Every day its sumtin differant he just wants and a wants and wants Its never nothing,He let his phone service go now he always has my cell phone all the time,He totally eats differant food then the rest of my family, He is always saying"I Want" its never "we" I know it should be about "US"why cant he see it this way. He pays his bills but isnt always helping when it comes to my bills,He lives with me.How do I tell him??Help I am having a hard time being firm with him or any one else in my family.I work F/T and take care of everybody he just drives us around and pays for his truck payment.How do I toughn up??
2007-09-16 05:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You either dump him now, or you will be taking care of him for the rest of your life. Pick one.
2007-09-16 05:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys just don't react the way they should. It sounds like you are doing the best job that you possibly can, so good job on that. The best way to toughen up is just to stick to your guns. If he is so picky about what he eats, tell him HE can cook. It sounds like he really doesn't have your best interest at heart. It is hard to say, and forgive me if this is offensive to you, but maybe he just isn't the right guy if he isn't willing to help you. If he really loves you, he would do more to help you out and show that love. You sound like a great person, and you deserve to be treated according to how hard you are working to make everything work out.
2007-09-16 12:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by Elder Swordsman11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U better be straight up with him right now and he needs to start being a man. Women are not suppose to support men! Tell him either start helping you starting now or he has to get out. Thats not fair to you and he's getting too comfortable!
2007-09-16 12:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♠♥His wifey♥♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first talk to him about it and tell him that you can't afford him anymore if he isn't willing to listen tell him to get out of your house since you pay all the bills
2007-09-16 17:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to say "No". Set some goals and work toward them. If his goals do not match yours, then he needs to leave.
2007-09-16 13:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by eei59aasd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your your bf is like my sises dump him right now hes hit her gave her a kid and there living in his parents house get out.
2007-09-16 12:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
uhhh dont do n e thing tat would make u 2 fite!
2007-09-16 12:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋