2007-09-16 19:14:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't.
Unless you're in a position of great influence, (your sister adores and respects you), you don't say Anything negative about the guy or her.
Doing so will just drive her closer to him.
You could ask her what she see in him, why he's so wonderful. If you choose this route, you must be neutral to positive, tell her you want to be able to see him as she does.
If she comes with questions, ask her if she really want you opinion, of just assurance that she's doing the right thing dating such an older guy.
I have personal experience, my 16 year old sister was dating a guy who was 26. If you make any attempt to get between your sister and the guy she's dating ........you lose.
Try prayer, (worked for my sister)
Sorry
Luck
2007-09-16 19:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her how she is going to feel down the road when his balls start hanging to the ground, and it takes an hour to get him hard. Tell her that is what her future will be. At least if she was closer to his age, they could grow old together. Besides, what man other than a pervert would be interested in having a relationship with a 17 year old? She is a child and he is either a perverted adult, he is so immature for his age that people his own age do not respect him, or he is a control freak that needs to have a little girl to control because older women won't let him.
Tell your parents too. She is way too young for this 34 year old lunatic.
2007-09-17 02:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a really bad situation because this man is only trying to take advantage of her, a decent man wouldn't date a girl this young, but it's also hard because the more you want to stop her from dating him the closer she's going to get to him so my advice to you is to talk to her and try to open her eyes, she's blinded right now because she might think she's in love with this guy, tell her that it's also illegal for that her to have a relationship with such an older man. Help her! Like i said he's just trying to take advantage of her.Good luck to you!
2007-09-17 02:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Pat's Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that your sister is not as mature as you are. So call a family meeting and let your parents in on the situation. Tell them that you think that this a bad thing, for what ever reasons you have,hopefully you know something on him other that rape.Get y our brothers and their friends pay him a visit..... Tell your sister to wake up and smell the coffee she can do better and she stills has a full life ahead of her.
2007-09-17 02:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by LovelyChoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling an adult. If you can't tell your parents tell some adult who you trust. After all she is still a minor and if she was my daughter I would certainly want to know. You are right to be concerned. Be the good sister that I know you are and don't be afraid to tell someone and if she gets mad about it now she'll get over it and thank you when your're both older. Best wishes! You're doing the right thing.
2007-09-17 02:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Gabfest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seeing as she's 17 and so close to 18, there's not much you or anyone could probably do to stop her. In some states it would be illegal and others it's not. Just sit her down and tell her how uncomfortable you are with the situation and tell her why you feel this way. Hopefully she'll listen to you.
2007-09-17 02:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is so wrong. Why would she date a man who is almost old enough to be her father? Look for a troubled past. Perhaps a relationship between father-daughter or uncle-niece. Good luck, have her get some counselling.
2007-09-17 02:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the everloving **** out of the 34 year old. If he refuses to leave her alone after a cordial request or two.
2007-09-17 02:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a guy friend call up the boyfriend and pretend he's a police officer. Tell the guy its illegal to be with her. Maybe he'll fall for it.
2007-09-17 02:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by javi21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man I think thats illegal in most states so just tell your parents and let them handle the situation. I'm sure she'll get a good a** whoopin'!!!
2007-09-17 02:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋