My cousin is mean to me because she's jealous of my beauty. I have nice wide side big eyes and thick lips while her eyes are a bit boring in comparsion to mine and her eyes are alittle close set. She also has thin lips. She scratched me and she pulled my hair once. Another time she smacked me. What do you think of this?
2007-09-16 12:08:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 19 and she's alittle older than me
2007-09-16 12:24:00 · update #1
Another time she shook me while I was in bed when I was about to fall asleep. She's alittle taller and stronger than me so I can't defend myself when she attacks me.
2007-09-16 12:28:34 · update #2
She spits on me. Sometimes she would suddenly run into me and shout and call me a slut and push me.
2007-09-16 12:59:10 · update #3
I think you're just conceited. She could have scratched you and pulled on your hair for a TOTALLY different reason.
2007-09-16 12:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure that she's jealous? Isn't maybe you got issues from the past that was left unsolved or something. Either way, you got to know for sure. Try talking to her and know where is her anger coming from. As much as possible, try to keep your cool when doing so. If still nothing works out, it would be best to talk to her parents or you could seek a shrink
2007-09-24 04:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, all cousins are jealous i can tell you that. But please dont be such a spoiled girl you can tell your cousin that she is beatiful too but in some other ways, not only because she has boring eyes and thin lips she is going to be ugly aren`t she? and by the way how old is your cousin beause if she is about 3 or 7 dont be mad at her little kids are like that always. And if she is big, like 10 or more well i dont have nothing to say.
2007-09-16 19:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
get OVER yourself, girl. I think she's just annoyed of your ego. No wonder, I'd be pissed off by your attitude too. You hold your head way to high and everyone agrees with me. GET A LIFE.
The day she gets jealous of you is the day you get over yourself which is NEVER!
besides, who wants to walk around like a clown thats been botoxed anyways? You sound like you and Bobo the clown are real close.
2007-09-16 19:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Cirque de Soleil (Is bored) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know just what you mean, because my cousin is jelous of me because I'm better looking than her, and not as fat as she is either. My other cousin is jealous too because I'm lighter than her. My oldest cousin beat me up because she dosen't like me because I look better than her. I'm not saying I'm fine, but she looked like a boy and the other fat. But I love them both even today. Just let your cousin know that you love her and even though you both have different looks, she is beautiful too. Don't let on that you know you look better. If she hits you again bring it to the attention of the family. Life is too short love each other. Beauty is just skin deep and blood is thicker than water.
2007-09-16 19:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try keeping your opinions of yourself to yourself and point out her good points. If she thinks you think she's not as pretty as you feel you are ....... you are then the problem, not her.
That's just my suspicion.
Kev
2007-09-16 19:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probley not the problem the problem is u call her ugly and u say ur beautiful!
2007-09-16 19:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your cousin.
think about her motive though... you don't seem like a modest person and maybe you point out the fact that you consider yourself to be better looking.
2007-09-16 19:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by psgr 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
By what you said, I think she may be angry that you treat her like she is less attractive than yourself. She probably doesn't like your bragging either. Which one of you is meaner? I can't tell.
2007-09-16 19:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Lovey 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your a bit to fine for your own good aren't you
2007-09-23 19:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by mamawmessedup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋