just few days before she called me as 'brotherly like' i just switched off my cell for two days. then i switched off my cell after 2 days. then she messed me what happened? i asked her seriously what happened to me? i too was in serious mood and asked her 'what's our relation?' she said 'a friend'. i remembered her what she told before then she told she was just joking. i said strongly that i am really serious about relations make it clear. then she said 'we are friends. are you happy now?' what does this means? could anybody explain me that 'is she playing with me?' or 'i am getting fooled?'.
2007-09-16 18:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by kumar j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She only wants to be friends, and that's it. Nothing more nothing less, but if you are taking this to seriously then maybe you need to step back and cool it for a few days/weeks before you start hanging out together. But if you really want a relationship with her and not be "just friends" you're still going to have to play the friends and see if she doesn't come around and realize that she really does want to be more then just friends. But if just being friends with her isn't good enough for you then you need to tell her that. After while and things cool down maybe starting from the beginning and being just friends again might just bloom into something more.
2007-09-16 18:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK my friend,,,, i know the answer a 100%..... ..
First of all i dont agree with any body who have answered ur question. Now,, if i understood your question correctly, you just said that u turned off ur cell for 2 days, right? So, u mean that for 2 days you two havent speak at all by phone. No you also say that then you turned you cell on, and she called you and asked you what happened? ...If what i understood its correct... she asked you that question b/c she expected you to call her... dont you see?. Her problem is that she wants to be ur girlfriend, but she is not sure you want to be her bf because you havent ask her or telling her clearly that you want her to be your gf... So,, thas why the poor girl doesnt know what or how to behave, Defenitely she likes you but she wants you to make the first move. If you like her, take her out and kiss her and make it clear that u like her not as a friend but as a girlfriend. Sorry MR. but some girls like me, like it the old fashion way, when guys come to you and ask you to be his girlfriend.. If u like it, do it, its very romantic and it will be a beautiful experience for both of you. Good Luck :):):)
2007-09-16 18:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by SweetSecret 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-09 08:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is not playing with you.. you are doing this to yourself. She said what she meant. Friends and that is it. It was you who turned off the cell phone.. really immature. You were trying to play her when you did that, not the other way around. You need to grow up. I'm surprised she even wants to be your friend if this is how you do. Do you really think this is how adult relationships are carried on? Well you didn't do and say the things I wanted, so I just will cut you off and not speak. You probably really hurt her feelings.
2007-09-16 18:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by CB 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please make the question a little more clear. What do you expect from her? That she should tell she loves you or she should say that you are her best friend?
If you like her as a friend okey fine. Let it be the same.
If your love her as your sweet heart tell her frankly that you need her in your entire life. It will be much easy for you as you are close to her.
Choose between these two (BecauseI cannot understand from the question whether you love her as a friend or as a lover)
Any Way BEST OF LUCK FOR THE FUTURE.
2007-09-16 18:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by abina s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From my point of view, I think that she is just shy to admit that she is interested in you. You shouldn't actually keep on asking her about relations, but act! Do you love her? Then let actions speak louder than words. Utilize the time you spend asking her questions to doing something special for her: Like you can take her out to movies or dinner. From there, I think you'd be able to judge her feelings from her acts, behavior. And then you can tell her how you really feel for her. At this time, she'll have that feel of openeness from you; and her too, is bound to open up to you.
2007-09-16 19:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by mr. wisdom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Either she's saying she likes you as a friend or your like a brother to her. It sounds like she doesn't have the same feeling for you as you do for her. But you never know...she might like you but is just to shy to admit it. Just stop asking about your relationship for a while and see how she acts.
2007-09-16 19:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she's stringing you along. It's time to cut that cord and move on. You don't want to be with somebody who plays games with you. Only one person can win at this game, and it's not going to be you. Find somebody who you won't have to continually guess whether or not they want to be with you.
2007-09-16 18:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means she is not interested in you. Not even as a friend.
NOTE: She was being really sarcastic and cruel. Please notice that you said "then she said 'we are friends. are you happy now?' " That phrase (are you happy now?) was not meant in a nice way.
2007-09-16 18:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by equal_opposites 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it means you are not going to get any. It's ok though, we all need to have some friends.
2007-09-16 18:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋