I checked before and they were not there, and no I was not snooping he left his wallet on the floor next to the remote and I just so happened to see a gold rapping and pulled it out and low and behold there were two condoms.
2007-09-16 11:30:17 · 27 answers · asked by TO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he isn't using them on you then you already know the answer now are you going to believe the stupid story he will make up or trust your own intuition that is 99.9% of the time right. If he was out late that night or said he had to work late or had a meeting then he was with another woman and didn't have time to take them out of his wallet. Just think if you wouldn't of found the condoms you would of never none about the cheating and he would of kept on doing it behind your back. You never would of none what kind of man you been wasting your time on. Now that you know what kind of man he is lets see what kind of woman you are. Are you the believe anything kind of woman or are you the kind that will inore what you know or will you put your foot down and say no more and leave him. I think you will believe the stupid story he tells you because you love him so much.
2007-09-16 12:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be cheating steadily with another woman but there would be other signs as well such as suddenly dressing better, working out, or going out more with the boys. Could just be a hooker giving him a BJ occasionally. I see this all the time as there are hookers hanging outside my work place in the morning and guys pull up in their company vans/cars and pick them up. Regardless, he's getting some sex somewhere. He also could be testing you by leaving his wallet behind and a wrapper hanging out. Seems like a pretty dumb move. Anyway, there are plenty of nice guys out there
that wouldn't do these things so don't get upset just ask him and if you don't like the answer move on.
2007-09-16 11:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by greenwood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he carries his wallet to bed and digs a condom out at the last minute, I'd say he's at least open to the idea of having sex away from home. But, what's with looking in his wallet? And yes, I think you were snooping.
2007-09-16 11:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think???
Do you think it is to hand over to young couples he happen to meet and do a nice gesture??? Not!
You should totally confront him!
Why would YOU keep a condom in your bag for? Just in case right?! So, there you go!
So, if you are not already at it, you know that the chances are it might well happen and you don't want to be short of it when the OPPORTUNITY rises!
So, it's not like it's unlikely that there's any chance of it happening. It's already happening or he's in an environment where it may happen at any time!
Sort him out!
2007-09-16 11:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he can answer that.....But in all honesty, why would a man that has a girlfriend NEED to carry condoms in their wallet. Answer is..... they don't. And if honesty is something you are looking for and expecting from anyone else, then be honest with yourself first. You went looking in the wallet because something (intuition, past behaviors) dictated that
that you felt the need to, or you're naturally a suspicious person
2007-09-16 11:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you use these condom's when your having intercourse with him normally or are you on some other kind of birth control?
If you dont use them then yes he's cheating or thinking about it , if you do use them maybe he's hoping the next time you go out together somewhere that you might get frisky and then he's well prepared.
Ask him.
2007-09-16 12:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this question, but I will tell you so you can hear it from a third party. If the two of you do not use condoms, and they were not there in the past...yep he's cheating or surely thinking about it. Sorry! Take care of yourself...
2007-09-16 12:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes he is cheating you already knew that. if you and him are not using condoms what he the need for him to have them in his wallet. well at least he is using protection. but the act of it is not right. he is cheating and if he tells you different and you believe him than thats on you. all woman have a seventh sense and that is we know when our man is cheating if we dont know nothing else. sweetie you are asking for confirmation at this point not realization. GodBless
2007-09-16 11:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that would be like finding a gun in his dresser, would that make him a robber or killer! It certainly does suggest something but doesnt really convict him of something immoral. You can either currently ignore this and recheck in a few days or confront him now and maybe get some lies and alert him to your suspicions if hes doing something. If you want to see a grown man panic if hes doing something wrong indeed would be to glue a couple small pictures of yourself to the packages so when and if he does take them out, the look on his face would be priceless
2007-09-16 11:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's hard not to think the worst in that sort of situation. The only reasons I can think of him needed a condom for other than that, is because it's for you, he's masturbating and doesn't want stuff all over the place...but more than likely, he's either cheating or thinking about it. Talk to him now.
2007-09-16 11:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋