Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

My ex bf broke up with me over a month ago saying we faught too much and he needed space. Were together for over a year. Im 24 and hes 22. We has just found an apartment together (which was his idea)and was about to move in, but he broke everything off..I was soo sad over this and still am. I see him at work so when I feel like I'm starting to get over things a little and feel a little better I see him, and just think of all the good times and what could have been. A couple of days ago he told one of my friend's at work that he wanted me back but felt it was too late because I'm talking to someone else. Which is true but we are just friends for now. But I recently talked to him and asked how he was and he looked really sad and said he's seen better days. I try to talk to him occasionally and text him. I feel like I've given him every sign in the book that I may want to work things out, but he hasn't tried to contact me about how he feels. Is he scared of rejection? Should I just moveon

2007-09-16 19:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was a former co-worker that I had interest in (she seemed equally interested, but we never talked about it) and we've reconnected recently on line. She's married and I'm single. We went out for lunch and it was really nice, but it felt like a date I would go on with a single woman. She said she would like to make these lunches a regular thing, every week.

Okay, I'm attracted to her, so I'm not sure if I'm reading this right. I need perspective. Is this an innocent friendship? I mean, given that she's married and I'm single... it seems awfully dangerous to me, for both of us.

*I was married before and my wife cheated after we became so distant. It broke my heart, but I understood she was lonely. We divorced, in a mutual arrangement. I'm worried that I may not be giving her enough credit, but I'm also worried that she's pursuing an affair.

What do you think her intentions are by what you've read - I'm not interested in sermons about fidelity... I can make up my own mind on that.

2007-09-16 19:24:16 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

wedding ideas, types of looks for weddings

2007-09-16 19:15:29 · 5 answers · asked by Felicia S 1 in Weddings

2007-09-16 19:14:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i will be attending a wedding expo in phoenix january 2008. i work with a wedding photographer so we'll be out there competing.
So tello me ladies, what do you look for at the booths? what gets your attention? what can we do to help us get your business? :)

thank you all in advance for the input!

2007-09-16 19:08:46 · 8 answers · asked by Robert R 1 in Weddings

we have been divorced for 5 years. she has been with 4 other guys since we were apart. now she wants back with me. and we both love each other so much. but how do i get these guys out of my head? i know its the only way way we are going to make a go at this, which i so much want. we have been together for 25 years. high school sweethearts. but i vision her having sex with them. i just want it to work....for us.

2007-09-16 19:04:41 · 13 answers · asked by floridacat22 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I phone them and ask them if they're coming or not? Or should I think that they don't want to come? (I think it's such bad manners not to reply!)

2007-09-16 19:04:28 · 15 answers · asked by Sophia 2 in Weddings

My son is 15 and his voice is cracking virtually every minute. It's really embarssing for him. He's gotten some insensitive comments from people. How can he not be so self-consicous about it?

2007-09-16 19:03:52 · 3 answers · asked by Jenn s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-16 19:03:16 · 17 answers · asked by jcf_92 1 in Singles & Dating

Or am I the only luck fuqer?

2007-09-16 18:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son's mother has remarried to a guy in the army and I know he get full coverage for them. Do I still have to find medical for my son if he is now covered by him. Do this change anything for child support? Not trying to get out of child support because I do pay it. I don't think it's right if the husband has full medical for them, do I have to get it still?

2007-09-16 18:51:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-16 18:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 18:49:35 · 15 answers · asked by pit-q 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

first of all we're on long distance relationship but we talk on Messenger enough to feel really happy and comfortable.he always tell me what he did at the end of the day and tell me details about his family.so.. that encourged me and i hope its agood sign for both of us because we are falling in love.i can feel him from his reactions and words..so you think we had reached to the final stip or what?

2007-09-16 18:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by crazy_lover 2 in Singles & Dating

See.. i dont know if this happens to everybody but, if i shave my legs the night before, the next day my legs arent that smooth,, i remember my bf hated it, which i could understand, but why they make such a big deal about it, Is not that my legs are hairy, its that the freaking hair grow in less than 24 hrs.. hahahha.. Any commentS? hahhahaha :P

2007-09-16 18:46:15 · 10 answers · asked by SweetSecret 2 in Singles & Dating

I want all the skills that whores have, but without being a hoe

2007-09-16 18:45:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has been almost 6 months since our breakup. Recently, he's hooked up with the girl I hate. I thought I was already over him. But no.. I'm hurting..

2007-09-16 18:44:17 · 4 answers · asked by Far 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together a year, and both really want a life together...problemo...we will possibly live together soon, and have talked about getting married after his divorce has gone through next year.
When would be the right time to meet his 2 year old daughter, I dont want to rush into it...and mostly, I dont want it to impact his wife, as she tried to get him back recently, and Id sorta want to meet her and the wife before we get too carried away, because his daughter is such an important part of his life?

2007-09-16 18:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have never been on a date in my life. I guess i focused more on my school than anything. Now there is a girl that i really like, but don't know if she likes me. I am a really shy person and am afraid she will say no if i ask her out. it would really help me out if someone could help me. preferably a girl. Im in the 12th grade.

2007-09-16 18:43:55 · 3 answers · asked by jose g 1 in Singles & Dating

He makes around $125,000 a year...

2007-09-16 18:43:26 · 5 answers · asked by mommyangel424 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just few days before she called me as 'brotherly like' i just switched off my cell for two days. then i switched off my cell after 2 days. then she messed me what happened? i asked her seriously what happened to me? i too was in serious mood and asked her 'what's our relation?' she said 'a friend'. i remembered her what she told before then she told she was just joking. i said strongly that i am really serious about relations make it clear. then she said 'we are friends. are you happy now?' what does this means? could anybody explain me that 'is she playing with me?' or 'i am getting fooled?'.

2007-09-16 18:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by kumar j 1 in Singles & Dating

First of all my huspend has cheated alot and now claims he wouldnt ever do it again but he still keeps his email wich ends in the word motel he continues to talk to women he has had relations with and when other women are around he cuts me out of the conversations he still goes out and not only doesnt tell me when he goes but is constintly cought in lies when asked were he was or what he did. i have confronted him on these things even told him how insucure these thing made me fill and all he does is get mad and act as if im attacking him and like asking him to change these things is just selfish and untrusting help me i love him we have children and i wont nothing more then to save my marriage.

2007-09-16 18:41:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 18:40:04 · 5 answers · asked by dinOgaL(: 3 in Singles & Dating

Hello,
I am in a relationship with a young man. I like him very much. Lately I've been worried because, ever since he asked me to be his girlfriend (and I said yes), he hugs/kisses/holds me and I get a little nervous. I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him, so if that was what he was looking for, he should just move on to another girl, and he replied that he wasn't dating me for sex. Why is he so aggressive? Is he lying? Or am I just overreacting? This is my first relationship, and I'm scared of getting hurt.

2007-09-16 18:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do we find a church for a wedding? How much are they and do we pay for the priest? Marriage License? By the way, we live in New York.
First informative answer gets "best answer"


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2007-09-16 18:36:56 · 6 answers · asked by krazyklwn66 3 in Weddings

2007-09-16 18:33:45 · 7 answers · asked by Amani D 1 in Singles & Dating

Secondly the term 'male chauvinist' is absurd since men have always been more advanced, so it should only be called as humanist.

2007-09-16 18:32:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 2 "friends" played a prank on me, but it wasn't one of those haha pranks well it probobly was to them, but it wasn't to me. They lied to me about my crush liking me and they even got HIM in on the plan and they said he wanted to go out with me. It was all a joke and it really hurt me. They have done stuff like this before but not as big the other times they have just told my crush i like him. This time was too big and to mean. Should i still be their friend? Should i get them back? and if so how should i get them back? please I need answers!! thanks for everyone who answers i need as many as I can get right now .

2007-09-16 18:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by x0like_aly_and_aj_whoa0x 1 in Friends

When my partner and I decided we would be tying the knot, his parents rang me and told me they would be giving us AU$5,000. Since then his father has changed jobs and they were trying to sort everything out. They had their tax done and his mum recieved AU$1,200 which she gave to me and they keep saying they will be adding to it. His dad recieved AU$2,500, which they said they needed to pay off some debts, which is fine, thats all good, until last week when they went out and brought a spa worth over AU$1,000. I feel a little ripped off, would you if you were me?
The thing that really gets me is that they told me 5,000 because thats what they paid for his sisters wedding, quite frankly I couldn't give a dam how much they actually give us, I feel its the principal, I believe you should stick with it. They refinanced the house for his sisters wedding but they wont do it for there son.
I didn't even ask for the money, but I think you can't give one child something and not the other.

2007-09-16 18:23:47 · 20 answers · asked by christy 2 in Weddings

ok my soon to be ex-wife is keeping my kids from seeing me. 2 wks ago she called the cops 2 days before i was getting my kids for the weekend and told them i violated the order of pro she had put on me when we first split and ive followed it to the tea but every since then she wont let me see the kids and its agravating. ive hired an att to do my divorce and my visits with my kids . but her mom is in the middle of all of this **** . i just want an answer on this

2007-09-16 18:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by michael h 1 in Marriage & Divorce