ok, i have a boyfriend whos super sweet and everyone tells me that were meant for eachother. he is what i dreamnt the perfect boyfriend for me. hes 17 and ill be 15 in november.
but lately i have been having strong feelings for my guyfriend and i think he likes me too. he is a lot different from my boyfriend, but i still find him atractive. my boyfriend is more the sweetheart, sensitive, funny one. (hes a skaterboy). and my friend is more mysterious and adventurous, and i also have this fantasy of some wild guy sweeping me off my feet. (yeah, im REALLY sappy sometimes). so whenever i hang out with him, i get really caught up in our chemistry. hes so dreamy and interesting. and were the same age
WHAT DO I DO????!!!!!!!
2007-09-16 11:30:06 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow.. you're situation reminds me of my ex girlfriend's problem.
we were in love and everything wasn't always perfect, but for most part it was.
we were literally the cutest couple and everyone thought we would be together forever.
then she went on a vacation and came back and broke up with me.
said she wasn't happy with my anymore.
then I found out that she had feelings for my BEST FRIEND.
mine and many other people's opinion is that, that was really MESSED UP.
Like I can't make her want and stay with me.
I can't control her like that.
she even wished that he would like her back.
and when we hang out as a group, she pays more attention to him than me.
yes I get jealous a lot.
but oh well,
I'm no one to tell her what to do.
I'm not all that cute looking,
but I have everything when it comes to personalities.
I'm nice, sweet, kind, sensitive (yes I will admit that I can cry)
now my best friend, he is cute, and the tough kind of guys.
and just like my ex, I'm assuming you like that tough kind.
so my advice to you is that, do what it is YOU want.
and the other people that answered this is right.
you guys are not married.
yes he will be hurt by your decision, but don't put other people in front of you.
because you can only make other people happy if you're happy yourself.
2007-09-16 11:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ngoc V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you become honest with both of them; you tell your now boyfriend that you really care about him but, you are too young to be commited to only one person. Tell him that you want to date others so you will know who is the one for you. You can't make a decision like that based on dating only one guy. You need to have fun with lots of people; maybe go out in groups and see how the new guy interacts with you and with others. Everyone has a fantasy of being swept off their feet by their perfect mate but, life is not a fantasy so you have to get your head out of the clouds for a while. There is nothing wrong with seeing different guys; don't get so involved that you are only hanging around one exclusively. There is time for that later. Have fun!!
2007-09-16 11:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend and give this other guy a shot. You are just 15 for goodness sake. It's not like you are looking for a husband just yet. Since you have already started dating, you may as well date various guys and see what you are really looking for in the long term.
2007-09-16 11:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats quite a big age difference between you and your bf...(but age is only a number)but still hes turning 18 then i guess and will be temted with the new life style that will come his way....but the guy thats your age...you should find out from a friend if your friend likes you....and how much.wich guy can you see yourself with more?sorry i suc at explaining things but i know how you feel and i hate it...good luck!
2007-09-16 11:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Katelynn L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel more to him than your current boyfriend then be upfront.Tell your current boyfriend how you feel and if you both like each other be with him.but something you should never do is cheat on him that is the worst thing you can do. by telling him and breaking up early it spares more pain and heart ache in the future.BUT DO THAT SAPPY SAYING AND"follow your heart".
2007-09-16 11:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by kingml213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, it depends on how long you;ve been with your boyfriend..if its been over a year, then who knows maybe hes the right guy. but if your dreams are right, who knows maybe this mystery guy and you can actually have something. it all depends on who you feel makes you happier and more comfortable to be around.
2007-09-16 11:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by YADIGGGG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should make up a quiz all about you . Then you should test them to see who knows you better. Try to get there feelings out for you and like I said , see who knows you better.
2007-09-16 11:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r only 15... not like u gonna marry the current BF of urs...
I suggest the "dump" button.
2007-09-16 11:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kirin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with how you feel its really only a choice you can make you should find the one you like more and who also treats you the best cause they probably care bout u more
2007-09-16 11:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by fenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're too young for a relationship. keep the bf as a friend and enjoy fun with friends and new people.
2007-09-16 11:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋