I hit my girlfriend. Frankly, most of the time I am sick of her... nagging, bitching, whatever. A lot of the time, I want to break up; but I feel sorry for her, and she won't break up. I even hit her, that is how sick I am of this relationship -- BUT SHE WON'T END THE RELATIONSHIP. I can't leave, I can't get out, and she won't leave, and she won't get out -- so what do I do? This is why guys hit girls, because they are trapped... it sucks. I don't want to go to jail for domestic abuse, but I also don't want to live with someone who isn't nice to me. Go to hell with your comments about how guys don't hit girls -- you haven't met the kinds of girls that I have.
2007-09-16 18:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by arinkleff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She may forgive you for it and you could go on like nothing happened.
2007-09-16 18:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Andre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something inside of YOU attracts girls that you can't stand. You can leave and you can end the relationship, you choose not to. You must not be too sick of her, you haven't broken up with her. You hit her because you are weak. No real man, hits a woman. Anytime a woman takes a situation to the point where a real man is tempted to hit her, the real man will leave the situation. I hope that you do go to jail for dv. I hope that she has some brothers, male cousins or uncles who will get wind of the fact that you hit her. I hope that they give you triple what you gave her. If I was her, I'd beat you with a bat, you'd think twice about hitting another woman! COWARD! I bet you would rather walk through hell wearing gasoline draws than to hit a man. You are a loser!
2007-09-17 01:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by grace95838 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that hit girls are WEAK individuals. Why are you waiting for her to leave you? So you don't look like the bad guy?
News for you: you already do.
Pack your things & put both of you out of your misery by leaving or you will end up in jail for domestic violence as there is NO EXCUSE for your behaviour.
2007-09-17 03:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say you can't leave? If you can walk, you can leave. You block her calls, move in with a buddy, get your name off credit cards and other investments and walk away. thousands of people do it everyday, you can too. (If you are feeling guilty, then tell her you will pay off just the things you bought. Hopefully you saved the bills.)
Then you take a good long look at yourself to see why you are attracted to these clingy types and try to meet a better kind.
Oh, yeah, provided she doesn't pack iron, you could get caught in her bed with another woman....sometimes that's effective
2007-09-17 01:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get away from this girl. Move away. It really is never right to hit ANYONE. No matter how much they nag or *****. You should end the relationship.
2007-09-17 01:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by peacelovelauren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by telling you how much of a coward you are, if you don't want to be with her the SIMPLY JUST LEAVE HER!!!!!!! nobody is stopping you to, dont give me the crap saying that you "feel sorry for her" you obviously don't if you hit her, no one deserves to be beaten so if you're so sick of her then leave you coward! ppl like you shouldn't exist in this world!!
2007-09-17 01:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Pat's Angel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet and LEAVE. Be broke....have no money...give up your stuff and leave. Take what you can but if you can't get her to move out, then take your own butt out of the situation. Crash on a buddies couch...crash at a relatives...trust me. Just go. You are going to end up in jail ... which I guess is one way to get out of it.
2007-09-17 01:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by crayziegirl75 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's horrible what you did. if you really want to break up with her, just tell her it's over, explain why, and get out of her life. avoid her and don't pick up her calls. do whatever to avoid her but don't hurt her. that's just wrong and you can wind up in jail. but hey, there's an idea. you can get away from her.
2007-09-17 01:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Loving.You 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have pretty much exhausted your choices.
I have one more choice available to you: Grow Up And Shut Up.
Oh, and Stop Hitting
2007-09-17 01:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by d_cider1 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Start the eviction process.
2007-09-17 01:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋