This girl I have been dating for 3 months (and we get along awesome) came out of a bad marraige. She has told me that it will take her a while to let her guard down, and I cannot blame her for that (I know how she feels). My question is do you think she will ever let me see her interself and turn into that person that I want to get really close to?
2007-09-16 13:46:10 · 15 answers · asked by seldring2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't rush her... it's just going to make her more uptight. Take your time with the relationship. If you can't wait then you're not for her.
2007-09-16 13:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now she needs time to recover from the bad marriage. This may take quite a while. In the meantime, don't rush her into making any decisions. Give her the space and time she needs. Be patient, and eventually she will see you for the fine person you are. She just wants to make sure that she's not making the same mistake twice. Try and understand her hesitancy, and don't take it personally. Just continue to enjoy the awesome times you have together, and let nature take its course. Good luck!
2007-09-16 20:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know she will let you in sooner or later. IT takes a while for some. Esp. if it was an ok marriage. The bitter ones seem to take a shorter time to get over. I wish the best.
2007-09-16 20:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by blonde n love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take patience.....3 months isn't long enough to get over a broken fingernail, much less a bad marriage. Show her you can be trusted, support her decisions and be there when she needs a shoulder to cry on. She will eventually show you the real girl.
2007-09-16 20:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, perhaps but thre are no promises. Usually when someone gets divorced they do not end up with the first person they have decied to date after the destruction of their marriage. Rebound!
2007-09-16 20:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tibbar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her and comfort her when she needs it. She'll open up if your nice and don't use the bad marriage against her in an argument.
2007-09-16 20:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Windona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has come out of a divorce then she has experience with all the legal tricks on how to screw an ex, so i would be careful.
2007-09-16 20:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think eventually, she will. she just needs time. dont rush her for anything or try to pressure her in any way. everything will work out good! dont worry!
2007-09-16 20:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe she will and if u let her know that u can trust u.. otherwise no.
2007-09-16 20:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kare Bare! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, as soon as she learns she can trust you. just give her more time. i dont think 3 months is enough time yet..
2007-09-16 20:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ TOKIO HOTEL ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋