woman
If he doesnt want to get married, hes a coward afraid of commitment

2007-09-16 16:01:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Considering the mother is not "unfit" or anything like that...

2007-09-16 16:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by luvmybabies 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just met a girl at work that I am very attracted to. We got to talking and all the sudden I told her about me. She tells me how beautiful I am. All the sudden we get to talking about it. She says she's never been with a girl and claims to be straight, bc she has a bf. Then she also said she has dreams about being with a girl, and says she's very curious about being with a girl and ask me what it's like.

I told her I am so into blonds. Then I said I hope she's not weirded out by things I am telling her and she says maybe I'll dream about you. I am confused bc she seems like she likes me but am not sure bc she says she's straight. I'm not looking for anything serious just curious about her mind.

She only works on Saturdays so the Saturday I won't be there bc of my sister's b-day and the one after that she said she won't be working. Then I seemed disappointed so she said I'll try to pick up a shift. So what do you think about it. Thank you for your answer!

2007-09-16 15:58:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the deal, I recently moved home after college. I am relatively a chill person that just goes with the flow. I have things that I enjoy, my brother has things he enjoys, and my dad has things he enjoys. Well thats great everyone has different interests. Heres the problem, my dad is one of the most controlling people and he questions everything. If you do something that isnt an interest of his then he downgrades it as crap and tells you to be more productive. He also works alot and tends to spend relatively little time doing anything for himself. Constant bickering.

One example, Fantasy Football - I play fantasy football religiously and really enjoy it. Games are usually only played 1 day a week so you have to update and on Sunday watch the games and stats as they progress. Today we were watching games for most the day and checking stats. All we heard all day was yall are crazy, whats the deal with this. Then by night he was ready to cancel the internet because of it

2007-09-16 15:56:45 · 2 answers · asked by Financial Guru 1 in Family

I need help finding an updo to do for my wedding?

2007-09-16 15:55:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok she has a good job,not fat,is attractive and nice. Please don't blast me she just the 1st person i met since i was 28 thats never been married or has kids.What would you guys think about her?Honestly

2007-09-16 15:55:24 · 18 answers · asked by tom f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 in 2 weeks. I plan to stay home till graduation in May. I plan to move in with my dad but my mom sead it's illegal for me to do so if she seads no. Is it? I personally don't think so

2007-09-16 15:50:57 · 19 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Family

It's 13 days until my birthday! SEPTEMBER 29th! but my parent's haven't mentioned anything.. and I want to tell them that they forgot my birthday last year.. It was my 16th.

The year before that they tried to celebrate it on the wrong day. It's also recorded on our health insurance and in the school system on different days.

I've got 3 other siblings.. So I know it's difficult to remember everyones birthday.. but it seems like they always forget mine.

Am I too old for birthdays? Is it whiny to remind them?

They celebrated my sister's birthday, and she's 19.. but she had just moved out.. So I guess she needed the pick me up.

Oh well.. It's probably just middle child syndrome.

2007-09-16 15:49:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When I was only 8 years old, there is this 14 years old girl(my sister friend) who always play with and fondle my penis because she thought it was a "cute" thing to do. I always feel wierd and strangely erotic when she touches me there

2007-09-16 15:45:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok lets just say my new wife and ex wife do not get along. The problem is i share custody of my 8 yr old with my exwife, we have been divorced for 4 yrs.Hear are my 2 problems.1. My ex wants to have joint b-day parties for our son but my new wife wants us to have seperate ones(meaning my son has 1 with us and 1 with his mom) this is how we have always done it since the divorce but my ex want to combine them now to "share the work/expense" 2. My ex does not want my new wife to attend parent/teacher conferences with me.My new wife feels she should go as my son lives with us 50% of the time and my ex should not go with me since we are divorced and my ex should go on her own. I agree with my new wife but i want to do whats best for my son.

2007-09-16 15:43:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 18 years old. I am currently pregnant. My mother has had nothing to do with me really that much when I was growing up.. She lost me and my sibling due to drugs. I am having a boy, his name is cadin. the thing is she wants to have like everything to do with Cadin and yet she did not try with us.. I was out of her care since I was 1 1/2 I have lived with my grandparents since then and sometime with my dad down in texas.. I just dont know what I should do so I am asking you for advice

2007-09-16 15:42:26 · 15 answers · asked by newmom022008 1 in Family

2007-09-16 15:40:47 · 15 answers · asked by MaMi 1 in Weddings

My 5yr old Son with my ex husband, divorced now for 4 years, has been comming home with information and manorisms that have been raising a rred flag.

last week he came home from his fathers house and was afraid to go to sleep, because every time he closed his eyes he would see peoples heads being cut off, he said he was watching a Vampire movie at his fathers house.
The week before school started he was supossed to go to PA with his father, he developed a fever and headach the day before, he called his father, on speaker phone, and told him that he didn't feel well and can't go to PA because he had a fever, I heard his father tell his "no way its not happenning you'll be fine and your going and thats it. I intercepted the phone call and told him that he is not going because he is sick and needs to be close to the doctor. Today my son came home upset once again because his father told him that he was going to punch me in the face, He was very frightened by this and I had to comfort

2007-09-16 15:39:02 · 10 answers · asked by mshellyluv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hes not abusive, or drunk, or anything like that, my dad just likes to yell at me alot. For example, I went to do the laundry, and he started yelling "OH JEEZ NOW WHOS GONNA DO THE DRYER?? JESUS CHRIST.. ILL DO IT" Then I said "well i can do it if you want" or somethin like that and he yells "NO JUST GO AWAY ILL DO IT.. CHRIST...." And just yells at me for stupid things. He doesnt yell at my brother, or my mom.

Sometimes if he gets REALLY, REALLY mad, he will hit me. Not hard, but he will still do something. It really upsets me because I hate it when people yell, especially men, because they have strong voices and it just scares me. I'm only 14. What should I do?

2007-09-16 15:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by I'm A Fly (Top Contributor) 2 in Family