I just met a girl at work that I am very attracted to. We got to talking and all the sudden I told her about me. She tells me how beautiful I am. All the sudden we get to talking about it. She says she's never been with a girl and claims to be straight, bc she has a bf. Then she also said she has dreams about being with a girl, and says she's very curious about being with a girl and ask me what it's like.
I told her I am so into blonds. Then I said I hope she's not weirded out by things I am telling her and she says maybe I'll dream about you. I am confused bc she seems like she likes me but am not sure bc she says she's straight. I'm not looking for anything serious just curious about her mind.
She only works on Saturdays so the Saturday I won't be there bc of my sister's b-day and the one after that she said she won't be working. Then I seemed disappointed so she said I'll try to pick up a shift. So what do you think about it. Thank you for your answer!
2007-09-16 15:58:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are both super fems.
2007-09-16 16:09:28 · update #1
from what you just said, it more sounds like she's curious about what it would be like to be with a girl, and not really up for the idea of having one permanently. if she's still with her boyfriend, then she intends on being with him long-term, which means if she gets involved with any girl, it would only really be for experimentation and nothing more. be careful around girls like her. that is unless you wouldnt mind being used.
2007-09-16 16:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems pretty curious and flirtatious. Keep in mind what you might be taking as a possible relationship may just be an exciting experiment for her. As you said, she has a boyfriend. This is sort of a tough one to call but id say not to look too much into it unless you're okay with just being a possible experimental fling. Dont get too attatched just yet.
2007-09-16 16:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by colostomy_punch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at this point she is just bi-curious and maybe you and she just seem to have an open enough friendship to talk about it. She may be flirting with the idea in her mind, but I wouldn't read too much into it. If she starts wanting to spend time with you outside of work it could be an indicator that she's wanting to see if it could go anywhere. You definately intrigue her and give her an outlet to talk without being judged.
2007-09-16 16:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she would be willing to explore sometime. After you guys talk more over a few weekends ask her out and go VERY slowly. Go chill somewhere and then a kiss at the end of the evening. If shes ok with that then try a little more the next time.... Hope I helped
2007-09-16 16:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by ethx1138 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is both confused and curious. I'd try to not get too invested in the outcome of the situation, be patient and see where it goes. If it does go anywhere there is a good chance it is just curiousity so don't get hurt.
2007-09-16 16:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Roland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the term "bi-curious"?
I think that may be where she's at right now. She's straight, but wants to explore sex with another girl.
It may turn out that if you allow her to experiment with you, that's all it will be to her, an experiment.
If you do that, I hope you can get through it without getting hurt.
2007-09-16 16:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not homophobic - gays don't scare me in the least.
Doesn't sound like she was put off by what you said, and I'd say her picking up a shift would be a good sign. Probably want to move slowly on this one - constantly, but slowly.
2007-09-16 16:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any girl who openly admits that she is curious about what its like to be with a girl, isn't 100% straight...
From what you've wrote it seems she might be curious about what it'd be like being with you!!!
Obviously she knows you like girlks and is still flirting with you, so i say keep flirting and soon enough you will get your answer... Just be sure not to hurt her boyfriend too much along the way!!!!
2007-09-16 16:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me on this..... never look at a person from work as anything other than a family- type relationship. I dated my boss once, and after we broke up, I had to find another job. Life was very difficult around my workplace for a long time too.
2007-09-16 16:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kim K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems interested, however alot of people think that if your straight/gay and you do something with a gay/straight person its not cheating and it most definitely is, so don't let her use you if that's what she thinks. Be careful, and be honest and open, but watch the ole ticker, because it does not enjoy being torn. Good Luck.
2007-09-16 16:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋