ok so i can't sleep because there are 38 days for my husband to come from oversees...i miss him so much and sometimes i get too anxious...please help before i go nuts...i try to distract myself at work and i am focused but most of the time that is all i think about its been since April that i don't see him and our first year of marrige we spent it apart due to his deployment...going nuts over here!
Thanks
2007-09-16 18:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by none 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Same here! My husband was deployed for our first year of marriage also! and then he came back, and he was here for a year and a half and now he is heading back to iraq (at the end of the month). So 38 days is a short time more to wait...I have to start a whole other year! Don't worry you are not alone in this....I know how you feel....but just keep busy and those last few days will fly by hopefully!!!! good luck girl!!!
2007-09-16 18:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from a a veteran Marine wife, 19 years this coming November...the anxiety is understandable. I'm sure you are happy about his return, but also nervous about getting reaquainted with yoru husband. You said overseas, so I'm not sure if he is in the box or just an unaccompanied tour, give each other time to readjust to having each other physically in each other lives. Congratulations on making it through a year...good luck and enjoy his return. In the meantime, email as much as possible, when you are feeling anxious, exercise, write a handwritten letter for his return telling him how much you love him and how you are feeling, think of the things he wants to do, you want to do...so many things. But keep in mind, there is the readjustment period. Good luck.... I will be you in due time, my husband rotates back in January...God Bless you both and thank you for all the sacrifices from one military wife to another.
2007-09-17 02:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Texan_by_birth_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same has happened to me.... my husband and i got married on valentines day and 10 days later he had to leave for japan. i was not able to move to japan with him until july 28th. it was horrible. start doing things with girlfriends... try asking one to go sleep or you go sleep so at night time when all you can do is think about him, you will have a friend over to keep you occupied. also try going to the gym after work or doing something in the community since after work you have nothing to keep you distracted.... good luck and god bless! =]
2007-09-17 01:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by lc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married ...4 days later he left for boot camp...feel your pain
2007-09-17 01:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We understand your insanity over the wait, but oh the reunion will be very sweet !!!
2007-09-17 01:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tweety 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
make his welcome home a great one.. heck get friends and family and even the news to be there.. they all should get a welcome home like that.. and a surprise like that i know will make him feel proud.. and he should be.. and i thank him for serving so others dont have too. good luck..
2007-09-17 01:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on u should be happy that he is coming back.... and more, u shd do some preparation of his home coming... relax...
2007-09-17 01:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the question?
2007-09-17 01:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋