I'm so frustrated My current boyfriend is so confusing he says he loves me but he knows i have problems with his ex and he hangs out with her anyway? He won't let me go to the parties he goes to.He will sit there and lecture me on things i already know but an hour later agree with me.He doesn't see me for days at a time.When his friends are around it's like i'm not even his girlfriend.He knows I don't have alot of money and so i ask him to pay for dinner sometimes he gets huffy and seems to expect something in return. I am insane for thinking somethings wrong with this picture? help!
2007-09-16 18:05:13 · 12 answers · asked by witcheshonor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl the looser is not worth it!!! here let me share something with you......
......wait for the guy who kisses your forehead who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats, WHO HOLDS YOUR HANDS in ffront of his friends. wait for the one who is costantly reminding you of how much he cares for you. wait for the one who turns to his friends and says ".......thats her...."
2007-09-16 18:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by olly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I think it is time to let him go! I belive from personal experience he leaves for days and hangs out with his ex because he is hiding something. I am not a shrink, but there is something not right there.
here are some questions to seriously think about...
Is he worth racking your mind over?
could you spend the rest of your life being treated this way?
If you talk to him about it does he become deffensive and irrate with you?
Think about these questions if any pop out at you then consider your choices because you could be being played for a fool.
2007-09-17 01:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by SARAH S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should always confide in you at all times and with one another. Hidden secrets or things not dealt with will come to light and the pass catches up with you... Sit with him privately and discuss everything out into the open could be other issues he may not be dealing with just yet... Early relationships are hard to deal with....
2007-09-17 01:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by PJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy who has done what your talking about to one of my exes, no he doesnt really care for you at all, nor does he respect you. Usually when I told her she couldnt come to the parties that I would go to I was cheating on her. So move on, hes a jerk, coming from a former jerk.
2007-09-17 01:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by Marc-Antony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's looking for a scapegoat for something he wants to accessorize his self,kinda tripper?i'v seen 1 like this,YES they ended in no time!i dont know you in person but i hate guys who takes a girl as their refuge meaning to cover up the empty(4 d meantime)dont get me wrong girl coz u knw d answer"he dont love u"!!!
2007-09-17 01:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by futurelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i aint gay but daim thats ****** up if he doesnt let u go those parties hes problably seing some one else or something he's problably sick of u no offence/se i dont know how to spell that but yeah he's not interested in you no more thats my guess
2007-09-17 01:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by NoZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes an A whole! Dump him!
2007-09-17 01:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get out of the relationship.
2007-09-17 01:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*scratches head* and you are with him why? i say its time to move on ..... if you are in love with someone you don't expect things in return.... and if your gut feeling is that something is wrong ... trust it.
2007-09-17 01:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Krys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting him treat you like that? Is that all you think of yourself?
2007-09-17 01:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋