I wish it was me...what can I do from damaging the friendship i still have with my ex
2007-09-16 18:12:55 · 9 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that it's very mature of you to want to be happy that your ex has somebody new in his life. It sounds like you want him to be happy, too. It's also great that you still have a friendship with him. You're probably going to have to back off, because it will be hard to hide your feelings. You'll have to realize that because you still have feelings for him, it will do you more harm than good to be around him and his new girlfriend. Maybe in the future, you guys will realize that what you had is worth fighting for, and you'll get back together. For now, concentrate on yourself - set new goals, make new friends, try new experiences.
2007-09-16 18:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Wilo chick i know it is not easy for me to say this because i have no experience in dating, but what i an say is that you should be happy for your ex and try to find someone else or take some time off from the dating life and just heal your emotional wounds and look or hope that someone else comes into your life. I hope everything goes well for you.
2007-09-17 02:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally understand you and it's normal to feel this way when you still have feelings for him. but you have to realize that the closer you get to him as being a friend, you could possibly end up hurt. being friends after being lovers is not impossible but it's hard when both people are not on the same page as in how they still feel about each other. in your case, i would suggest you let him go until you feel better about being friends with him again. I know it's hard. just keep yourself active and hang with your girlfriends. maybe he might realize he made a mistake and come back like in my case but that rarely happens. so don't keep waiting. i know you want him to be happy so let him be. be there for him when he needs you.
2007-09-17 02:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Loving.You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. You still harbor feelings for him if you want to not damage the "friendship." You don't want to be friends for genuine friendship.
2007-09-17 01:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by DMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay friends and point out that no matter who is in Ur lives u will always have each other as a friend.....but if it hurts too much to be his friend then distance urself from him until u make a full recovery.......We woman have Strong hearts !
2007-09-17 01:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your business. It's over. Stop hanging around and find some other guy to go out with.
2007-09-17 01:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Desert Sienna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant be ya friend sweetie you are still in love with him. space is what is needed until your feelings are competely gone then there is a better chance of you just being friends.
2007-09-17 01:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by trs_wife4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not friends if you still feel like that. You're pretending to be his friend.
2007-09-17 01:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. Try and get over your jealousy.
2007-09-17 01:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋