ok me and my sister fight all the time about everything she cuss's me out, beats me up and always does something to make me mad. i know that i kind of encourage her by antagonizing her but i really don't beat her up of like sufficate her...'cause that's some of that she always does....then she tries to make me feel really guilty about why she did it. i know that this sounds really bad...but i'm getting to a point now where i hate her and tell her to die....i know that that's not a good thing so could someone please help with something?? i would really appreciate it thanx
2007-09-16 18:10:58 · 5 answers · asked by will2improv 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well are you antagonizing her in a playful manner, as if to say "I love you," or are you antagonizing her in a more serious manner? The way its approached could make all the difference. If its just because you love your sister, explain that to her, but if its just for the sake of doing so, stop.
2007-09-16 18:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kazama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make you feel better, my sister and I used to fight all the time, and I mean fight. Punching and all. Now we love each other and actually live together. Trust me, you will get on eventually. Just dont tell her you wish she would die, because you would never forgive yourself if something happened to her. Now if there is an issue with my sister, I just ignore her.
2007-09-16 18:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you ask a question, try to be more clear about your question...ok coming to the point, children in a single house always fight but it should be in the limits..if you say something that makes her mad, the situation gets worse...try this...just say nothing and not even with your expression...just try to control your ego at that point of time..it is difficult..but try it once..if you do that, if she is alright, she might feel guilty and try to be more soft towards you. try to express that you love her..sisters who fight love each other..as i feel...the change is possible...all the best
2007-09-16 18:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by sunil m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother's & Sister's or Sister's fight are normal in the family...... My brother and i used to fight even petty things. I also experienced he hurt me like pushing me or he attack me w/ a knife (hehehe true!) and he also destroy my things..... Then, one time i talk and ask him why his behaving mad on me? Well, that time he still immature to answer me and since, I'am the eldest I give way, what i did i ignore all his kiddow behavior..... Instead i argue and fight, i avoid him and say nothing till he gets tired..... (less talk, less fight)
So, talk to your sister and try to open up,what are the things she gets angry at you or vice versa. Maybe, you did something thats makes her mad.... If she dont listen, just ignore and try to avoid argue w/ her.... Dont follow her anger...... One time give her something she likes and envite her out bonding w/ her.. Goodluck!!!
2007-09-16 18:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by ANDREA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want it to change, make it change. Quit antagonizing her.
2007-09-16 18:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋