I always dream that I cheat on my husband?? is that bad? I don't like it because it makes me feel that I plan to. I don't like sleepying around...looking at hot guys is a normal thing for a girl my age....but never cheating ...i would never go beyond looking at a guy and saying he is cute..i am my husband's property...but sometimes by dreams scare me.
2007-09-16 18:03:34 · 27 answers · asked by none 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dreams are just a way for your mind to do a garbage run. Do not worry
2007-09-16 18:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX!!! You haven't seen your husband since April. You are more then likely just missing the physical part of a relationship. You're dreaming of cheating on him not of leaving him or falling for someone else. You only have a couple of weeks until he's home, and f they continue then I would be worried, but I would imagine the dreams will go away once he's home. Good Luck!
2007-09-16 19:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh DEAR. Sounds like you need to miss your husband for a while. Remove any other guys from the picture and take a relaxing break somewhere on your own. Sleep a couple of nights without him.
If that's not entirely feasible, you need to make yourself miss him on your own. Remind yourself of all the reasons you love him when he's not close by, imagine all the nice times you've shared, and want them again RIGHT THEN! But don't go get it, save it for the bedroom.
The point is, your hubby has become too "there", your mind is looking other places. You need to consciously want him again for a while.
They are only dreams, yes, but a tad unhealthy if reccuring. So remember why you don't want the other guys, and you want your hubby!
2007-09-16 18:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Virgil 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be scare by just a dream, i dream that my husband cheats on my with his best friend's wife, and i know for a fact that he would never cheat on me , let alone with his best friend's wife, i have had this dream twice now, he just laughs and goes oh man that's gross! haha but you shouldn't be worried or feel guilty about it, just because you dream that doesn't mean you're planning to or that it's going to happen. Good luck!
2007-09-16 18:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Pat's Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had a bunch of those dreams over the years. It's normal. I'm sure your husband has them too. I'd say no biggie unless you actually start longing to cheat when you're awake.
2007-09-16 22:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do in life and what you do in a dream are two completely different things. As long as you've decided that you would be a faithful person, then you shouldn't worry about a few dreams here and there. Simply remember that you are in control of your behavior in real life. Good luck!
2007-09-16 18:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you are no ones property.you are he soul mate his best friend.a dream is just a dream although it may mean that sometime before you go to sleep you think about other guys which is natural.all people do it it does not mean you want to cheat on him it just means that you see other guys that are attractive.TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH I BET YOUR HUSBAND LOOKS AT OTHER WOMEN.why feel bad it does not mean anything but that your vision works and you can see.leave it alone
2007-09-16 18:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by kingml213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you go to bed thinking about, to dream like this? You are only having a dream and it is not like someone is going to make you do something that you don't want to do.
2007-09-16 19:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by LovelyChoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are just that. Dreams. Don't let them get to you. Dreams are not reality they are your subconscious mind's skewed view of reality or fantasy. Your dreams have very little to do with your reality. You are not acting the dreams out nor are you planning on to. so just leave them where they belong. They should not scare you.
Also I hope you don't mind me saying but you are not anyones property. that is belittling yourself.
best,
Ali
2007-09-16 18:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by Haplo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not be the cheating type; but your subconscious is definitely telling you that you are NOT satisfied in your marriage.
Perhaps it's the notion that you are your husbands "property" that has you all f*cked up.
That would make me feel like a prisoner that needed to escape too.
2007-09-16 18:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋