Last year I found out I can NEVER get pregnet. To me that was good because I never planned on having a kid. Well ever since then I've loosened up and now I have sex all the time. It'll be with random people too. Sometimes I'll go to a party and have it with some guy in the upstairs bedroom. Once I did it with my substitute teacher. I've even slept with my best friend's boyfriend. I can't stop and I'm not sure I want to. But I know this is really wrong. I'm 18 years old so nothing is illegal. But having sex regularly, like a past-time, is really bad. What should I do?
2007-09-16 12:37:05 · 26 answers · asked by Cassi M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well my sub was only 21. 3 years older than me. I honestly DON'T want kids. And I have fun having sex. But a lot of people think that's wrong.
2007-09-16 12:47:16 · update #1
GOD. Does no one read?! Why do I need to practice safe sex if I CAN'T get pregnant? And I really NEVER wanted kids so stop saying I'm just dealing with the fact that I can't have kids. Dang.
2007-09-16 12:49:14 · update #2
Safe sex isn't all about pregnancy...it's about disease too.
FYI
When I was 18 my doctor told me that I could never get pregnant.
I am not kidding, not lying.
I have 6 kids. All mine, all full term healthy babies.
2007-09-18 03:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure u still use protection. you may not be able to get pregnant, but you sure coudl pick up an STD. I personally think ur problem runs a little deeper. I think u may have low self-esteem and this picks it back up for you. Are u proud to be having this many partners at such a young age? This could cause you to have a really bad reputation and loose a lot of friends (since u sleep with people such as ur best friends b/f). I have known girls like this in college and they were notoriously talked about and dubbed as "sluts" "whores" and the boys knew if they wanted to have sex all they had to do was give the "ho" a call to get it on. Guys basically will have no respect for you at all. It might also be really hard for you to get in a serious realtionship with a past like this. Just some things to think about...... good luck!! =o)
2007-09-16 12:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP!!! even if you cant have kids thats still wrong!! If you do that, how are you ever supposed to fall in love, if every time its just a one night stand??? Plus having sex with all these people could get you in trouble in the future. You wont have any friends if you sleep with all their boyfriends!! Im sure your not a bad person, but you should rally think and realize that just cause you cant get pregnat doesnt mean that having sex with random people is okay. cause its not.
2007-09-16 12:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzyglasses 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should stop having random sex im guessing because you dont know where other people have been meaning what they might or could have you might not be able to get pregnant but you could get HIV and a load of other really screwed up things but i guess if your going to just have sex with anyone make them use a condom for protection against STDs and stuff, try to at least get to know some people before you jump into bed with them if you talk to people for a while you could find really messed up or really great people i hope that helps
2007-09-16 12:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Matt k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is a way for you to deal with the fact that you will never get pregnant. Finding that out is hard specially when you're young. But you can control your desire for sex and you can stop yourself from doing it with "everyone". Protect yourself because if you can't get pregnant that doesnt mean you can't get STD's.
2007-09-16 12:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by DoLz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, besides getting a bad reputation, you are subjecting yourself to herpes, AIDS, and a variety of other STD's. Your reputation WILL keep you in bed, but it may keep you SINGLE, also.
Your the kind of girl the guys love to run to to get a quick lay, and leave and go back to their gf's.
I think you can tone it down; if you can't, you can get into a sex addict support group.
p.s. I'm a guy, and truthfully, you are the kind of girl we all hope to run into once in our lives, so we don't have to work to get laid. But we don't want used merchandise for our long term partner. Yeah, it's sexist, and chauvanistic, and all that, but it's the way we are made.
2007-09-16 12:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know that sign do not feed the bear at the zoo? there's one on the pearly gates. God waits for us to do stuff like this! and just because they tell you your infertile is NOT a gaurantee. I have a cousin who was told the same thing, she winds up having THREE GIRLS including TWINS. besides you're also setting yourself up for a disease. there's plenty of sex addiction groups for you out there. take a month off and get in one. also talk about how you REALLY feel about this, it sounds like you really wanted kids and are punishing yourself.OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
2007-09-16 12:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You got the black snake moen.It is not wrong to want sex all the time, but Girls who have sex with many partners are not accepted well in todays society.Males can usually get away with the same behavior.Just have fun and enjoy it.Because when you get married it's all down hill.Oh can i have sex with you.HaHA!
2007-09-16 12:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you may not be have kids but you could get aids, Stds and any bad stds!!! Use Condoms get aome theropy or talk with mom some freinds watsch out
2007-09-16 12:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool off sista!! give yourself some space to breathe. get a stedy boyfriend and hold off until maybe the first few dates? think you can handle that? be faithful too. try and get in2 the habit of controlling yourself. let this guy know your problem, and make sure he will try and help you overcome it, not enable it. and dont sleep with your best friends boyfriend angain, please!!
good luck...?
2007-09-16 12:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋