My boyfriend of almost 5 months and I broke up yesterday and it's absolutely killing me! What can I do to not feel so bad?
2007-09-16 04:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to a cool restaurant or go out somewhere fun with some close friends and have a ball. Try not to think about it. Don't stress yourself. Oh and uh ICE CREAM helps a lot. trust me.
2007-09-16 04:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by :-)cuz.im.loved.by.you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first assess how and why you guys broke up. Afterwhich, you must learn to let go and understand that there are things in life that is out of our control, as the only variable that we can and should control is ourselves. Next, talk to friends that can lift you up, comfort you and get your mood going; not just the kind of friends who invites you to get drunk and party because getting drunk will only heighten the feeling. Last but not the least, ask God to give you strength. If you dont believe that HE exist, then believe that you can overcome whatever trials and hardships that will come your way. If you seriously think that you've been good, and the break-up is not your fault; then by all means, think that it is not your lost, it's his. ;) God Bless
2007-09-16 05:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Marc C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sisters had emotional problems when they broke up with their boyfriends. They would be crying, just get stopped when another one of their girlfriends would call and the stream of water from the eyes would start again. Mom let this go on for about half a day, then she would look at them and say, "Pull up your big girl panties and deal with it!"
2007-09-16 04:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself busy. Spend time with friends, go out and have fun. Laugh a lot!! The best thing to do is make to make yourself busy and not think about what happened. You'll feel better with time and eventually you'll be able to move on. Feel better sweetie!
2007-09-16 04:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by mymacbookisahorcrux ツ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I am going through a lot of problems myself as far as relationships go. I know you have to feel like the pain will never go away, but it will get better. You have to believe that it will! I do not know what your spiritual beliefs are, but I would just give it to GOD, he will not lead you a stray.
Good luck in life!
2007-09-16 04:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way: you are an amazing girl, every guy should consider himself lucky to have you. and it's true, you must have some kind of amazing qualities that everybody should appreciate. and if your ex bf didn't that's his loss. you go out, and find a guy who does. this guy didn't deserve you. and don;t miss him, please, because guys come and go. and don't cry for a guy, when you find that special someone, you won't have to cry for him. good luck and heads up, you have a wonderful life ahead of you! enjoy it, and don't mind about the past. it's over, and there are some really great things looking ahead of you!
2007-09-16 04:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your girlfiends and go shopping... Go to a spa ... Get a massage.. Don't think about it. Find something to occupy your mind. Comedy movies... Kings of COmedy.. very good movie. 5 months isn't much to be all screwed up over... I was with mine for 2 years but I had to leave him no matter how much I loved him I had to let him go. He wasn't the one for me. I got over it you will too
2007-09-16 04:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by whiteroses202004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. You may not like to hear this but it took me several months to get over it. Especially as it was my first girlfriend.
The best thing to do is to keep away from him and remove him from your life and find someone else. When that happens you'll forget all about him, trust me ;)
2007-09-16 04:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up, and are felling bad?
The question is: Do you feel bad because you still love him, or do you feel bad for him?
If you still love him, you should make up with him. Even though he did something you can't approve to, you got to love the bad with the good. Nobody is perfect.
But if you feel bad for him, you should stop. Since you broke up with him, you were clearly unhappy. Are you to blame for wanting a happier life for youself?
2007-09-16 05:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by Feryx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ive always found it best to act as if you don't care, This helps you to ether confuse them or open there eyes and it really gets to guys when girls just tend to go on about there lives like nothing happened It tends to attack them back to you Its called revers sociology
2007-09-16 05:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋