This guy i really like likes me back and he wants to date me but we cant be together cause hes best friends with my older brother and he and i are 3 years apart and parents would flip out so we dont know what to do i need to show him that i really like him and that age doesnt matter but i really dont know waht to do plz help!
2007-09-16 13:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by bshherica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell ur parents and bro how much you like him and you guys should talk to them together..or do it in secret. I kept a bf a secret for two years..its hard but not impossible
2007-09-16 13:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sexylova49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old is he and how old are you? You could be jail bait right now and that wouldn't be cool especially considering your parents don't like the idea... He could end up doing jail time over it. And if something happened between the two of you it could also cause your brother to lose his best friend. You have to weigh the good things against the bad. Write it all down and see what wins out. I would personally wait a while, if he still likes you when your a lil older than go for it.
2007-09-16 20:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by lil_rebell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
age does not matter past a point and i suspect you have not reached that point if your parents would flip ---- if you are both old enough (and for me i choose 20) then you are old enough to make your own choices (i was married at 20) and 3 years is not a big difference nor is the fact that he a friend of your brother --- best wishes
2007-09-16 20:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, Heather, I'm gonna let you in on a secret... if you like each other, then why not go for it? I understand the parents problems, but who says they have to find out? as for your brother, if he even Thinks about telling them, i'm sure he's not exactly spotless. blackmail and/or bribery can take care of that problem. anymore questions on the subject, feel free to drop me an email.
2007-09-16 20:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Luv Docta Jay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you really like him that much, I suggest you tell your parents while he tells your brother. or I guess keep him hidden, but its more fun when you don't have to worry what your family will do when they find out!
2007-09-16 20:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 years isnt a big deal, if your parents are that bad then keep it secret
2007-09-16 20:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him,
get them to give you a chance and show them that you two are good together.
2007-09-16 20:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by DaniRae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Secret dating i so much fun... it is kinda an adrenaline rus for me
2007-09-16 20:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kare Bare! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your family to mind their own business
2007-09-16 20:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by latoyaevon 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
JUST GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND SEE HIM AND MEET HIM. DON'T CRY AND FOR GOD SAKE, DO NOT GO TO BED WITH HIM TO PROVE THIS EITHER.
2007-09-16 20:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋