i told someone i didnt want kids, he butted in the conversation and asked why i didnt want them, i said i dont like the process of having kids, i think its nasty. he said its nature and got defensive, then two days later, i wasnt talking to him yet again , he got in the conversation when i said i didnt want kids, he said he didnt want them either, yet these empolyees come in and holds their babies and looks like he enjoys it, then one day i was telling a coworker a dream i had involving a baby and he butted in again and said he thought it was about abortion, he said hes going to be an abortion doc and open his clinic up b/c he said some people shouldnt have kids,
i dont understand this guy he freaks out b/c i said i rather adopt and i wasnt even talking to him yet says he doesnt want kids, yet holds them like hes in love with the kid and..then says hes opening up an abortion clinic..wtf?
i'm 20 and this guy is 24 -we work at a restaraunt together..but im curious whats his deal?
2007-09-16 17:55:57 · 4 answers · asked by pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's his uprbringing, religion, or just plain personality that gets him all worked up--and a little confused. Children are sometimes a very touchy topic for people.
Sounds like he is just plain opinionated.
2007-09-16 18:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, His intelligence isn't worth your time. It's not worth your time to worry about his lies and misinformation. You know as well as I do that he will never become and abortion doctor, so that is a mute point. You also know that he most likely has knocked up 3 or 4 girls and is most likely denying being the father of the child. Pity him for his own stupidity and move on. next time he jumps in to one of your conversations look him in the eye and say, where is your invitation? just keep asking him that until he walks away. he should get the point sooner or later. Maybe.
2007-09-17 01:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by gearnofear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does this concern you so much? Are you interested in him? If not, I would tell him to mind his own business. He seems to be confused about the issue anyway. Just because you don't want to actually have children yourself does not indicate that you would not be a good adoptive parent. He has no business making a judgment like that. who does he think that he is ----God?
2007-09-17 01:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter, you're not going to marry him.
2007-09-17 01:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋