My ex bf broke up with me over a month ago saying we faught too much and he needed space. Were together for over a year. Im 24 and hes 22. We has just found an apartment together (which was his idea)and was about to move in, but he broke everything off..I was soo sad over this and still am. I see him at work so when I feel like I'm starting to get over things a little and feel a little better I see him, and just think of all the good times and what could have been. A couple of days ago he told one of my friend's at work that he wanted me back but felt it was too late because I'm talking to someone else. Which is true but we are just friends for now. But I recently talked to him and asked how he was and he looked really sad and said he's seen better days. I try to talk to him occasionally and text him. I feel like I've given him every sign in the book that I may want to work things out, but he hasn't tried to contact me about how he feels. Is he scared of rejection? Should I just moveon
2007-09-16 19:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your "ex" says it all... he's called X because he had his chance...he blew it ...so he's been X'ed off the list .
2007-09-16 19:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by breeze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of hinting, start talking. You had a year relationship, the game playing time is over. You should be able to express your feelings freely by now. He may feel that you have moved on, but you know that he has not. If you are interested in making another try of it, I would suggest that you make your move soon, before some other woman makes a move on him. Good Luck. I hope things turn out better this time.
2007-09-17 02:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does want u back hun, i know u have tried giving him signs but men are thick like that, he probably thinks u are just being nice.... I think you should txt him, or email him and say that u really miss him and u still love him so much...Tell him that u are still sad about how it all worked out and that u still have feelings for him! I know it takes alot to make that 1st step especially when it was him that broke it off... But its clear he wants u back and is still sad over it... And maybe scared of rejection if he was to ask u out again....
So i really think u should let him know how u feel, and see what his response is... He should get it thru his head this time and gain the courage to ask u out again.
Good luck hun
2007-09-17 02:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out.thaat is the best suggestion i can give .talk it out.you may not know how he feels but on the positive side you know exactly you feelings about him.so be true to your feelings y are you betraying your feelings .express them and if there is no reciprocation from your partner dont take it just as a hint but think of it has his decision and move on with yor life with a clean slate.life is short to waste waiting for some one .emotionally i know you just cant break up just like that but you cant let that affect all the good things that might be installed for you have faith in love but dont trust people blindly.
2007-09-17 02:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jayesh K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I have just read about your problem and i personally think if you both love each other, its better to sit and discussed and sort things out but you should consider one thing very clearly : Is he really wants you back? or he is just healous of you that you got some one elso
2007-09-17 02:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Syeda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋