Family & Relationships - 16 September 2007

I hit my girlfriend. Frankly, most of the time I am sick of her... nagging, bitching, whatever. A lot of the time, I want to break up; but I feel sorry for her, and she won't break up. I even hit her, that is how sick I am of this relationship -- BUT SHE WON'T END THE RELATIONSHIP. I can't leave, I can't get out, and she won't leave, and she won't get out -- so what do I do? This is why guys hit girls, because they are trapped... it sucks. I don't want to go to jail for domestic abuse, but I also don't want to live with someone who isn't nice to me. Go to hell with your comments about how guys don't hit girls -- you haven't met the kinds of girls that I have.

2007-09-16 18:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by arinkleff 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He works where I work. He has no idea that I love him. He appears to be 10-15 years older than I but that doesn't matter. He is young for his age and certainly would be interested in an old fashioned gal such as myself.

But many think that he is a gay because he has not had a woman in his bed and he is his age. Others think that he is a loner with no future. Yet there are those that feel as if he may be a predator, creeping towards young women. None of that rubbish could hold a tank of water. I love that poor fool, fool in love.

I love him and that's all that should matter. He'd never harm the one that loves him. Sometimes he feels persecuted but that doesn't make him a paranoid schizophrenic. I love that poor fool, fool in love.

How do you tell the one you love that you don't mind that he appears to act like a predator?

2007-09-16 18:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are just married and we dont want to have kids for a couple of years . We dont want to use birth control pills. Is wearing a condom while married an exceptable thing to do?

2007-09-16 18:19:40 · 12 answers · asked by kelly1225 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to know what others think about this particular routine my girlfriend and I do.

I get off work earlier than my girlfriend, and whenever she comes home from a long day at work, she gets undressed completely, except she leaves her bra on. The she goes to check her e-mail.

However, before she sits down, I have to sit in front with my back facing the chair, and I lie the back fo my head on the chair and relax.

She then sits on my face, and checks her e-mail, myspace messages, blogs, etc... this whole ordeal may take from 45 minutes to an hour. So in the meantime she's sitting on my face. The weight on my face is heavy, and it's warm, but it's bearable. I can breathe through my nose, but barely, since my nose is wedged between her buttocks.

After she's done we go about the rest of our day doing whatever (watching TV, reading, going out to dinner, movies, etc.).

I just want to know your opinion on this; if you think we're a weird couple or what. Peace

2007-09-16 18:19:07 · 47 answers · asked by Warren Peace 1 in Singles & Dating

so i am doing a paper on gay marriage and i just wanted to post this and ask peoples opinion on the matter!

2007-09-16 18:15:10 · 19 answers · asked by tweety 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am pregnant now and these kids are going no where - we have custody and guardianship of 1 (they come from 2 different familys) and they are really worried that they will be sent away once the baby is born no matter how many times we tell them they won't. They are really getting quite upset and it is breaking my heart .Welove them as if they were my own - what can I do to make them see that having a baby in the family will not change our love for them? Baby is due in feb so we have alot of time up our sleeves.

2007-09-16 18:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-16 18:13:45 · 12 answers · asked by Kiana Kisses! :p 4 in Singles & Dating

I wish it was me...what can I do from damaging the friendship i still have with my ex

2007-09-16 18:12:55 · 9 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-16 18:12:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 18:11:53 · 3 answers · asked by olly 1 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my sister fight all the time about everything she cuss's me out, beats me up and always does something to make me mad. i know that i kind of encourage her by antagonizing her but i really don't beat her up of like sufficate her...'cause that's some of that she always does....then she tries to make me feel really guilty about why she did it. i know that this sounds really bad...but i'm getting to a point now where i hate her and tell her to die....i know that that's not a good thing so could someone please help with something?? i would really appreciate it thanx

2007-09-16 18:10:58 · 5 answers · asked by will2improv 3 in Family

my son is 16 1/2 old.my mother has custody of him because we all moved out of the country 3 years ago,and he missed his grandparents a lot and i thought he was having a hard time adjusting to the new enviournment,so i decided to let him spend the summer with his grandmother.anyway,once i sent him she went to court and told them she didnt know where i was.they gave her custody because of that.now,i am back in the states and he is giving her a hard time,skipping school,drinking,ect..she wants him to return to me and i want it too.the only thing is we are almost 3 thousand miles away from one another.she has purchased a ticket for my husband to pick him up in a few days,but she has not had the custody switched over to me.i guess my question is once he gets here,can i then apply for the custody although we are not in the same state?

2007-09-16 18:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by healthnut05 1 in Family

2007-09-16 18:09:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so frustrated My current boyfriend is so confusing he says he loves me but he knows i have problems with his ex and he hangs out with her anyway? He won't let me go to the parties he goes to.He will sit there and lecture me on things i already know but an hour later agree with me.He doesn't see me for days at a time.When his friends are around it's like i'm not even his girlfriend.He knows I don't have alot of money and so i ask him to pay for dinner sometimes he gets huffy and seems to expect something in return. I am insane for thinking somethings wrong with this picture? help!

2007-09-16 18:05:13 · 12 answers · asked by witcheshonor 2 in Singles & Dating

She works where I work. She has no idea that I love her. She appears to be 10-15 years younger than I but I know that she is of age. She is mature for her age and certainly would be interested in an old fashioned fellow such as myself.

But many think that I am a gay because I have not had a woman in my bed and I am my age. Others think that I am a loner with no future. Yet there are those that feel as if I may be a predator, creeping towards young women. None of that rubbish could hold a tank of water. I am who I am, a poor fool, fool in love.

I lover her and that's all that should matter. I never harm those that I love. Sometimes I feel persecuted but that doesn't make me a paranoid schizophrenic. I'm only a poor fool, fool in love.

She can kill with a smile, She can wound with her eyes, She can ruin your faith with her casual lies, And she only reveals what she wants you to see, She hides like a child
But she's always a woman to me.

Love hurts! But does it have to?

2007-09-16 18:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother is depressed and clinically ill. She's been nonfunctioning since I was very small, so I'm used to her being like this.

Even though I'm in college now, I continue to live with her so she doesn't have to go into a home, and despite the fact that I do my best to help her, it's never enough.

At this point, not a day goes by when she doesn't tell me that things will never be good, that she never wants people to be happy, and that she's generally hard to handle and be around.

I know I should leave, but I feel tremendous guilt about leaving her alone. On top of that, my younger brother is still a minor, so he would be trapped with her on his own without me around to run interference.

Does anyone know of any social services or home health options that I could call?

Bottom line: What should I do??!?

2007-09-16 18:04:14 · 15 answers · asked by Bellicosa 5 in Family

I always dream that I cheat on my husband?? is that bad? I don't like it because it makes me feel that I plan to. I don't like sleepying around...looking at hot guys is a normal thing for a girl my age....but never cheating ...i would never go beyond looking at a guy and saying he is cute..i am my husband's property...but sometimes by dreams scare me.

2007-09-16 18:03:34 · 27 answers · asked by none 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 25, and I see some girls from my high school class that have gotten married. Based on my evaluations, I doubt 75% of them are mature enough to handle marriage. A lot of them, I think married because one partner has money or because they have family that think people should have certain things done at a certain age. I don't know, maybe it's a small-town thing.

Is this why most marriages in America turn for the worst?

2007-09-16 18:02:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i can't sleep because there are 38 days for my husband to come from oversees...i miss him so much and sometimes i get too anxious...please help before i go nuts...i try to distract myself at work and i am focused but most of the time that is all i think about its been since April that i don't see him and our first year of marrige we spent it apart due to his deployment...going nuts over here!

Thanks

2007-09-16 18:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by none 2 in Marriage & Divorce

These are all options. 50/50...Not that I'm saying that the men would all do these things, but that it could be acceptable for them in our society.

No longer the bread winners.

Take care of appearance.

Stay at home studs.

Wife might be successful.

Takes care of children.

Women approach equally in asking the opposite sex out.

Women are just as aggressive.

Equal distribution of power.

Perhaps he's the affectionate one; cuddles; softer personality (when desiring to be).

And other things you could add....

Why the heck not??????

Let's turn it all around why don't we?????????

2007-09-16 17:58:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 17:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Heather 4 in Singles & Dating

i told someone i didnt want kids, he butted in the conversation and asked why i didnt want them, i said i dont like the process of having kids, i think its nasty. he said its nature and got defensive, then two days later, i wasnt talking to him yet again , he got in the conversation when i said i didnt want kids, he said he didnt want them either, yet these empolyees come in and holds their babies and looks like he enjoys it, then one day i was telling a coworker a dream i had involving a baby and he butted in again and said he thought it was about abortion, he said hes going to be an abortion doc and open his clinic up b/c he said some people shouldnt have kids,

i dont understand this guy he freaks out b/c i said i rather adopt and i wasnt even talking to him yet says he doesnt want kids, yet holds them like hes in love with the kid and..then says hes opening up an abortion clinic..wtf?

i'm 20 and this guy is 24 -we work at a restaraunt together..but im curious whats his deal?

2007-09-16 17:55:57 · 4 answers · asked by pink 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-16 17:53:35 · 22 answers · asked by Zakko D. 2 in Singles & Dating

As a guy, sometimes I would ask? Why get married if you can have sex with girls around and even get them pregnant?

"I can have all the sex i want and not have a single responsibility?!"

If you have a daughter whom you love very dearly and she's growing up very fast.

...of course, you want her to have a good/happy life and a happy married life as well.

....but Divorce Legal Separation & Annulmenthere here and there is what you see.

2007-09-16 17:52:53 · 22 answers · asked by jace 4 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes you end up neglecting your family. One day you find out your wife is having an affair with a 23 year old boy from her church. What would you feel and how would you react?

Please - no violent or vulgar reactions. Please give me a patient and wise answer.

2007-09-16 17:46:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please explain?

2007-09-16 17:46:30 · 11 answers · asked by JonDOE23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-16 17:40:27 · 15 answers · asked by julian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's do a fun one for a change guys. Best story wins best answer!

2007-09-16 17:40:16 · 28 answers · asked by ul_chick2006 1 in Weddings

I'm currently writing a story about a young woman who goes away 2 college & gets caught up in a whole bunch of crazy events, including a 4bidden romance. My story's heroine is shy, awkward, & wears glasses like Lisa Loeb. However, once her hair's down, the glasses r off, & she's gotten n2 something comfortable, she looks remarkably stunning; a hidden beauty, if u may.

So I'm asking if there's some fascination w/ a shy girl or a wallflower who still happens 2 b beautiful. Is a nerdy girl more alluring or approachable then a more social girl?

2007-09-16 17:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by The Glorious S.O.B. 7 in Singles & Dating

I’m 17 and i have a problem with my stepmom. My step mom is loud, bossy, and rude without knowing it. I have a boyfriend, and I love to spend time with him. I’m not materialistic at all. i don't need gifts and pleasantries to make me happy but he likes to buy me stuff, even if i tell him many times not too. My boyfriend has a job and works for his money. Lately, my step mom has been an even bigger b.tch than usual.The other night, she tried to tell me that i USE my boyfriend, because he likes to buy me stuff, and that I should respect him. She says I’m taking advantage over the fact that he has money and that it's not my role in the relationship to use up all of his money. i don't ask him to buy me stuff. She's never around to see how we act, and how i reject his offers, and i made that clear to her. so is she wrong to ASSUME and tell me to my face that i'm using him? Read this to http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AidmdI_wvDt6SMaqarLsMxK.7BR.;_ylv=3?qid=20070916211551AAsVNWF

2007-09-16 17:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by RojaRego 1 in Family